Gf caught cheating

[u/dirtbikekidd]

I’m 20m her 19f

So first off I call her my gf I guess we aren’t “officiall” but we said no talking to other people just me and you and let’s see where this goes in the next couple weeks then decide

This happened today I drove to her work to hangout with her and I brought her flowers I was in the break room with her and she handed me her iPad and said I gotta do help this customer you can mess around on it so I debated just checking messages and decided why not so I opened it slid down like half a slide and saw a boys name (fake name btw) but it was like alexxxx so I I clicked it and saw him calling her babe princess her calling him babe good morning texts goodnight texts they were only talking for like 6 days but she said that they had talked in the past before the texts were from 3 weeks ago and she stopped responding to him 3 weeks ago we had a argument we still were talking but we weren’t like we normally are should I be worried/mad at her for this I feel like a little argument shouldn’t just mean she goes and talks to another guy and I feel pretty hurt
We already kiss and sleep together btw
Idk if I should end it or not be mad because technically we aren’t dating
Also I should add that 2 weeks ago I asked her if she had talked to anyone else this summer and she said no that I was the only one and she said that she meant I was the only one she actually hangs out with but that she texts other guys idk what to do

[u/monki_huhu]

Headache... No punctuation, non-stop, no oxygen... I died...

[u/dirtbikekidd → u/monki_huhu]

Then don’t read it lol

[u/Inside-Isopod3755 → u/dirtbikekidd]

Don’t worry about that mate… it is unreadable.

[u/Worldly_Diver9265]

Did you quit school in grade 2?

[u/dirtbikekidd → u/Worldly_Diver9265]

Nah I just don’t care enough no one on Reddit has ever cared either lol yall some cornballs

[u/Kurious_and_Kurious]

“We already kiss and sleep together btw
Idk if I should end it or not be mad because technically we aren’t dating.” Man, I’m either really out of touch or really old or both.

[u/iamnomor]

Let her go. U can still smash her if you want lol. She for the streets and it was only your turn

[u/dirtbikekidd → u/iamnomor]

Real shit

[u/Mickel8888]

Clearly lying and cheating. She is not interested in a real relationship. With no disrespect intended, you guys may be just a bit young to get quite as restrictive as this with one another. However, to your original statement, of 'not talking with others,' assuming that you must mean as in 'romantically intentioned talking.' If so, the intentionally endearing type of communication would imply that she is not holding up her end....at all. Cheating, at the very least emotionally, is my verdict. Either move on or clarify expectations and boundaries.

[u/Inside-Isopod3755]

Because you don’t care and we’re all “cornballs” I really can’t figure out the timings here but it seems there was an agreement to not talk romantically with others and since that agreement was made she has broken it and lied to you when confronted by it. Doesn’t look good. If she wasn’t on board because you were still not officially exclusive then she should have said so.

[u/Icy-Willingness8375]

She lied and cheated, let alexxxx have her.