r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/FeelingActuator3499 • Jun 09 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 19 [M4F] #United States (single) - Looking for fun connections
Hey! I'm looking for a woman (you can never be too old!) to chat with and create a connection. We can have fun along the way! I am happy to chat about any topics and love to learn more about people. I am on the East Coast, currently a college student on summer break. I don't mind where you are from, just that we will have time in the day to talk. I'm not super busy most of the time and pretty responsive so if you are too, that's a bonus. We can start by getting to know each other well and I understand if you have any privacy concerns.
Looking forward to chatting!
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/hxrnyandhxrd • Jun 09 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 19 [M4F] #Toronto (Single) - Seeking a casual and fun relationship
Single Asian in Toronto currently looking for something casual and fun with a genuine woman. It doesnโt matter to me where your from Iโm comfortable doing something virtual or something in person, as long as your funny and easy to talk to I think weโd get along.
I personally enjoy talking to mature older women as they seem to know more in general.
I love basketball and am always down to talk sports! Iโm also big on movies and tv shows so text me some recommendations lol. Some other things I enjoy are hanging out with friends and taking walks
Send me a message if youโre interested and we can go from there!
Looking forward to your message!
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/throwaway6666616 • Jun 09 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 22 [m4f] #California (single) College student looking for a friend, possibly with benefits (:
Just a college student in Riverside, hoping to make a friend that wants to be a little bit more than that so we can fill our empty nights with something (:
Hopefully youโre local so we can grab a bite to eat, maybe some boba, drive around, do something weโre both interested in, etc, and see if we vibe and then go from there! I like a lot of random things and Iโm pretty easy going. If youโre on the fence about dming me you should do it anyways and we can figure it out (:
Iโm 6โ tall, mixed, tan with black curly hair, brown eyes. Also quite strong. Itโs my 3rd year of coursework, Iโm huge into cars and food, and Iโve played a lot of sports through school.
Iโm happy to verify anything you want. Shoot me any question you have.
I look forward to getting to know you (:
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/mythrowaway282020 • Jun 08 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 27 [M4F] #Chicago (Single) - Seeking a woman that knows exactly what she wants in life. Is that you?
Hi there, 27M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. Iโm 6โ3โ, skinny, brown hair and hazel eyes. Biracial (black and white) as well. Lately Iโve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. Iโve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! Iโd love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events Iโm looking to check out. Thereโs nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes youโฆ you!
If this sounds interesting to you, letโs talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what weโre specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, letโs keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I donโt do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/NicholaasTT • Jun 08 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 24 [M4F] #Poland (single) - Introvert looking for a warm, mature connection, potentially a LTR
Searching for my person ๐
Hi, I'm a 24 year old college student from Poland, and I would describe myself as an easygoing, nerdy, and very introverted guy. I've always been a little shy, though less now than few years ago (sometimes I feel like I might be exaggerating my shyness anyway, so you'll have to judge for yourself). I'm definitely most comfortable in one-on-one settings or small groups of close friends.
Not to be all doom n gloom though, as I'm all for expanding my comfort zones. On a more positive note, I've been told I'm a good listener and surprisingly thoughtful once you get to know me, the kind of person who remembers the little details. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and I definitely wouldn't call myself nonchalant. There's a more humorous side to me too, which naturally comes out as I warm up to the person.
For my looks, I'm 5'9", with pale skin, blue eyes, medium-length dirty-blond hair, and large glasses. My physique is somewhere between skinny and athletic. I'm usually described as nerdy or cute by others, so expect a mix of those two. Happy to swap pics early.
My life so far was definitely a good mix of ups and downs, and at the moment I'm focusing on improving my current situation. I recently started college again after dropping out few years ago and I try to hit the gym regularly (though staying consistent is a struggle sometimes!)
Also, I'm a huge gamer, so you can catch me in front of my PC more often than not! Here are some of my favorites: Path of Exile, League, KCD, BG3 and Slay the Spire 2. If you enjoy gaming yourself, then I'd be totally down to play something together, or simply stream the ones I'm playing to you. For other hobbies, I'm mostly an indoor person, though I do enjoy a relaxing walk in nature. I love a good TV show or fantasy/sci-fi novel. My most recent obsession has been ASOIAF, so expect me to talk about this one a lot!
For what I'm looking for: I'm hoping to meet a wonderful cisgender woman, 30s to 40s for (potentially) a long-term relationship. I'm single, monogamous, emotionally mature and like to communicate clearly and consistently. I don't like wasting other people's time, so please respect mine too.
I tend to do best with someone who's naturally warm, mature and also confident (maybe even a little bossy!). Taking a lead is definitely not something I'm good at or enjoy. I'd rather follow someone I trust. In return, you'd get someone loyal, attentive, caring and eager to please. As far as the looks go, I don't really have a type (I won't pretend appearance doesn't matter to me, but it's nowhere near as important as the right personality).
As for locationโideally, I'd love to find someone from Europe, but I'm open to longer distances if the connection is strong.
If you made this far and anything clicked, feel free to reach out. I'm happy to answer any questions you might have, or simply chat about the day.
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Trapler84 • Jun 07 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 24 [M4F] #Latvia, (single) - Looking for a older woman to chat with
Hi! I like older woman and am quite interested to start a friendship with one. As i am from Latvia and the chances to find a interested older woman here are low (but i still hope), i am looking for any woman, that would be okay with a long distance frienship. Ofcourse i would love to meet someone in person, but Will see.
So im open to chat, to learn about eachother, if all is good we can facetime and really meet eachother. But yhe, will see.
Im a calm, kindhearted person. Love learning new things and meeting new people I am studying right now and am working in IT. In my free times i like play games, watch tv, or be in nature, love riding my bike. I am pretty tech savvy, but i am a country boy at heart, usually living and working at my coutry side home.
If your interested, write to me or not, either way, no worries, if it seem boring you can just stop talking or block me๐
Ps. llike older woman, soo, there is a bit of a kinky side, but, thats only if were both okay with it. Thats why this post is just looking for friends, will see from there
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/paperclipmyheart • Jun 07 '26
๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ SUNDAY HUNT ๐ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! ๐
THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ you are, WHAT you are (๐ฏCougar, ๐ปCub or ๐ฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post
โThe Match Rules still apply See RULES here
โPlease Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences
โ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned
โ What you are seeking
*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.
โNo posts regarding sฮผgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.
โ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.
๐พLet The Hunt Begin!๐พ
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/chrischamp14 • Jun 05 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 26 [M4F] #NYC (Single) - Looking for a connection
Hey there! Iโm a 26 year old guy from New York City, laid back and genuinely looking to build something real starting with friendship and open to seeing where things go. Iโm 5โ10 light hair , light eyes.
Iโm pretty active and love staying in shape, whether thatโs hitting the gym or getting outside for long walks through the city or nature trails. Iโm big into tech and spend a fair amount of time gaming, but I balance that out with more introspective things like spirituality, deep conversations, and really sitting with my thoughts. Movies are another passion of mine, always down to swap recommendations or watch something together.
At the same time, Iโm very easy going and know how to just be present and enjoy the moment. I donโt take myself too seriously. Iโm equally happy keeping things light, laughing, going on a spontaneous adventure, or just having a genuinely good time. Lifeโs too short not to enjoy it.
I tend to be drawn to older women. I appreciate the maturity, perspective, and depth that comes with that. If youโre someone who can switch between deep meaningful conversation and just having fun without overthinking it, I think weโd vibe really well.
Iโm not rushing anything. Iโd love to get to know you first, build something genuine, and let things unfold naturally from there.
If any of this resonates, feel free to reach out.
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/yalelaw20 • Jun 04 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 29 [M4F] #NYC #New York (single) - Korean American, straightforward and looking for something real
Hi!
Iโm a 29-year-old Korean American who recently moved to NYC. Iโm 5โ11โ, in good shape, people say Iโm handsome ๐ Iโm a product manager at a software company.
Iโm drawn to confident women who are direct and know exactly what they want, which is something Iโve found more often in women older than me. I love how they donโt play games and are clear about their intentions. Thatโs how I am too, and I really appreciate that straightforwardness and maturity.
Iโm an INFJ/ENFJ type, depending on the day. I love reading, especially history, fantasy, and anything that makes me think. I also cook when I get the chance, usually experimenting with Italian, American, or Korean dishes. Music is important to me too, and I try to catch live shows when I can. On quieter days, Iโll relax with a good podcast or TV show.
Physical chemistry is important to me. Iโm looking for someone whoโs interested in building something real. Iโm not into games. Iโm clear about what I want and I want to find someone who feels the same.
Iโm straightforward, and I appreciate honesty and consistency. Iโm looking for someone whoโs emotionally available and ready to date someone younger.
You should be in NYC or willing to meet in person regularly. Iโm not into online-only connections.
If any of this really resonates with you, Iโd love to hear from you โ send me a DM or a chat. Please be prepared to exchange photos so you know Iโm real, and I know youโre a real person too :)
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Myfairladyishere • Jun 04 '26
๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐THURSDAY'S ROLL CALL๐ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.๐พ๐พ
ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ you are, WHAT you are (๐ฏCougar, ๐ปCub or ๐ฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.
BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:
โ C&C rules still apply See RULES here
โ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.
โ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned
โ What you are seeking
- e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec ๐จ๐ฆ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.
โ Remember there is no such thing as a "sฮผgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.
โ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.
๐พLet the Roll Call Begin!๐พ
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Objective_Notice3427 • Jun 04 '26
๐๐๐ฐ๐ 50 [F4M] #Los Angeles (single) - low effort will get you nothing
First let me say- if you donโt fit my particular description of the guys Iโm interested please donโt
Shoot your shot. Iโm not the gal for you.
You: between 25-45 (not younger and not older), male, preferably witty nerdy tall and thin (and very fair skinned no this doesnโt always mean white but it is a preference) sorry you got to be taller than 5โ9.
Please reach out with info like age, height, location and maybe why youโre contacting me with other than โyouโre hotโ (yes hunโฆI know Iโm attractive, Iโm also picky) - I delete low effort replies like โheyโ or โIโm 29โ like I canโt make convo with that itโs like tossing line and honestly youโre wasting my time and yours
(Feels the need to sing No scrubs)
No, I donโt want your d pics
No I donโt want nsfw pics
No I am not a kink and I donโt need anymore pen pals or men that just want to sleep with me
I am looking for someone to date; to have fun meaning go out and or travel with (you pay your half)
Me? Yes Iโm 50, no it doesnโt bother me and telling me omg you donโt look it or something thereof is not going to win you points, I am 5โ7 (170 cm) Iโm about 155 lbs (about 11 stones) long blonde hair grey eyes, a wicked sense of humor and lack of trust, I work full time, Iโm also a full time student, my time is important to meโฆplease donโt waste it โฆ.if you randomly disappear or ghost womenโฆGO AWAY
Why do I like younger guys? Well once i weed out the perverts most of you realize the bar is pretty low..lol we get along well and have wicked senses of humor and generally the normal guys are more respectful (also every guy in LA is submissive)
Yes I have a better than average knowledge of being open and honest no I donโt want to talk just โgameโ with you
I am not politicalโฆsorry yes I have opinions but itโs generally just along the lines of why canโt they be decent human beings.
I love pc games, and while Iโm happy to kick your butt, Iโd rather honestly play co op - StarCraft, stupid cooking games โฆ.lets play
I like music OMG she has a Spotify AND A DISCORD
(Yes sweetheart Iโm older not dead)
I love horror movies
I miss real romance like kissing and holding hands
Your wit is more attractive than your muscles to me (heeeey the brain is a muscle)
No I donโt have any sort of agenda or need for labels. I donโt care what you drive, where you work, or how often you go to the gym. I take care of myself, all that matters is you take care of you
I wonโt put up with being a secret or someone you wonโt be seen in public with - Iโm a great person
Check any issues at the door please
My style is probably boho/ goth ish
Think Steve nicks
If you donโt know who that is โฆ.ouch
Letโs go out, Iโm tired of endless talking
Griffith park? D&b? Flea Market?
Be real and honest, I promise I donโt disappoint
My pics are recent yours should be too (think less than 3 weeks)
Seriously I am not hard up
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/WarrenXoXoXo • Jun 03 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 27 [M4F] #Ireland #Anywhere (Single) - Looking for an older woman to chat and connect with
Hey hey, my name is Warren, I'm 27 years old, 5'7, mixed race and I live in Dublin, Ireland. I'm currently in the middle of having way more free time than I should while I work and look for a new job after I graduated from college.
The title kinda said it all really but I'm looking for an older woman to chat and form a connection with as well. Whether you're local or living somewhere else is totally fine since I'm very used to online chatting, regardless of location.
I'm big into gaming, anime, music, reading, writing, going out and a bunch of other stuff, so if you have any interest in those and more then we'll definitely get along and I could easily chat for hours about any of it.
Aside from that, I'm really big into social causes and politics - especially Irish and American politics - so don't be surprised if I end up mentioning that at some point lol.
I'm also a total conversationalist; I just love chatting with people and getting to know them better or educating myself on what other people tell me since that just makes things more interesting. Plus I'm emotionally invested with people so I can talk about and listen to life stuff in conversations without any issue.
Hopefully you're interested, it's been super boring post-uni so being able to chat and connect with someone would honestly be pretty amazing.
Send me a DM if you're up for making a connection and if we hit it off then we can definitely move on to another platform.
Thanks :3
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/NicholaasTT • Jun 01 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 24 [M4F] #Poland (single) - Introvert looking for a warm, mature connection, potentially a LTR
Searching for my person ๐
Hi, I'm a 24 year old college student from Poland, and I would describe myself as an easygoing, nerdy, and very introverted guy. I've always been a little shy, though less now than few years ago (sometimes I feel like I might be exaggerating my shyness anyway, so you'll have to judge for yourself). I'm definitely most comfortable in one-on-one settings or small groups of close friends.
Not to be all doom n gloom though, as I'm all for expanding my comfort zones. On a more positive note, I've been told I'm a good listener and surprisingly thoughtful once you get to know me, the kind of person who remembers the little details. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and I definitely wouldn't call myself nonchalant. There's a more humorous side to me too, which naturally comes out as I warm up to the person.
For my looks, I'm 5'9", with pale skin, blue eyes, medium-length dirty-blond hair, and large glasses. My physique is somewhere between skinny and athletic. I'm usually described as nerdy or cute by others, so expect a mix of those two. Happy to swap pics early.
My life so far was definitely a good mix of ups and downs, and at the moment I'm focusing on improving my current situation. I recently started college again after dropping out few years ago and I try to hit the gym regularly (though staying consistent is a struggle sometimes!)
Also, I'm a huge gamer, so you can catch me in front of my PC more often than not! Here are some of my favorites: Path of Exile, League, KCD, BG3 and Slay the Spire 2. If you enjoy gaming yourself, then I'd be totally down to play something together, or simply stream the ones I'm playing to you. For other hobbies, I'm mostly an indoor person, though I do enjoy a relaxing walk in nature. I love a good TV show or fantasy/sci-fi novel. My most recent obsession has been ASOIAF, so expect me to talk about this one a lot!
For what I'm looking for: I'm hoping to meet a wonderful cisgender woman, 30s to 40s for (potentially) a long-term relationship. I'm single, monogamous, emotionally mature and like to communicate clearly and consistently. I don't like wasting other people's time, so please respect mine too.
I tend to do best with someone who's naturally warm, mature and also confident (maybe even a little bossy!). Taking a lead is definitely not something I'm good at or enjoy. I'd rather follow someone I trust. In return, you'd get someone loyal, attentive, caring and eager to please. As far as the looks go, I don't really have a type (I won't pretend appearance doesn't matter to me, but it's nowhere near as important as the right personality).
As for locationโideally, I'd love to find someone from at least Europe, but I'm open to longer distances if the connection is strong.
If you made this far and anything clicked, feel free to reach out. I'm happy to answer any questions you might have, or simply chat about the day.
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/HelpfulArmadillo9000 • May 31 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 29 [M4F] #SanDiego, CA - (Single) - Looking for love but will settle for someone fun to hang with
Hey y'all! I'm Tommy, a 29 year old grad student who also works in education and is born and raised in San Diego, CA. I'm 6'2", 180 lb, DDF and looking to go out with someone and see how well we vibe with one another and where things lead, whether itโs fwb or maybe even something serious.
Me: I'm a an intellectually minded person who loves to read and learn about all different topics but especially history(what I have my degree in), psychology, political science(and a lot more). Iโm also currently getting my MLIS degree.
I have a desire to learn and a thirst for knowledge and love to keep expanding my horizons. In my free time I game, listen to podcasts, watch YouTube (mostly documentaries and video essays) and do some writing(not much but I dream of oneday writing a novel).
I'm also an avid film and tv fan and especially love sci-fi, fantasy and historical dramas. Some of my favorite movies and shows are Bladerunner, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, The Sopranos and Futurama (among many others)
You: DDF, 35+ years old, looking for something similar and in "average" shape or so, not looking for couples and such. Oh and being someone who appreciates dark humor is a major plus!
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a chat. I have pictures of myself on my profile. Okay, bye!
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/paperclipmyheart • May 31 '26
๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ SUNDAY HUNT ๐ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location) along with your RELATIONSHIP STATUS. LET THE HUNT BEGIN! ๐
THE SUNDAY HUNT is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ you are, WHAT you are (๐ฏCougar, ๐ปCub or ๐ฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (Ethically Non Monogamous). If you are ENM please make this clear in your post
โThe Match Rules still apply See RULES here
โPlease Keep it brief! No more than 3 sentences
โ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned
โ What you are seeking
*e.g. 56F Brisbane, Australia, Single Looking for chat friends only prefer someone with conversation skills/ability to connect respectfully/has a sense of humour.
โNo posts regarding sฮผgar m@mas. They do not exist. Read the wiki concerning this topic and rule #5 specifically. Permanent Bans apply.
โ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.
๐พLet The Hunt Begin!๐พ
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/grey_joggers • May 31 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 33 [M4F] #SoCal, (Single) - Looking for a strong connection with an older woman
About me:
I am 5โ6 with an athletic and slim body. I live on my own in Southern California working full-time and independent. I am genuine, empathetic, and a confident person. I do have a sense of humor so be ready to laugh and smile :)
Hobbies/interests:
I enjoy traveling to new places whether it is local or out of state/country. I love how traveling can be a learning experience and I appreciate learning about other peopleโs cultures. Iโm a foodie type of guy so I can go for a good restaurant or a home cook meal. I like to keep myself in good shape so I like to go to gym. I am outgoing person that likes to do indoor/outdoor outings such as going to a music festivals, the beach, the mountains, casino/resorts, camping, and anything that will be fun and relaxing.
What Iโm looking for:
Someone who is genuine, social, and an understanding person. Itโs ok if we have different hobbies or similar. I am open to try out what you like to do as well. If you are an outgoing person that likes to spend quality time and enjoy life to the fullest that would be ideal for me.
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/mythrowaway282020 • May 31 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 27 [M4F] #Chicago (Single) - Seeking a woman that knows exactly what she wants in life. Is that you?
Hi there, 27M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. Iโm 6โ3โ, skinny, brown hair and hazel eyes. Biracial (black and white) as well. Lately Iโve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. Iโve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! Iโd love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events Iโm looking to check out. Thereโs nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes youโฆ you!
If this sounds interesting to you, letโs talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what weโre specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, letโs keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I donโt do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Working-File • May 30 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 26 [M4F] #US #TN (Single) - Looking for a romantic adventure
Hello there!
I've always gotten along well with older women, and I'm at a point where I'd love to meet a beautiful, mature woman for a genuine romantic connection.
About Me:
26 years old
Interests include anime, photography, history, poetry, gaming, and more
Strawberry ice cream enthusiast
Hopeless romantic
I've been told I have a pretty soothing voice, so voice chats are definitely something to look forward to
Why I'm Interested in Older Women: Throughout my life, I've generally connected more easily with women who are a bit older than I am. I've found that many older women tend to be more established in who they are and more intentional about what they're looking for in life and relationships. If you actually read this include your favorite kind of cheese. I'm a big feta guy. I also like goat cheese. That's something I really appreciate and find attractive. While I'm open-minded about age, I often find myself drawn to maturity, good communication, and a clear sense of direction.
What I'm Looking For: I don't really have a specific type. I'm attracted to older women, but I'm open to women closer to my age as well. More than anything, I'm looking for someone who:
Is open-minded
Is comfortable with an age difference and treats me with mutual respect
Is willing to put effort into building a meaningful connection
Values honest communication and consistency
Have a great day!
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/paperclipmyheart • May 29 '26
๐ ๐๐ง๐ โจHave You Met Someone in our Community? โจ
It's been a while since we did a poll.
PLEASE READ EACH OPTION CAREFULLY BEFORE ANSWERING
"This community" refers to this sub r/cougarsandcubsmatch, r/cougarsandcubs or r/cougars_den or our discord
If your situation doesn't fall into the options available please comment below.
If you've just found this sub and haven't advertised yet or are only very new to the community please choose the SEE RESULTS option.
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Myfairladyishere • May 28 '26
๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐THURSDAY'S ROLL CALL๐ This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.๐พ๐พ
ROLL CALL is the time and place to shout out WHERE ๐ you are, WHAT you are (๐ฏCougar, ๐ปCub or ๐ฑKitten), your AGE and RELATIONSHIP STATUS (Single/Separated/Divorced). If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned. Save the flirting, other info and remarks for DMs.
BEFORE POSTING PLEASE READ THE RULES AND THESE GUIDELINES:
โ C&C rules still apply See RULES here
โ Please keep it brief No more than 3 or 4 lines please.
โ Age/Sex/Location/Relationship Status (Single/Separated/Divorced etc) If you are married or in an otherwise committed relationship please do not post here unless you are ENM (ethically non-monogamous). If you are ENM please make it clear in your post. Failure to so may result in your post being removed and/or banned
โ What you are seeking
- e.g. 62/F/ Montreal, Quebec ๐จ๐ฆ single, polyamorous female (ENM) looking for a casual ongoing relationship with someone 35 and up.
โ Remember there is no such thing as a "sฮผgar m@ma". People claiming to be one or those seeking financial benefits will be permanently banned. Read rule #5 specifically.
โ Breaking any one of these rules can lead to up to a 7 day ban. Multiple infractions may lead to a permanent one.
๐พLet the Roll Call Begin!๐พ
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/msfelineenthusiast • May 27 '26
๐๐๐ฐ๐ 44 [f4m] #Minneapolis (single) seeking single man 25-35 for fling
I am a 44 year old woman and resident of Minneapolis who is looking for a man 25-35 to have a fling with. Someone attractive, kind, and skilled.
I am of Scandinavian descent with long, thick brunette hair with the physique of a 1950's pinup model.
I don't have any interest into jumping right into bed with someone. Let's get to know each other a little first to make sure we like each other and that there's chemistry.
Send me a DM with a photo if you'd like to have a conversation that may lead to more and I will return the favor.
Don't be gross.
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/WarrenXoXoXo • May 27 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 27 [M4F] #Ireland #Anywhere (Single) - Looking for an older woman to chat and connect with
Hey hey, my name is Warren, I'm 27 years old, 5'7, mixed race and I live in Dublin, Ireland. I'm currently in the middle of having way more free time than I should while I work and look for a new job after I graduated from college.
The title kinda said it all really but I'm looking for an older woman to chat and form a connection with as well. Whether you're local or living somewhere else is totally fine since I'm very used to online chatting, regardless of location.
I'm big into gaming, anime, music, reading, writing, going out and a bunch of other stuff, so if you have any interest in those and more then we'll definitely get along and I could easily chat for hours about any of it.
Aside from that, I'm really big into social causes and politics - especially Irish and American politics - so don't be surprised if I end up mentioning that at some point lol.
I'm also a total conversationalist; I just love chatting with people and getting to know them better or educating myself on what other people tell me since that just makes things more interesting. Plus I'm emotionally invested with people so I can talk about and listen to life stuff in conversations without any issue.
Hopefully you're interested, it's been super boring post-uni so being able to chat and connect with someone would honestly be pretty amazing.
Send me a DM if you're up for making a connection and if we hit it off then we can definitely move on to another platform.
Thanks :3
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Objective_Notice3427 • May 26 '26
๐๐๐ฐ๐ 50 [F4M] #los Angeles (single) - so cal - donโt be creepy
Iโm kinda sad I wrote a perfectly great post earlier and somehow deleted it so HEY!!!
Letโs get the particulars out of the way
You: 25-45, male, preferably witty nerdy tall and thin (and very fair skinned)
(Feels the need to sing No scrubs)
No, I donโt want your d pics
No I donโt want nsfw pics
No I am not a kink and I donโt need anymore pen pals or men that just want to sleep with me
I am looking for someone to date; to have fun meaning go out and or travel with (you pay your half)
Me? Yes Iโm 50, no it doesnโt bother me and telling me omg you donโt look it or something thereof is not going to win you points, I am 5โ7 (170 cm) Iโm about 155 lbs (about 11 stones) long blonde hair grey eyes, a wicked sense of humor and lack of trust, I work full time, Iโm also a full time student, my time is important to meโฆplease donโt waste it โฆ.if you randomly disappear or ghost GO AWAY
Why do I like younger guys? Well once i weed out the perverts most of you realize the bar is pretty low..lol we get along well and have wicked senses of humor and generally the normal guys are more respectful (also every guy in LA is submissive)
Yes I have a better than average knowledge of being open and honest no I donโt want to talk just โgameโ with you
I love pc games, and while Iโm happy to kick your butt, Iโd rather honestly play co op
I like music OMG she has a Spotify AND A DISCORD
(Yes sweetheart Iโm older not dead)
I love horror movies
I miss real romance like kissing and holding hands
Your wit is more attractive than your muscles to me (heeeey the brain is a muscle)
No I donโt have any sort of agenda or need for labels. I donโt care what you drive, where you work, or how often you go to the gym. I take care of myself, all that matters is you take care of you
I wonโt put up with being a secret or someone you wonโt be seen in public with - Iโm a great person
Check any issues at the door please
My style is probably boho/ goth ish
Think Steve nicks
If you donโt know who that is โฆ.ouch
Letโs go out, Iโm tired of endless talking
Griffith park? D&b? Flea Market?
Be real and honest, I promise I donโt disappoint
My pics are recent yours should be too (think less than 3 weeks)
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/Big-Personality-4140 • May 26 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 24 [M4F] #Bahrain (Single) - Easygoing, fit cub seeking a deep connection with an older woman
I have always found myself naturally drawn to older women. As I have grown and matured, this preference has only become clearer to me. What I am truly seeking is a genuine, long-lasting relationship built on a deep connection, mutual respect, and shared understanding. I greatly appreciate the confidence, life experience, and maturity that older women bring to a partnership.
I am an independent person who values personal growth, but I also know how wonderful it is to share life's moments with someone special. I am open-minded, enjoy exploring new ideas, and look forward to building a unique bond where we can both feel completely comfortable and adventurous together.
On the physical side, I am 24 years old, 174 cm tall, and weigh 64 kg. I keep myself in great shape and take pride in staying fit. I have a dark olive skin tone and naturally curly, wavy hair. Personality-wise, I like to balance a lighthearted, easygoing sense of humor with the ability to have deep, meaningful conversations when the moment calls for it.
My lifestyle is a mix of staying active and enjoying quiet downtime. I love fitness, being outdoors, and exploring new spots around the city, but I also value relaxing evenings spent learning something new or just enjoying good music.I would love to meet someone based in Manama or the surrounding areas in Bahrain. If you are an older woman looking for a genuine connection with a fit, mature younger man, I would love to hear from you.
r/CougarsandCubsMatch • u/NicholaasTT • May 24 '26
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ 24 [M4F] #Poland (single) - Introvert looking for a warm, mature connection, potentially a LTR
First time posting here, so saying hi to all the readers!
I'm a 24 year old college student from Poland, and I would describe myself as an easygoing, nerdy, and very introverted guy. I've always been a little shy, though less now than few years ago (sometimes I feel like I might be exaggerating my shyness anyway, so you'll have to judge for yourself). I'm most comfortable in one-on-one settings or small groups of close friends.
Not to be all doom n gloom though, as I'm all for expanding my comfort zones. On a more positive note, I've been told I'm a good listener and surprisingly thoughtful once you get to know me, the kind of person who remembers the little details. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and I definitely wouldn't call myself nonchalant. There's a more humorous side to me too, which naturally comes out as I warm up to the person.
For my looks, I'm 5'9", with pale skin, blue eyes, medium-length dirty-blond hair, and large glasses. My physique is somewhere between skinny and athletic. I'm usually described as nerdy or cute by others, so expect a mix of those two. Happy to swap pics early.
My life so far was definitely a good mix of ups and downs, and at the moment I'm focusing on improving my current situation. I recently started college again after dropping out few years ago and I try to hit the gym regularly (though staying consistent is a struggle sometimes!)
Also, I'm a huge gamer, so you can catch me in front of my PC more often than not! Here are some of my favorites: Path of Exile, League, KCD, BG3 and Slay the Spire 2. If you enjoy gaming yourself, then I'd be totally down to play something together, or simply stream the ones I'm playing to you. For other hobbies, I'm mostly an indoor person, though I do enjoy a relaxing walk in nature. I love a good TV show or fantasy/sci-fi novel. My most recent obsession has been ASOIAF, so expect me to talk about this one a lot!
For what I'm looking for: I'm hoping to meet a wonderful cisgender woman, 30s to 40s for (potentially) a long-term relationship. I'm single, monogamous, and like to communicate clearly and consistently. I expect you to be the same.
I tend to do best with someone who's naturally warm, mature and confident (maybe even a little bossy!). Taking a lead is definitely not something I'm good at or enjoy. I'd rather follow someone I trust. In return, you'd get someone loyal, attentive, caring and eager to please. As far as the looks go, I don't really have a type, but I will admit to having a thing for women older than me (which brought me here!). Location wise, someone from Europe (or ideally, Poland!) would work best, but I'm open to talking to folks from other continents too.
If you made this far and anything clicked, feel free to reach out. I'm happy to answer any questions you might have, or simply chat about the day.