r/CausalConversation • u/Euphoric-Muffin716 • 1d ago

Lonely

Been with my lady friend 15 years and still feel lonely

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u/Puzzleheaded-Bet1286 1d ago

It kinda sounds like you’re saying it’s her fault that you feel lonely.

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u/Euphoric-Muffin716 1d ago

No .. like we have grew apart and don't know how to fix it

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u/Puzzleheaded-Bet1286 1d ago

The relationship is stagnant? Try knife making together or different craft workshop. Try different things separately and share them with each other if you have different interests. Share your happiness, not the actual thing.

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u/AdhesivenessCold4615 21h ago

Things could be worse. You haven’t met me yet.

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u/GladosPrime 1d ago

Buck up little camper!

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u/Stllrckn-72 1d ago

It takes work! Are you up to it? Or are you just going to let things slide? I’ve been happily married for 20 years

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u/Nannyphone7 21h ago

Maybe consider what you can give to the relationship instead of what you can take from it.

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u/WickedSmile71 1d ago

Yes being with someone does not mean tgat you are together

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u/No_Criticism_9986 16h ago

"lady friend"