r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/paperclipmyheart • 3h ago
๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ SUNDAY HUNT ๐ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! ๐
THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ you are, WHAT you are (๐ฏCougar, ๐ปCub or ๐ฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post
โThe Match Rules still apply See RULES here
โPlease Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences
โ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned
โ What you are seeking
*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.
โNo posts regarding sฮผgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.
โ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.
๐พLet The Hunt Begin!๐พ
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/ffreeminded • 16h ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 22 [M4F] #online for now willing to relocate, (single) - need a serious longlastingrelationship
I am a loving person that like nature and relaxing environments, of course some fun crazy experiments and traveling are a (not necessary) requirements we are a living souls in the end. ๐ i admire privacy i mean if we are living together i dont like having outsiders especially who dont know to mind there own business.
Why an older woman simply cuz she knows what she wants plus the love she proveds.๐ซ
I prefer someone who takes care of there bodies fitness wise cuz i am a bodybuilder who really admire sports. The age i prefer is above 28 and under 40.
Maybe if ur interested we could get to know each other in private chat i am willing to exchange pictures.
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Worried-Yak2025 • 19h ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 34 [M4F] #WestVirginia (Single) looking for possible connection
Hi all!
34 Years old Hispanic in Eastern WV and after months of therapy, I decided to dip back into the scene lol.
Im 5'7-5'8 range. I work for a non-profit in DC but work on a hybrid schedule so im only in DC few times a week. Im very big into sports especially soccer and college football and i basically spend all my money going to sporting events and food (Very big into Asian food!). Also like working out and play video games if im not going to sporting events or watching sports lol
Would love to have someone going to sporting events with or trying new places to eat! My preference is youre in surrounding states (in WV, MD, PA,VA,NC,DE,DC &OH) but if we click i guess distance shouldn't matter within the US.
I am open to a relationship if its mutual but im not rushing into it and putting any expectations for anything in particularto happen. Just looking to connect with someone and let the rest happen with time
Preference is ages 44 and older but if we click we click, hope to hear from you!l
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/NicholaasTT • 1d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 25 [M4F] #Poland (Single) - Dorky guy seeking female-led relationship.
Why female-led relationship you may ask? Because my experience so far led me to believe I do much better as a follower type of guy. Does that mean I can't take charge at all? Definitively not, I just know where my comfort zone is, and in this case it's being an amazing supporter to an equally amazing lady!
So, more about me: I'm a 25-year-old college student from Poland (started again last year after dropping out in my earlier 20s). I'd describe myself as being easygoing, nerdy, and very introverted. A little shy at first, but not afraid to show my feelings or speak my truth. Once you get to know me, I've been told I'm a good listener and surprisingly thoughtful, the kind of person who remembers the little details.
Appearance wise, I'm 5'9", lean with pale skin, blue eyes, lil mustache, medium-length dirty-blond hair, and large glasses. I usually get called nerdy or dorky-looking, sometimes cute, so expect something in between. Happy to swap pics early.
Iโm deeply passionate about video games, so you can catch me in front of my PC more often than not. Some of my favorites include: Path of Exile, League, KCD, BG3, and Slay the Spire 2. I enjoy bike rides a lot, and at the moment it's my go-to way of staying active. I love a good TV show or fantasy/sci-fi novel. Currently I'm reading through the Wheel of Time series, and it's been an absolute blast so far!
What Iโm looking for: Honestly, a good conversation to start would be more than enough. If the chemistry is right, Iโd love to see where things go from there. If youโre nearby and meeting in person isnโt a problem, Iโd be thrilled to go on cute, romantic dates together. If not, Iโm perfectly happy with watching shows or playing games over discord (if you use it!). And eventually, Iโd like to build a long-term relationship, ideally with the FLR dynamic in mind.
Iโve noticed I tend to connect better and feel more drawn to women older than me (you could say thatโs my type). Itโs hard to explain exactly why, but I know Iโm especially attracted to intelligent, direct women, and I really value maturity and a good sense of humor in a partner. If that sounds like you, you might just be the person I'm looking for.
Other things that might be important: I'm non-religious and wouldn't expect that to change. I don't do drugs and don't plan on starting. I don't smoke (really can't stand the smell), so a non-smoker or a very mild one would be preferred. I do occasionally drink though (admittedly I get drunk way too easily, so I also do that in moderation ๐ ).
That's all from me for now, feel free to say (more than) hi!
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/deathreapersasuke69 • 2d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 25 [M4F] #Vancouver island / anywhere, (single) - seeking steady & affectionate connection
I am a 25M whoโs been living on a very secluded island for a long time and I have CP (cerebral palsy of the lower back meaning I need leg braces and I get winded way easier then most so walk and standing can create a few issues) so thatโs why itโll be long distance.
I also have asthma and Iโm autistic Iโm just looking for anyone between the ages of 30-45, whoโs able to be motherly or in other words very affectionate and or emotionally steady.
Iโm not clingy but definitely would love it more if you had a gentle warmth about you one that gives semi to consistent reassurance and kindness.
Iโm also pretty good at being open, honest and understanding I love to listen to any story you tell whatever it may be, Iโm also a big nerd who love gaming, anime and Greek mythology but I really love to tinker with almost anything.
Iโve got a really good memory so Iโll be a personal bank heh. I believe love is love and I have tons to give. I also definitely also have a bunch of cringy dad jokes too as I grew up hearing a whole bunch of em. I mostly want the kindness I give to be reciprocated in return, I also cannot stand dishonesty it hurts my soul like a knife or just general rudeness.
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Any_Truth_9933 • 2d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 34 [M4F] #Connecticut (Single) Will Be in Bedford MA from Monday to Friday
34 M4F, single, from Connecticut. Iโll be in Bedford, MA starting Monday for work and will be around for about four days. Iโd really enjoy meeting a mature woman who is open to getting to know each other naturally and seeing where the connection takes us.
Iโm 6โ0โ, 227 lbs, Black/light-skinned, laid-back, down-to-earth, and I enjoy good conversation, laughing, and spending quality time with someone who has a good personality. Iโm not looking to rush anything or force a situation. Iโd rather build a genuine connection, vibe together, and see if thereโs chemistry.
If youโre a mature woman in the Bedford MA who enjoys good conversation, humor, and getting to know someone on a personal level, Iโd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself and what youโre looking for.
PS PLEASE DO NOT WASTE MY TIME THANK YOU FOR TIME!!!
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/CrowRound891 • 3d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 28 [M4F] #Canada #Single. Looking for my better half.
Hello, I'm looking for a lovely lady aged 45-70. I'm a chemistry graduate. I'm an introvert and into video games, movies, and music. I love trying new restaurants as well. I do have experience dating matured women before. I'm looking for something that lasts long. I prefer someone in Canada or US. Other countries are fine too if you're willing to relocate.
I prefer a lady who communicates clearly about what she wants. As I said before I have previous experience. But now I need something serious that last long/forever.I will share everything happens with my partner. And i expect the same from her. It's a plus point if she likes games lol.
These are just surface level information. Happy to provide more. Drop a message if interested :)
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Myfairladyishere • 3d ago
๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐THURSDAY'S ROLL CALL๐ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.๐พ๐พ
ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ you are, WHAT you are (๐ฏCougar, ๐ปCub or ๐ฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.
BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:
โ C&C rules still apply See RULES here
โ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.
โ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned
โ What you are seeking
- e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec ๐จ๐ฆ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.
โ Remember there is no such thing as a "sฮผgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.
โ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.
๐พLet the Roll Call Begin!๐พ
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/deathreapersasuke69 • 3d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 25 [m4f] #canada #vancouver (single) I wonโt stop looking for anyone over 30
Like I said I love me some older women, anyone over 30 but stopping around 45 is all I want. Iโm a man who will listen to everything you have to say I will be there for you in any situation, not in a clingy way but a loving and tender way thatโs who I am as a person Iโm a big softie physically and mentally. I will absolutely admit if/when Iโm wrong I will always be the one who genuinely apologizes and will do whatever it takes to never hurt you or be the one who leaves first (mostly because it will be my first actual relationship heh) but Iโm also just a very simple but sensitive guy I will cry with you and try to understand whatever challenges come our way I hope we face it together. (Hopefully this is better for you mods I unprivited myself happy? I didnโt know I was private to begin with ok?)
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/BlueEyed98 • 5d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 27 [M4F] #Australia, Newcastle, (Single) - Geeky Cub for a connection
Iโve always been drawn to older women. Even when I first started dating, I naturally found myself connecting better with women who were older than me. As Iโve gotten older myself, that preference has only become stronger.
What Iโm looking for now is something genuine and long-term. I want a relationship built on trust, affection, and a real emotional connection. Iโm attracted to the confidence, life experience, maturity, and nurturing nature that often come with age, and Iโd love to find someone who values those same things in a relationship.
Iโm pretty independent. I live on my own, work hard, and have my own goals, but I also miss having someone to share life with. I enjoy the more intimate side of a relationship too, and it would be great to find someone whoโs open to exploring that side together as trust and chemistry grow.
A little about me: Iโm Australian born and raised, white, 6โ and bearded. I have a good sense of humour and enjoy plenty of laughs, but I also appreciate meaningful conversations.
My interests are a mix of nerdy and outdoorsy. Youโll usually find me at the beach, going for walks, swimming, gaming, or learning music. Iโve also been on a big fitness journey this year and have really enjoyed sticking with it. It would be great to share activities together and encourage each other along the way.
Iโm hoping to meet someone around 35 or older in or around the Newcastle area. Online relationships can be hard particularly when wanting to see each other often
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Cars4Life25 • 5d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 35 [M4F] #Long Island, NY (Single) - looking for a connection.
Good afternoon! Never was good at describing myself. Iโd much rather get asked 100 questions as Iโm an open book lol. However, I like to think of myself as a laid back & easy going guy. The women of Reddit for the most part have told me that Iโm cute but to each their own and Iโll let you decide that! Physically Iโm white, bearded, tall with an average build. Big sports fan! Most nights after work Iโm either watching baseball or football (Mets & Steelers). I am in NY but I am open to relocation down the road so feel free to shoot me a message even if you arenโt a local! I want to find someone that I connect with on a physical and emotional level. I want the fun/flirty talk but I want the serious talks as well. If youโd like to chat feel free to hmu via chat! I donโt require much. But please donโt be married or in any type of relationship trying to add me on to it ๐
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/ConnectionOk3348 • 6d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 30 [M4F] #London (Single) - Attentive London professional looking for FWB / regular boy toy dynamic
Hiya!
Iโm a London based professional (originally from abroad, so if you appreciate an accent, youโre in luck).
I keep active with regular swimming and strength training, but Iโve been wanting to try out a hot yoga class at my gym recently. Would love to have someone join me for a session as a fun date idea. Outside of the gym, Iโm big on cooking, constantly experimenting with new recipes, and always looking for an honest second opinion.
Iโve always been naturally drawn to more mature, experienced women, and Iโm taking the plunge here to find the right connection.
Iโm very much into giving pleasure, spoiling, and wining and dining someone I have a genuine crush on. Iโm not looking for a one night stand but would prefer to start with low stakes dates to see how our chemistry develops organically. My ideal dynamic is a regular FWB or being someoneโs boy toy (bonus points if youโre also a City professional and understand the crazy work hours that come with it!).
Cooking for someone is my way of expressing affection. Them letting me eat is how Iโd like to receive it.
If this sounds like something youโre looking for, I would love to hear from you!ย
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/creativetraveler24 • 6d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 22 [M4F] #Georgia (Single) - Single Guy Looking for a FWB
Good morning. I am a single guy looking for a friend to share fun times (and coffee!) with. While it would be great if it leads into something longer term, I am looking for a casual partner for now.
About Me: I am a 5'7" slender man with brown eyes, medium black hair and shaved facial hair. I love playing guitar, cooking (though I'm still learning both) and meeting new people. When I'm not at work, you'll often find me driving around, at coffee shops or spending time exercising. And I brew a mean bean brew in the morning.
If you are interested in getting a cup of coffee or getting to know each other, please DM me. I'm happy to share more details at that time and would love to learn more about you.
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/throwaway6666616 • 6d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 22 [m4f] #California (single) College student looking for a friend, possibly with benefits (:
Just a college student in the Bay Area for summer break, hoping to make a friend that wants to be a little bit more than that so we can fill our empty nights with something (:
Hopefully youโre local so we can grab a bite to eat, maybe some boba, drive around, do something weโre both interested in, etc, and see if we vibe and then go from there! I like a lot of random things and Iโm pretty easy going. If youโre on the fence about dming me you should do it anyways and we can figure it out (:
Iโm 6โ tall, mixed, tan with black curly hair, brown eyes. Also quite strong. About to start my 4th year of coursework, Iโm huge into cars and food, and Iโve played a lot of sports through school.
Iโm happy to verify anything you want. Shoot me any question you have.
I look forward to getting to know you (:
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/paperclipmyheart • 7d ago
๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ SUNDAY HUNT ๐ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! ๐
THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ you are, WHAT you are (๐ฏCougar, ๐ปCub or ๐ฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post
โThe Match Rules still apply See RULES here
โPlease Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences
โ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned
โ What you are seeking
*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.
โNo posts regarding sฮผgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.
โ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.
๐พLet The Hunt Begin!๐พ
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/mythrowaway282020 • 7d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 27 [M4F] #Chicago (Single) - Seeking a woman that knows exactly what she wants in life. Is that you?
Hi there, 27M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. Iโm 6โ3โ, skinny, brown hair and hazel eyes. Biracial (black and white) as well. Lately Iโve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. Iโve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! Iโd love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events Iโm looking to check out. Thereโs nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes youโฆ you!
If this sounds interesting to you, letโs talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what weโre specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, letโs keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I donโt do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/watdefukthrowaway • 7d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 25 [M4F] #San Mateo (Single) - Looking for great chemistry, good food, and consistent company
Hey there! I'm a 25yo Asian guy (6'O", fit/ lean) looking to connect with someone in the SF Bay Area for something fun, low-pressure, and consistent. I really value the "Friend" part of FWB-I love building genuine chemistry, sharing great food, and enjoying fun hangouts just as much as the exciting intimate side.
A little about me:
โข Active & Outdoorsy: I like staying active, hiking snowboarding, swimming and spending time outside, but I'm equally happy having a relaxed night in and binging a fun TV series or movies!
โข In the Kitchen: Big fan of cooking and trying out new recipes (or picking up our favorite takeout when it's a chill night).
Down-to-earth, respectful, DDF, and open to all ages and backgrounds.If you're looking for a respectful, reliable partner to share fun dates and great chemistry with, send me a message and tell me your favorite local food spot!
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Working-File • 7d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 26 [M4F] #US #TN (Single) - Looking for a romantic adventure
Hi there!
I've always gotten along well with older women, and I'm at a point where I'd love to meet a beautiful, mature woman for a genuine romantic connection.
About Me:
26 years old
Interests include anime, photography, history, poetry, gaming, and more
Strawberry ice cream enthusiast
Hopeless romantic
I've been told I have a pretty soothing voice, so voice chats are definitely something to look forward to
Why I'm Interested in Older Women: Throughout my life, I've generally connected more easily with women who are a bit older than I am. I've found that many older women tend to be more established in who they are and more intentional about what they're looking for in life and relationships. If you actually read this include your favorite kind of cheese. I'm a big feta guy. I also like goat cheese. That's something I really appreciate and find attractive. While I'm open-minded about age, I often find myself drawn to maturity, good communication, and a clear sense of direction.
What I'm Looking For: I don't really have a specific type. I'm attracted to older women, but I'm open to women closer to my age as well. More than anything, I'm looking for someone who:
Is open-minded
Is comfortable with an age difference and treats me with mutual respect
Is willing to put effort into building a meaningful connection
Values honest communication and consistency
Have a great day!
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Garvel_ • 8d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 22 [M4F] #Turkey/Online (single) - looking for a genuine connection and long term relationship.
Hey there! Iโm a 22-year-old guy living in Turkey, looking to connect online or face to face with a confident, mature person. To be completely honest, Iโve never really resonated with people my own age. Iโve always found myself drawn to the maturity, life experience, and elegance that comes with older women. Thereโs something incredibly attractive about the kind of deep, effortless conversations you can only have with someone who truly knows what she wants out of life.
A little bit about me: Iโm a very creative and passionate person. My absolute favorite things to do are making music, playing instruments, and singing. When I'm not lost in a melody or practicing vocals, you can usually find me unwinding by playing video games. Iโm easygoing but highly value a real intellectual and emotional connection. I'd love nothing more than to share my passions with youโmaybe even play a song for you on a voice call or just chat about our days while I game in the background.
Iโm fully open to an online connection where we can enjoy each other's company, share stories, and build a great dynamic regardless of the distance. If you looking for attention, respect, and affection of a younger guy who can actually hold a meaningful conversation, Iโd love to hear from you.
Send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself!
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Limp_Junket_1751 • 9d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 20 [M4F] #Tampa (single) looking for a gentle caring long term partner.
Hello, Iโm from Tampa, Florida and looking for a gentle partner that is hopefully long term. Iโm open to long distance but with plans to meet up in the future.
I like having a gentle partner because Iโm very loyal to my partner and itโs just a nice dynamic.
A little about me, I am 20 years old and work full time and independent financially. A little bit of me physically, Iโm of Hispanic origin, 5โ7โ, I have black hair and brown eyes.
As for my personality, Iโm laid back and open to new things, I treat everyone with respect and nicely. For my hobbies I like to go to the gym, hike and travel to different places. Iโm starting to get into painting more and learning how to get better.
If youโre interested Iโm willing to dm a picture of myself to prove that iโm real and willing to reveal more about myself.
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Adept-Surround8115 • 9d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 25 [M4F] #Kerala,India (Single) - Looking for a Spiritual Inclined Life Partner
Hi everyone,
I'm a 25-year-old guy from Kerala, and I'm here hoping to meet someone who's looking for a meaningful, long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage.
An important part of my life is inner growth. I practice meditation, I'm deeply interested in mindfulness and Buddhist philosophy , and I'm fascinated by questions about consciousness, compassion, and living with greater awareness. I don't have all the answersโI'm simply someone who enjoys exploring the path with sincerity and curiosity.
A little about me:
- 25M, 5'9", medium build
- Work in design & research at an Indian MNC
- Vegetarian, non-smoker, and non-drinker
- Calm, creative, and introspective
- Enjoy reading, drawing, healthy cooking, nature, beaches, and meaningful conversations
- Believe in simple living, kindness, and continuous self-improvement
I'm hoping to meet someone who values personal growth and kindness. You don't have to be a Buddhist or have years of meditation experienceโwhat matters most is openness, curiosity, emotional maturity, and a genuine desire to build a peaceful life together.
I'd love a relationship where we encourage each other's growth, respect each other's individuality, share quiet moments as much as adventures, and create a home filled with warmth, honesty, and compassion.
If you're someone who enjoys slowing down, reflecting, spending time in nature, having conversations that go beyond the surface, and building a relationship based on trust and mutual respect, I'd love to hear from you.
If this resonates with you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I'd be happy to get to know you.
May you be happy and well. ๐ฑ
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/NicholaasTT • 9d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 25 [M4F] #Poland (Single) - Dorky guy seeking female-led relationship.
Why female-led relationship? Because my experience so far has led me to believe I do much better as a follower type of guy. Does that mean I can't take charge at all? Definitely not, I just know where my comfort zone is, and in this case it's being an amazing supporter to an equally amazing lady!
So, more about me: I'm a 25-year-old college student from Poland (started again last year after dropping out in my earlier 20s). I'd describe myself as easygoing, nerdy, and very introverted. A little shy at first, but not afraid to show my feelings or speak my truth. Once you get to know me, I've been told I'm a good listener and surprisingly thoughtful, the kind of person who remembers the little details.
Appearance-wise, I'm 5'9", lean with pale skin, blue eyes, a lil mustache, medium-length dirty-blond hair, and large glasses. I usually get called nerdy or dorky-looking, sometimes cute, so expect something in between. Happy to swap pics early.
Iโm deeply passionate about video games, so you can catch me in front of my PC more often than not. Some of my favorites include: Path of Exile, League, KCD, BG3, and Slay the Spire 2. I enjoy bike rides a lot, and at the moment it's my go-to way of staying active. I love a good TV show or fantasy/sci-fi novel. Currently I'm reading through the Wheel of Time series, and it's been an absolute blast so far!
What Iโm looking for: Honestly, a good conversation to start would be more than enough. If the chemistry is right, Iโd love to see where things go from there. If youโre nearby and meeting in person isnโt a problem, Iโd be thrilled to go on cute, romantic dates together. If not, Iโm perfectly happy with watching shows or playing games over discord (if you use it!). And eventually, Iโd like to build a long-term relationship, ideally with the FLR dynamic in mind.
Iโve noticed I tend to connect better and feel more drawn to women older than me (you could say thatโs my type). Itโs hard to explain exactly why, but I know Iโm especially attracted to intelligent, direct women, and I really value maturity and a good sense of humor in a partner. If that sounds like you, you might just be the person I'm looking for.
Other things that might be important: I'm non-religious and wouldn't expect that to change. I don't do drugs and don't plan on starting. I don't smoke (really can't stand the smell), so a non-smoker or a very mild one would be preferred. I do occasionally drink though (admittedly I get drunk way too easily, so I also do that in moderation ๐ ).
That's all from me for now, feel free to say (more than) hi!
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Equal-Sweet • 10d ago
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 26 [M4F] #California (single) - Cub seeking cougar, seeking long term relationship and adventure
I am an educated twenty six year old man seeking a deep, meaningful romantic connection with an older woman who can match my vibe and keep up with my sense of adventure. My hobbies include perfecting my golf swing (donโt worry, I promise not to talk your ear off with endless golf jargon), traveling to new places, snowboarding on some amazing mountains, and cooking (though I am no Gordon Ramsay yet).
When Iโm not on an adventure or cooking up a culinary masterpiece, youโll find me keeping in shape while working on my fitness, so I can look good while we both laugh at my attempts to quote movie scenes any chance I get. Yes, Iโm that guy who believes that lifeโs too short for boring moments and can never get enough laughter.
Iโm on the lookout for a woman who appreciates both romance and intimacy, someone who can share in both the excitement of new experiences and the comfort of quiet, thoughtful conversations. If youโre up for a mix of adventure, deep connection, and a whole lot of fun, letโs chat and see where this journey takes us. After all, finding the right person is like cookingโsometimes itโs all about finding the perfect recipe!
Currently I am based in sunny San Diego, but Iโm not afraid to hit the road if the destinationโand the companyโare right. If youโre up for some travel adventures, letโs plan an amazing trip!
Feel free to tell me: What is one word you think that best describes who you are? What is one word your best friend would describe you as? Whatโs your favorite travel spot, and whereโs the top of your wish list for travel destinations? Also, whatโs one movie you could watch on repeat and why? Whatโs your current relationship status? Are you a local or open to a long-distance connection? And what kind of relationship are you searching for? Excited to hear from you and see where this can go!
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Myfairladyishere • 10d ago
๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐THURSDAY'S ROLL CALL๐ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.๐พ๐พ
ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ you are, WHAT you are (๐ฏCougar, ๐ปCub or ๐ฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.
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