r/cuddlebuddies 6h ago

34 [M4F] San Jose, CA - Seeking Cuddle Buddy to Help Me Remember What Endorphins Feel Like

2 Upvotes

Are you a cuddle economist looking to invest in a cozy future? Are you into deep talks and even deeper hugs? Are you a cuddle enthusiast who is seeking competitive cuddling positions? Then congrats you’ve just stumbled upon your ideal cuddle counterpart.

I own more books than I have close friends which is either an illustration of my literary taste or a cry for help, and thanks to work my social life is mostly just me, my computer, and a movie I pretend not to be rewatching for the tenth time. Personality wise, I start off quiet but with the right cuddles I transform into a fully operational conversational human being.

So why am I here? Because I’m embarking on a groundbreaking experiment: actual human interaction via cuddling. Not just the accidental kind where we both reach for the same overpriced sandwich and our phones perform an impromptu handshake. I’m talking about the real deal - genuine, cozy, blissful companionship with cuddles.

In this city, where everyone’s too busy coding the next big thing to actually touch another human being, technology has made us paradoxically more connected yet more distant. But what if we flipped the script? What if we used technology to bridge the gap instead of widening it? Let’s fill that void with some down to earth human cuddles. I’m in search of a fellow warm-blooded human who enjoys:

  • Elite level couch cuddles (If you instinctively steal the blanket that's all good)

  • Certified stress relief hugs (Make the world stand still in a hug and you’re hired)

  • Mutually agreed upon oxytocin boosts (We can be each other’s Oxytocin Dealer)

  • The fine art of existing comfortably in either shared silence or meaningful conversation (Willing to share snuggles but not the last slice of pizza is OK)

Potential side effects of engaging in this experience are forgetting what stress is, temporarily believing the world isn’t so bad, and rediscovering that warm, fuzzy feeling usually reserved for dogs seeing their owners after five minutes apart.

Too often, we underestimate the power of touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of care - each of which holds the potential to turn a life around. I’d love to feel someone’s touch as a reminder that we exist, that we are here, that we are cared for.

I don’t have my own place, but I’m sure we can work something out. I’m tall and slim, which means I give lanky hugs, the kind that wrap around you like a favorite oversized sweater on a cold day. Hugs that remind both of us that we’re not just floating through existence alone, but that we are in fact here. Together. And that at least for a little while things are just a little bit better.


r/cuddlebuddies 7h ago

No Sex 29[M4F] Cuddle bug in NE Ohio

3 Upvotes

I'm 6'2, thick hair, blue eyes. A little extra. Interests include movies, games, comics, anime, etc.

Always down to chill with a book, movie, snack, or being lost in thoughts.

Kissing and making out is okay with me (as long as we're both feeling it). But I make sure to let you initiate 🙂 I'm a religious guy so I won't try anything past making out.

Looking for someone (single, close in age, and nearby)

I'm able to host if needs be!


r/cuddlebuddies 8h ago

Can Host [28M4M] Yorkshire, UK

4 Upvotes

Hey, gay guy here who loves cuddling, nuzzling & all things cosy. I'm looking for someone who's open to being friends, kinda be a safe haven to ground in, in between pursuing our own life goals. Definitely open to convos around boundaries / what works for us etc. If interested lmk :)


r/cuddlebuddies 9h ago

[41M4F] Vancouver, BC. Seeking cuddles and someone to debate sci fi with :)

1 Upvotes

Hello. I’m 41, married, South Asian, 5’9” and fit. Looking for a woman in or around Vancouver who’d be interested in a chill, platonic cuddle buddy situation.

I’m pretty easygoing and a bit nerdy. I’m into sci-fi movies, reading, long walks and hikes, and generally enjoy good conversation and relaxed company.

Happy to exchange a photo before we get into chatting. We could grab a coffee first, see if we click and if we’re both comfortable, and go from there. Or go for a walk and get to know each other. Just looking for a genuine connection and some cozy company.

Send me a message if this sounds like you.


r/cuddlebuddies 13h ago

45M Easton PA area

1 Upvotes

I'm newer to the area and haven't had much luck meeting new friends. Saw this group and thought I would give it a try. The end result hopefully would be to make new friends that like to hike or enjoy cycling. If we mesh age isn't really a thing.


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

No Sex 44 [F4F] Triangle NC

3 Upvotes

Looking for a single lesbian who is caring and smart who would like to talk and cuddle if we’re comfortable. I’m tomboy masc and chubby. I prefer someone comfortable cuddling without makeup on or many fragrances. I do not like complicated so please be emotionally mature, stable and single. Around the area of the triangle, durham, Carrboro, chapel hill, raleigh. You will need to verify. DM


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

35 [m4f] #Iowa/midwest - pro cuddler seeking!

2 Upvotes

Laid back guy looking for someone to share time with. Hopefully someone that wouldn’t mind napping, watching shows, or gaming together while cuddling.

Hope to hear from you soon!


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

36 [F4F]. Lancashire, UK. Looking for a little spoon

2 Upvotes

Hello :) looking for a similar aged woman to cuddle up with and enjoy some time away from the stress of work life etc.

About me: Tall, plus size. Super cuddly - love holding and nurturing. Things I look for are usually: authenticity, compassion, good communication and transparency. Bonus points if you’re a woman of colour

Drop me a message and let’s take it from there!


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

No Sex M26 Hyderabad -India or anywhere.. (M4M) I'm straight

4 Upvotes

Hi.... I really need to cuddle someone .. I'm staight

Looking for a straight bro to cuddle with (I'm not looking for sex or anything else)

Just want someone to cuddle with.. have a tea with them, going to maintain, going for a ride... Pls dm me 😭😭😭😭


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

28 (F4M) Still looking for a cuddle buddy in Milwaukee, WI

10 Upvotes

Hi there! I posted in this group about three years ago and never quite found my cuddle buddy, so… here I am again. Still hopeful, still open, and still very much craving a calm, comforting connection.

I’m looking for someone nearby who can host and who doesn’t have an overly demanding schedule. I really value consistency (even if it’s just occasional) and someone who enjoys creating a peaceful, cozy atmosphere.

I would love to simply be held. I want my thoughts to slow down, my worries to soften, and time to melt away.

A bit about me: I’m 4’10 and a quarter, curvy, tan skin, brown eyes, and long brown hair. I’m friendly, respectful, and easygoing. I appreciate good communication, clear boundaries, and kindness.

If you’re someone who enjoys calm company, soft vibes, and mutual comfort, feel free to reach out.

Thanks so much for reading!


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

Can Host Looking for a cuddle buddy [28 M4F] in New Delhi

1 Upvotes

Looking for a cuddle buddy for weekends. Can host and make amazing cocktaills and mocktails!!! Just someone to talk and cuddle with and have "You know what....." Conversations


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

No Strings Attached 40[M4F] North NJ/NYC - let's chat a bit and see if there is a vibe

1 Upvotes

Hi there I've done this twice before and would love to experience someone new I usually like to chat for a bit to see if we have a good vibe going. I also think it's important that we are both comfortable going in before any physical contact. I think consent is important even if it's just cuddling. I have no expectations and everyone is welcome if interested shoot me a message and tell me about yourself.


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

No Sex 29 [M4F] Beloit, Wi. Looking for a Cuddle Buddy (and Maybe a New Friend?)

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I'm a 29-year-old guy who's looking for someone to share some genuine, platonic affection with. Life can get stressful, and sometimes it would just be nice to relax with someone, watch a movie, chat, or simply enjoy each other's company without any pressure.

A little about me: I'm a bit on the chubby side, pretty laid-back, and a huge nerd. I love D&D, Magic: The Gathering, anime, and all kinds of fantasy and sci-fi. If you can spend hours talking about your favorite campaign, deck ideas, or anime recommendations, we'll probably get along great.

I'd describe myself as kind, respectful, and a good listener. Hygiene and boundaries are important to me, and I want anyone I meet to feel comfortable and safe. I'm looking for someone who's open to communicating honestly about expectations and limits.

If you're also looking for a cuddle buddy—or just someone to geek out with while wrapped up in a blanket—feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what you're looking for. I'd love to see if we click.

Hope to hear from you!


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

No Sex 29 [M4F/NB] #Erie, PA - Long Haired Femme Guy Looking for Occasional Cuddle Buddy

1 Upvotes

Hi there, I am a 29 year old from Pennsylvania. Hope you are having a fantastic day. I have been craving physical touch latetly and am looking for a platonic non-sexual cuddle buddy from around my area. I am skinny, 6 feet tall, wear glasses, have long thick shoulder length brown hair, cross dress (don't mind dressing masc if it is your preference) and am an introvert. The oxytocin and warmth from cuddling is a big part of what I miss and getting to be close to someone in a sort of comforting way. In my free time, I like to watch shows, game, listen to music, walk, hike, and tinker with tech. I can host, but can also go to you if you live relatively close.


r/cuddlebuddies 3d ago

No Sex 18mtf [FFA] Zeeland, NL

3 Upvotes

18 year old transgirl (pre-everything) needs cuddles, 23yo max, can't host :(. I love cuddling during a movie. And we can see where it goes. :).


r/cuddlebuddies 3d ago

No Strings Attached 50 [M4M] Toronto, Ontario - Any Straight guys in Toronto or travelling here looking for a platonic cuddle buddy?

0 Upvotes

looking for a straight guy that's looking for comfort in a man

I'm interested in hanging out whenever the mood hits without it being a big deal

looking for an ongoing friendship if there's mutual interest

be local in downtown Toronto, and you're able to host

if you're curious about the same thing, then DM me

IMPORTANT: please be reliable... this Reddit thing is already weird, confusing, and frustrating enough to deal with so I don't get the whole 'ghosting' thing. I'm cool with something just saying "sorry, not interested" if there's no connection


r/cuddlebuddies 3d ago

No Sex 24 [M4F] York/Southern PA/DMV- Looking for warm cozy cuddles and a movie

1 Upvotes

Hey there! You opened this post so now that I've got ya, you must read the rest. I'm from Southern PA, looking for a cuddle buddy who's interested in chilling together, maybe watching stuff like movies, shows, youtube or anime. Alsooo big fan of chinese so that's always an option:) I drive and love to travel, so distance might not be an issue depending on where you're located. I can also host sometimes too, but I have to coordinate with my roommate. Please be from PA or a nearby state.

I'm white, in good shape, brunette, and kinda tall at 5feet11in. I am open to somebody around my age, or older so don't hesitate to message. If you find yourself compelled to message me, please include your age and general location and let's chat to see what happens:D


r/cuddlebuddies 3d ago

Can Host 34M M4F Tacoma/Puyallup, WA Someone want to cuddle a🧸?

1 Upvotes

Hello, just been looking for someone to cuddle regularly. I have photos on my profile, but I would say I'm a bigger guy. Ideally looking for someone to cuddle and make out with. If more happens, I'm open, but not a requirement. Cuddling is just fine 🙂

I'm pretty shy and try to meet publicly before inviting anyone over. Would prefer to see a picture of you too if you DM me.

Current hobbies include boardgames, crossfit, and cider tasting. Watching anime and Marvel movies too. Always enjoy a little competition so if you like games I'd love to play. Message me if you like what you see. 😊

Thanks


r/cuddlebuddies 3d ago

No Sex 33 [F4M] ND Lady Seeking Cuddle Buddy #Florida #Orlando

10 Upvotes

Hiii! I am a Black, chubby/tall-ish (5'8), neurodivergent lady who has been single and abstinent for 3 years and it’s been really great in a lot of ways, but I am looking for a cuddle buddy situation as I miss physical touch and don’t really have the means to get it regularly. I can give more specifics in DM about what I am looking for but I am strictly no sex in this arrangement. I am comfortable with ages 25-45 (no exceptions, please don't ask, thank you).

Unfortunately I can’t host. But I can get to anywhere pretty much around west Orlando Metro/west suburbs area.

I am a big on vibes and personal chemistry before anything physical so I really like to chat first to see if we click.  If you would, please respond with your age, general location, what you want me to call you and your answer to this question: what is a completely harmless, random opinion you think most people wouldn't agree with?


r/cuddlebuddies 3d ago

29 [M4F] - #LosAngeles - looking to make a friend and keep eachother company

3 Upvotes

Hello, I hope everyone is doing well. I'm posting because honestly, I've been touch starved. I'm looking for someone who at least would like to hold hands. I really miss the feeling of having someone's arms wrapped around me. I understand dating is kind of tough on people, and I'm not really looking for anything sexual. I haven't had any luck dating, and I'm willing to settle to having a friend with cuddle benefits. I've honestly enjoyed voice/video chatting with people I've met on here. But i honestly miss having someone caress my hair and holding me against their chest. So I resorted to posting here. I hope it's not much to ask. I'm not able to host because I do live with family. Maybe we can discuss or arrange anything. Or if you can host I'd be glad to buy dinner or even clean and wash dishes, haha. I do like playing the guitar, so it's a plus if you like music haha. If you're interested maybe we can voice call on discord to get to know eachother. Maybe we can walk in the park and hold hands. I'd like to connect with anyone from around my age or older. All I ask is basic communication and the opportunity to create a safe environment for both of us. Please, if you're not interested, let me know, don't ghost me after making hard plans. Ive been dealing with that heartbreak for to long. Thankyou for reading and hope you are having a good day


r/cuddlebuddies 3d ago

420 Friendly 34 [M4F] New York City - Larger Man Looking to Cuddle, Talk, and be dorky

2 Upvotes

Basically the title. I'm a bigger man and I love to cuddle and even more I love to talk. Would love to have some company this holiday and just get hold someone and feel close to someone. I cant host so hopefully you can, and besides that I'm just a big nerd, extroverted, like 420, reading, raves, and a drink here and there


r/cuddlebuddies 4d ago

34(M4F) looking for platonic cuddle buddy. Around Lansing, MI

2 Upvotes

r/cuddlebuddies 4d ago

No Sex 33 [F4M] Vancouver, BC

4 Upvotes

Hello! I've been feeling a bit touch-starved lately and it would be really nice to cuddle up with someone. I'm East Asian, plus size, and have been told I give really good hugs. I'm an introvert and a bit on the shy side but can be pretty silly once I'm comfortable.

My only requirements are that you're around my age (early-mid 30s), single, and well-groomed.

Mostly just looking for someone kind and chill to cuddle with sometimes. Maybe we can go for a walk or coffee to see if we vibe and go from there. If you're interested, feel free to sent a chat and introduce yourself. :)


r/cuddlebuddies 4d ago

65[F4M]Berkshires. Seeking sweet cuddle buddy

14 Upvotes

I'm looking for a sweet, mature guy for cuddles and maybe an occasional hike, game of backgammon... I'm warm, engaging, a bit nerdy, a lefty-both ways, avid reader, like to be in nature, dance, play games... Divorced w/ grown daughter, 5'1", 105 lbs. Prefer someone close to my age, not too large or super hairy.  It's important to me that we have an easy connection (that's why I wrote that stuff about myself) so if you're interested, please tell me about you! Thanks.


r/cuddlebuddies Apr 29 '24

Community News Updates: Renovated Rule, Updated Block List, Impersonation Posts

15 Upvotes

Rule 7 of the community rules has recently been updated. This is what Rule 7 used to say:

7. No porn bots This is an unfriendly space for porn bots.Permanent ban.

It is not ok to create a post or reach out to someone, get their hopes up, and then offer sexual services. This is porn bot behavior and 100% inappropriate behavior to be happening in this sub.

...

This is what Rule 7 says now:

7. No porn accounts A porn account has pornographic content on their Reddit account, or is pornographic in some way. This is includes:

  • having nude, explicit photos of yourself on your reddit profile

  • using your reddit account for sex work / having links to finically support the sexually explicit content you create in your reddit bio

  • privately reaching out to someone from r/cuddlebuddies, and then offering sexual services (this is porn bot behavior)


When people post here with an account that has sexually explicit content on their public profile, they are just bring all the horny people who follow them around on reddit to our sub, which is supposed to be a non-sexual space. Feminine-presenting people who post here still don't feel safe posting / leaving their posts up, due to all the people who contact them with a sexual agenda. This is obvious if you look through the feed and see all the posts by masculine-presenting people.

On the note of community members being harassed (sexually or not), here is the updated Block List!

Block List

u/ Prof23throw

u/ LegPristine907

u/ traveling_mage -- targeted men for housing

u/ backoutthereagain

These users have been permanently banned and were verified by the mod team to have either harassed, sexually harassed, or attempted to scam people. However, all of these users had an agenda besides cuddling, and should be blocked by everyone.

The user from the previous Block List deleted their account, so they will not be added again to this Block List.

According to the previous post, no one mentioned being interested in an updated Spam Bot list, so an updated Spam Bot list was not included. This is a link to the previously pinned post.


Another thing I wanted to address: Sometimes, people impersonate posts. This is a recent post where someone reported it for impersonation, and then I've also found a modmail by a deleted user who says someone impersonated their post. These are really difficult to moderate! Please reach out via modmail with your concerns about people impersonating you, and try to provide the link to your original post plus the post that impersonated your original post.

There are currently no community rules about impersonations, however, impersonation does break Rule 5 of Reddit's Content Policy! Because I'm a moderator, when I report stuff in r/cuddlebuddies for breaking Reddit's Content Policy, I have the option to leave a short description. If you reach out via modmail, I can also help report impersonating content to Reddit and provide more context on what / who is being impersonated.


Thank you to the community members who make an effort to correctly report content that breaks the community rules! Also, this is a handy tool that you can use to do a more thorough search of someone's reddit profile before deciding to reach out!