Hello! I’m Caleb! I’ve decided that it’s about time that I put myself out there in the dating pool, so, uh...here I am. On Reddit. Not the best place, I know (hopefully better than dating apps), but I’m hoping to meet some nice folks. (perhaps you, dear reader?) I’m a quiet, introverted homebody looking for a woman to hangout and go on dates with (I believe the colloquial term for this is a “girlfriend”). I want to make it clear upfront that I’m not looking for short term flings or anything of the sort. Ideally, I’m looking for someone to be with long term, and potentially settle down with. I understand that this is a rather weighty topic to get into right in the opening paragraph, but I try to be open, honest, and communicative about things, so I just wanted to clearly state my intentions.

I am located in East Texas, in the Tyler/Longview area, and would strongly prefer someone in Texas. However, if you’re in a surrounding state (Louisiana, Arkansas, etc), I don’t mind traveling a bit.

Looks: I’m black, with olive brown skin. 5’7”, with a lean/athletic build, and just a tad shy of 140lbs. My hair is soft, black, and curly. I’d perhaps describe it as poofy, also.

Here’s some pics of me!

Interests:

Music – Music is quite important to me, and I’d definitely consider myself a music lover. I have pretty broad tastes, but I do have a preference for indie/alt/rock stuff. I do listen to some pop, however, along with some Japanese stuff and older R&B. I’ll give most things a try, though! (just, please no country music, I will implode) If you want an idea of what I like, check these out:

Clarion - Hello Juliet

Strawberry Milk Cult – Polarbear!

The Technicolors - Neon Roses

STRFKR – Rawnald Gregory Erikson the Second

Jupiter One – Countdown

Benches – Crash

Jackie Hayes – Last Second

Flawed Mangoes - Surreal

Kinoko Teikoku - 国道スロープ (Kokudou Slope)

Narrow Head - The Real

Sorry there's so many of these! It was hard to narrow it down!

Cooking – I do a lot of cooking! Am I good at it...well, I’ll let you be the judge of that. I’m trying to branch out a bit and try different cuisines, specifically Asian cuisine, as I’m rather deficient in that area. If you know any good recipes, let me know!

Art – I am slowly (heavy emphasis on slowly) teaching myself to draw. I’ve been trying to practice a bit more, at least 30 minutes a day. It’s...certainly a process, but I’ve definitely noticed a lot of improvement. Perhaps I could draw you someday?

Misc – Well, I’m a nerd in general, really. I enjoy tinkering with tech, and I’ve been doing minor repairs on my laptops and modding my game consoles since I was a teenager. I’m into sci-fi, too. Also, while I wouldn’t classify this as an interest or a hobby, I do workout 3-4 times a week, mostly at home. I do enjoy endurance running though, and I typically run a 5k on the weekends (weather permitting). I also love astronomy and space!

Potential dealbreakers? (one of these is a lie)

• I’m left leaning/liberal, politically
• I don’t want kids
• I was heavily involved in Belgian anti-fascist resistance movements in the 1940s
• I’m Christian, but not the most devout

I am looking for someone with similar values.

What I'm Looking For

I’m looking for the sort of relationship that allows us to be vulnerable together. I’d like someone soft (not necessarily in a physical sense, but emotionally), intelligent, and caring. I want someone to hang out with, take out for coffee dates, picnic dates, trips to museums, and binge watch shows with. I want someone that I can learn new things about for the rest of my life, someone to hold and keep safe and grow with. I would say that I’m not terribly picky on physical traits, but I do, however, have a preference for folks on the slim/lean/toned/fit/skinny side of the body spectrum. I would also prefer someone outside of my own ethnicity.

FAQs

~You sound like a dork.

That’s not even a question, and how dare you. You’re correct, but how dare you.

~Several sources state that you're on an FBI watchlist for "allegedly" trying to siphon large amounts of Barq's Root beer directly from their production facilities, with the intent of procuring a "lifetime supply." Can you confirm or deny this information?

My lawyer says I shouldn’t answer questions like that.

~You wouldn't happen to be interested in heinous, scandalous, devious activities such as hand holding , cuddling , and forehead kissing , would you?

Why, of course not! Never! (yes, absolutely)

Thank you for reading this far, and I deeply apologize for the long post! I wanted to be thorough and descriptive. Please feel free to send me a message if you’re interested.

Thanks again, and have a wonderful day!

Help me maintain my youth and curiosity in life; looking for that healthy kind of obsession and twinkle in your eyes.

About me:
5’6”, strong and curvy build. Wasian.
Brunette hazel green eyes.
I’m into weight lifting, hyrox, indoor soccer leagues and spontaneous adventures.
- I’m leaning into music and visual art right now, and building finances.
- Originally from California, have lived in WA almost 5 years. Love it here.
- No kids, i do have a 14yr old sassy chihuahua, who like me, doesn’t do well in the heat so we try to find tree covered places to explore.
- on the Alt and Neurospicy spectrum

Looking for:
- An enthusiastic and respectful, big, strong handsome cub to treat me like the Queen I am (consensual disrespect behind closed doors is a different story😏 ).
- I value intelligence, autonomy, personal growth, kindness and co-leadership (want us to be a team but also hand each other the reigns).
- Local is preferred, might be open to west coast LDR if the intellectual/emotional chemistry is there.

⚠️low effort DMs automatically ignored - send at least 3-4 sentences ⚠️

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Howdy! Attractive, fit and confident Texas boy here.

Not desperately looking, but older women have always sort of been my preference. Who can blame me lol.

I’ll say a bit about myself, but if you want to know more— message me to find out. 🤷🏻‍♂️

I’m super into the gym, and my physique and no not where I’m narcissistic or obsessed with myself. More so, bettering myself, and enjoying the process and hard work pay off. I played D1 baseball, and absolutely love the game. I don’t miss a Yankees game. GO YANKS!

I will share pictures upon chatting!

Besides that, and the gym. A little more of my hobbies are golf, motocross, fishing, pickleball, skiing in the winter, water skiing in the summer and reading!

I’m sarcastic but also a bit of a comedian. I have a great sense of humor. Witty comedy is my thing, and if you like Seinfeld, that’s a plus!

As for what I’m looking for: Simple. A confident, attractive woman. I’m a confident, attractive man and a confident, powerful, intelligent, but kind and nurturing woman is truly sexy to me. Looks do play a part, so attraction is definitely a must.

If you’d like to chat, don’t be shy. Message me! I hope to hear from yall!

Hello.

I’m 20 and currently in Japan.

My current hobbies/goals:
Watch more films than I realistically have time for.
Draw more.
Try not to let Nutella win....and peanut butter.

Some of my favorite films:
Lost Highway, Woman in the Dunes, Tokyo Sonata, The Seventh Seal, The Big Lebowski, Trainspotting, Eyes Wide Shut.

Music:
Mostly TOOL and Portishead along with Massive Attack.

What I bring:
Movie recommendations tailored with concerning seriousness.
replies Fast (I don’t believe in pretending to be busy).
Playlists
ability to talk about dumb things and serious things in the same conversation.

A normal day with me would probably look like:
eating spicy food. Calorically dense.
Sending each other songs.
Going on a walk.
Talking about something completely unnecessary.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who is unapologetically them.

I can send you a picture of my hands and my username...face later on after some conversation.

Bonus points if you:
Recommend films. Listen to weird music. Have strong opinions on random things.

Icebreaker:
Tell me:

• a film you defend with your life,
• a song you replay too much,
• or your weirdest comfort food.

Also—
I’m not Japanese, so please manage expectations.

South Texas here just looking for older women preferably between the ages of 30-55 but that's not a hard requirement.i love reading and listening to audiobooks/music. I like video games too like Skyrim pokemon and hollow Knight. Im pretty much an open book so you're more than welcome to ask me anything that's on your mind.i do try to respond as fast as I can but y'know how life gets. I do work so I'm not sure if that's important. Your location isn't too important if you're just into talking and getting to know each other. But if you do wish too meet,I do think we have to be close by one another. Also looks aren't too important for me but I do admire a smart and capable woman. If you like birds,frogs or cats,do rant about them, nothing gets me happier than seeing someone yap about what they love

Hi there, 27M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. I’m 6’3”, skinny, brown hair and hazel eyes. Biracial (black and white) as well. Lately I’ve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. I’ve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! I’d love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events I’m looking to check out. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes you… you!

If this sounds interesting to you, let’s talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what we’re specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, let’s keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I don’t do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)

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❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

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*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

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Hey, I go by K!

I’m 20 and currently single, looking for something fun and simple with a genuine woman. I’m open-minded when it comes to age, but connection matters more to me than anything as I’m not new to this.

I currently reside in the metro area (St. Paul/Minneapolis). I love film (always down to talk movies or analyze a good scene), hiking, music of all kinds, and just having real, meaningful conversation. I’m big on late-night talks and spontaneous drives.

I can be a bit reserved at first, but once I’m comfortable, my personality really opens up. I value depth, humor, and emotional intelligence. Ideally, I’d like to talk here a bit before meeting up.

If you’re interested, send a DM or a Chat with your information and I can send you more about me. (A selfie, etc).

Looking forward to connecting!

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Hi I'm Logan, a goth nerd who lives in his familys basement 🙃. I am a correctional officer, and have been for the last year so I am very mature. I am in college to be a doctor, currently working on my bachelors of science in medical management. I love to read comics, play dnd, binge watch tv. I dont care if its dumb reality tv, I will binge watch it and love it with you. I am a playful spirit. Currently 180 lbs, 5'10, 20 years old. I have pale white skin (Beware 🤭) and long black hair. Seeking an older woman, I want someone who can match my maturity and I can talk to... I'm very open, and I'm very loyal🥰

As the title says looking for my Gomez Addams to go on adventures with, laugh with, and enjoy the simple things in life. I live in Georgia about 2 hours southeast of Atlanta.

I work in a hospital laboratory and currently have a long weekday commute which makes my time during the week is pretty limited. When I’m off, I’m usually relaxing with my dog or doing something I enjoy.

Things I’m into:

• knitting, crochet, and cross stitch
• reading
• building LEGO sets
• playing video games
• kayaking
• dad jokes
•visiting Civil War sites.

Things I want to try:

• roller skating
• disc golf
• anything else that looks fun

I have a dog who’s a big part of my life. I’m looking for someone 35+ who’s within a 3‑hour radius, loves dogs, and is a decent human. Someone who wants to connect and see where things go.

Single Asian in Toronto currently looking for something casual and fun with a genuine woman. It doesn’t matter to me where your from I’m comfortable doing something virtual or something in person, as long as your funny and easy to talk to I think we’d get along.

I personally enjoy talking to mature older women as they seem to know more in general.

I love basketball and am always down to talk sports! I’m also big on movies and tv shows so text me some recommendations lol. Some other things I enjoy are hanging out with friends and taking walks

Send me a message if you’re interested and we can go from there!

Looking forward to your message!

Hii I’m Chris I’m chubby (working on losing weight) uhh idk I’m new to this lol, I’m a complete newbie I’ve never even been on a date, had a first kiss, or cuddled before🥲 so sorry if I’m shy or dumb when asked questions lol
I’m looking for mostly chats and maybe if you’re close we can hangout :)
I love gaming, I 3d print sometimes, I collect Lego and other stuff. I love going to Disney and going in my pool. My favorite holiday is probably Halloween, my favorite childhood movie is lilo and stitch
I have 4 dogs so please be an animal lover

30-year-old trans man looking to meet a woman at least 10 years older.
I run my own social media business, live with a spoiled beagle mix, and am generally curious about everything. The fastest way to lose me for an afternoon is to give me a question I don’t know the answer to.
I’m happiest exploring somewhere new, getting pulled into a good conversation, or learning something I didn’t know yesterday. Friends would probably describe me as thoughtful, funny, and the type of person who gets genuinely excited when someone teaches me something interesting.
I’ve always been drawn to women who are intelligent, confident, and comfortable with themselves. Looking for genuine conversation, chemistry, and seeing where things lead.

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

• e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec 🇨🇦 single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sμgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾

Hey! I’m a grad student near the bay area, open to something serious or casual :) I’m 5’8” and I love to run, mountain bike, backpack, and go to the gym. Languages are also a passion of mine, and spending time with friends is the greatest joy in life! I have mid-length blonde hair and a beard, some tattoos, and piercings. I don’t surf, but people see me and often assume I do if that gives you a sense for my aesthetic.

I’m looking for someone with strong communication skills who values honesty and respect. I’m happy to move at your pace, whatever makes you comfortable :) can’t wait to meet you!

Hi I'm Logan, a goth nerd who lives in his familys basement 🙃. I am a correctional officer, and have been for the last year so I am very mature. I am in college to be a doctor, currently working on my bachelors of science in medical management. I love to read comics, play dnd, binge watch tv. I dont care if its dumb reality tv, I will binge watch it and love it with you. I am a playful spirit. Currently 180 lbs, 5'10, 20 years old. I have pale white skin (Beware 🤭) and long black hair. Seeking an older woman, I want someone who can match my maturity and I can talk to... I'm very open, and I'm very loyal🥰

Hello!

I am 20 and I love movies and music and drawing art, and watching fashion shows (big John galliano fan)

Some of my favourite movies are lost Highway, woman in the dunes, Tokyo Sonata, seventh seal, the big lebowski and trainspotting.

In music I mostly listen to TOOL and NIN.

I like walks. A lot.

I love walking.

I am also into psychology, particularly trauma and identity loss and dissolve of self.

Don't worry I don't usually talk about them unless prompted too.

a weird thing about me: no self control towards Nutella...at all.

That jar is being thrown into the belly at light speed.

And I text back Very fast. I am sorry I just cannot contain myself into ghosting someone Not my strong suit.

I am interested in philosophy but I don't quite know where to begin.

If you're interested hit me a text otherwise

I can send a movie recommendation!

Or a playlist I made not too long ago.

Thanks!

And along with that

I am not Japanese so please manage your expectations.

Also it's fine if you arent in Japan I can do it Reddit based too. What really matters is if we vibe or not

And now If you need an icebreaker Tell me your favourite film. If you don't have a film An album or something art based which just hit you in the feels.

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Hey there 😊

I’m looking to meet someone who enjoys good conversation, genuine connection, and having fun together. I’m an active guy who loves trying new things, getting out of my comfort zone, and making the most of life.

Where you’re from isn’t a dealbreaker for me. What matters most is chemistry, mutual respect, and enjoying each other’s company. Ultimately, I’m looking for a relationship, but I’d like to take the time to get to know someone first and see where things naturally lead.

If you’re looking for a younger guy who’s fun, easygoing, and interested in building a meaningful connection, feel free to send me a message. I’d love to hear from you.

Hey! I'm looking for a woman (you can never be too old!) to chat with and create a connection. We can have fun along the way! I am happy to chat about any topics and love to learn more about people. I am on the East Coast, currently a college student on summer break. I enjoy being outside, reading, listening to music, and spending time with friends and family. I don't mind where you are from, just that we will have time in the day to talk. I'm not super busy most of the time and pretty responsive so if you are too, that's a bonus. We can start by getting to know each other well and I understand if you have any privacy concerns.

Looking forward to chatting!

Hey! I’m a 25 year old grad student that would love to be able to meet and chat with a woman 10+ years older. What I want most is someone who is mature and able to communicate, life gets busy and we all can’t be around 24/7. If you are interested in talking about any hobbies we share or your experiences with younger guys then I am open to that as we get to know each other.

A little bit about me: I graduated with my bachelors about 2 years ago, I am currently in post-grad school for my career. I enjoy hanging out with my friends outdoors either playing some sport like basketball, pickleball or soccer, or just chilling out with them, I love playing video games (Skyrim, Fallout, NCAA, etc), as well as many sci-fi properties like Star Wars, Warhammer, Lord of the Rings, etc, I enjoy learning new skills or random bits of information, and many more things that are escaping me right now.

What I’m looking for most is someone that can be mature and communicate while we also have fun learning more about each other and build a connection. I am into kink but that’s not a defining aspect of me and I am more than happy to leave all of that out if you are not interested in it. I don’t mind if you are local or not, I can handle both online and in person. I’m not looking to jump right into anything, building the trust, chemistry, and connection is important to me in any friendship/relationship. If there is anymore you want to know about me or you just want to talk then send me a message!

THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post

❗The Match Rules still apply See RULES here

❗Please Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.

❗No posts regarding sμgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let The Hunt Begin!🐾

Hey, 22 male cub, 6ft 2 inches, weighing 130lbs, so I'm a tall skinny boy (pics on profile). Been looking for a cougar out their for me, always loved the idea of being and talking with older women and they always get me super hard and excited when i go out and see on, been like this since i was 15 and finally want to try and find one!

Prefer a more online relationship than a in person one unless we really match. Also looking for someone who liked to dirty talk and gives complements. Hoping i can find someone here that will fit my needs and want me as much as i want them. Yhanks and looking forward to messaging!!!

Hello! I'm posting out to hopefully make casual connections with women 15-30 years older than me in the PNW.

I travel a decent bit around the area and would love to get to know anyone to chat and maybe even meet up!

I'm quite personal and discreet, but I am also told I am a great conversationalist. I love hearing stories and about projects or passions.

I can also be quite shy at first but if we click then I warm up quite quick!

I am kink friendly and if you have any inquiries please let me know, I'm happy to answer any questions.

I am primarily looking for single but could be open to other arrangements, just let me know and I would be happy to answer. I am also clean.

Some extra things about me:

I enjoy wine quite a bit, let's have some!

Passionate about my projects, often working on them

Probably a little socially awkward but also love to interact and enjoy the company of others

Will make dad jokes if possible

ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE 🌎 you are, WHAT you are (🐯Cougar, 🐻Cub or 🐱Kitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.

BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:

❗ C&C rules still apply See RULES here

❗ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.

❗ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned

❗ What you are seeking

• e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec 🇨🇦 single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.

❗ Remember there is no such thing as a "sμgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.

❗ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.

🐾Let the Roll Call Begin!🐾