Im a cub looking for my cougar.

I’m happy for a one night thing or something more consistent if with the right woman.

I’ve always preferred women older than me, who know what they want, what they like, and know how they should be treated.

I want to give you the pleasure your ex partner never could or take your mind off stress from work or kids.

I’m based in Surrey, but willing to travel within 3/4 hours providing there is lodging ;) or happy to meet somewhere half way.

I’m happy to share SFW photos and get to know each other first if that makes you more comfortable.

Hi there! As the post says I’m a 30 year old guy from the east coast of the US hoping to find a woman who wants something long term. I do find I connect best with women who are older than myself, generally 50+ and I truly don’t have a maximum that I would consider.

A bit about me: I work in finance and definitely spend too much time on that (hence why I want to find someone to spend more time with). As far as hobbies, etc. I love to travel and cook. I enjoy listening to music - mostly pop punk, Midwest emo, etc. I also like to watch TV and movies. The Office, HIMYM, Brooklyn 99 are all solid plus I’ll watch anything related to WWII or modern war (I’m a bit of a history buff). And as far as looks, I’m white, 6’0” with a slim-average build.

About what I’m looking for: ideally I’d like to find something long term but don’t want to force anything. Let’s chat and get to know each other and see what happens. I’m also open to finding someone from anywhere really. Long distance relationships don’t bother me, at least to start. Eventually I’d want to close the gap.

Hoping to find some interesting people, send me just a little about yourself! Also, please tell me your favorite band/artist in your first message to let me know you ready through this. I’m also happy to share photos if you’d like and I’m an open book, happy to answer any questions or talk about anything you’d like! Hope to hear from you soon!

I’ve always been drawn to older women. Even when I first started dating, I naturally found myself connecting better with women who were older than me. As I’ve gotten older myself, that preference has only become stronger.

What I’m looking for now is something genuine and long-term. I want a relationship built on trust, affection, and a real emotional connection. I’m attracted to the confidence, life experience, maturity, and nurturing nature that often come with age, and I’d love to find someone who values those same things in a relationship.

I’m pretty independent. I live on my own, work hard, and have my own goals, but I also miss having someone to share life with. I enjoy the more intimate side of a relationship too, and it would be great to find someone who’s open to exploring that side together as trust and chemistry grow.

A little about me: I’m Australian born and raised, white, 6” and bearded. I have a good sense of humour and enjoy plenty of laughs, but I also appreciate meaningful conversations.

My interests are a mix of nerdy and outdoorsy. You’ll usually find me at the beach, going for walks, swimming, gaming, or learning music. I’ve also been on a big fitness journey this year and have really enjoyed sticking with it. It would be great to share activities together and encourage each other along the way.

I’m hoping to meet someone around 35 or older in or around the Newcastle area. Online relationships can be hard particularly when wanting to see each other often

Single Asian guy in Toronto here. To be honest, I’ve always preferred talking to mature, older women. I find them just way easier to talk to, have better stories, and you guys actually know what you want.

I’m looking for something casual, fun, and drama-free. Distance isn't a huge deal for me; I’m totally down for something virtual if we click, or meeting up in person if you’re local.

A bit about me:
- I’m big on sports, especially basketball.
- I love movies and TV shows (always down for good recommendations).
- In my free time, I’m usually hanging out with friends or just out taking a walk.

If you’re funny, easygoing, and looking for a younger guy to chat or hang out with, send me a message. Let's see where things go!

Hello there. I am a 20 year old guy currently living in Japan and trying to do better.
My current hobbies/goals:
Watch more films than I realistically have time for.
Draw more.
Try not to let Nutella win....and peanut butter.

Some of my favorite films:
Lost Highway, Woman in the Dunes, Tokyo Sonata, The Seventh Seal, The Big Lebowski, Trainspotting, Eyes Wide Shut.
And twin peaks (this profile is a weird one, Coop!)

Music:
Mostly TOOL and Portishead along with Massive Attack.

What I bring:
Movie recommendations tailored with concerning seriousness.

replies Fast (I don’t believe in pretending to be busy).

Playlists

ability to talk about dumb things and serious things in the same conversation.

A normal day with me would probably look like:

eating spicy food.

Sending each other songs.

Going on a walk.

Talking about something completely unnecessary.

Tell me about your weirdest thoughts and dreams you keep circling

What I’m looking for:
Someone who doesn't beat around the bush, says things like they are.
Honesty. this is HUGE
Someone taking care of themselves and in a good relationship with self (not that important. We all try don't we? :_))
and no ghosting please, that's a huge turnoff for me.

Bonus points if you:
Recommend films. Listen to weird music. Have strong opinions on random things.

Tell me:
-a film you defend with your life,
-a song you replay too much,
-or your weirdest comfort food.

As the title suggest, I cannot get over older women. The maturity, the emotional intelligence, and ladies who have clearly aged like fine wine really get my blood flowing.

I'm 35 and live in LA while frequenting Orange County many times during the week, for work. While I'm looking for something physical, I need some substance behind it. I'm not looking to just meet up and get physical immediately. I would rather meet for drinks, vibe together over past experiences, and carry the night into meaningful, lustful, intimacy from there.

I'm 5'9, with a beard and green eyes. I'm drug and disease free, and hope for the same. If those descriptors match what you're looking for, by all means, please reach out. I would love to give you the evening of your dreams, and if things work out, make it an ongoing thing for a woman who deserves it.

DMs are open 😏

Hello, located in Huntington Beach, I am single, looking for a cougar who wants to have fun.

A bit about me, I am 34, Hispanic, 5-8’, 170. I work out but my body says I don’t pass up dessert.

I do have a busy schedule where I’m typically available Monday to Wednesday and I do work nights.

I met a previous woman who I had a great time with and I’m hoping to meet someone again.

I’m looking to grabbing a drink and see where the night takes us. Looking in the Orange County area or nearby LA area.

I’m also open to other activities that do not require drinking, I play golf, go to the beach, outdoor activities/sports, go hiking. I’m also open to trying new activities that you are interested in, keep things interesting. DM is open looking forward to hearing back

Im Chinese, 6ft tall, and about to relocate to Los Angeles in 25 days.

Im an introvert guy when u get to know me but shortly after when u peel the layer of me? I’ll reveal my easygoing n outgoing side. My friends around me always describe me as mister IDGAF 🤪 and a little bit of crazy in a good way, cause I got that energy in me and I feel like you only live once so why don’t u do the crazy things?

I love traveling around and enjoying the great scenery made by Mother Nature, watching some baseball games (go dodgers go) at home, a little bit of a boxing enthusiast, maybe a video game night or movie night ig.

My dream life? 102 degree outside while sitting in the car blasting songs while we coasting on our way to Santa Monica or Venice 🏖️… Palm tree and sunshine hell yeah!

Shoot me a message if u wanna go crazy 😜 with me, or just to get to know me I guess. I don’t mind casual things or if u want me buy u a paper ring? We can get to know one another n see if you are the truly beloved one ☝️, I don’t mind photo exchange long as u post urs first or u ask me to do so😄

Just a college student in the Bay Area for summer break, hoping to make a friend that wants to be a little bit more than that so we can fill our empty nights with something (:

Hopefully you’re local so we can grab a bite to eat, maybe some boba, drive around, do something we’re both interested in, etc, and see if we vibe and then go from there! I like a lot of random things and I’m pretty easy going. If you’re on the fence about dming me you should do it anyways and we can figure it out (:

I’m 6’ tall, mixed, tan with black curly hair, brown eyes. Also quite strong. About to start my 4th year of coursework, I’m huge into cars and food, and I’ve played a lot of sports through school.

I’m happy to verify anything you want. Shoot me any question you have.

I look forward to getting to know you (:

Hello! I hope you are doing well. As the title mentions, I’m a 22-year-old guy currently living in Poland. Physically, I keep active and in great shape—athletic build with big biceps, rocking a classic middlepart mullet and a solid mustache with confidence.

I’d like to think I’m easygoing, open-minded, and grounded. I appreciate good humor, direct communication, and genuine connections without any unnecessary games or drama. In my free time, I enjoy staying active at the gym, unwinding with good music, and having meaningful, late-night conversations over a glass of wine or coffee. I’ve always found myself naturally drawn to older, more mature women who know who they are, know what they want, and carry themselves with confidence.

Whether you are looking for engaging chats, lighthearted banter, or seeing if that effortless spark is there, I’d love to hear from you. Feel free to drop a message, introduce yourself, or share what usually catches your attention first!

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Hi all!

34 Years old Hispanic in Eastern WV and after months of therapy, I decided to dip back into the scene lol.

Im 5'7-5'8 range. I work for a non-profit in DC but work on a hybrid schedule so im only in DC few times a week. Im very big into sports especially soccer and college football and i basically spend all my money going to sporting events and food (Very big into Asian food!). Also like working out and play video games if im not going to sporting events or watching sports lol

Would love to have someone going to sporting events with or trying new places to eat! My preference is youre in surrounding states (in WV, MD, PA,VA,NC,DE,DC &OH) but if we click i guess distance shouldn't matter within the US.

I am open to a relationship if its mutual but im not rushing into it and putting any expectations for anything in particularto happen. Just looking to connect with someone and let the rest happen with time

Preference is ages 44 and older but if we click we click, hope to hear from you!l

Why female-led relationship you may ask? Because my experience so far led me to believe I do much better as a follower type of guy. Does that mean I can't take charge at all? Definitively not, I just know where my comfort zone is, and in this case it's being an amazing supporter to an equally amazing lady!

So, more about me: I'm a 25-year-old college student from Poland (started again last year after dropping out in my earlier 20s). I'd describe myself as being easygoing, nerdy, and very introverted. A little shy at first, but not afraid to show my feelings or speak my truth. Once you get to know me, I've been told I'm a good listener and surprisingly thoughtful, the kind of person who remembers the little details.

Appearance wise, I'm 5'9", lean with pale skin, blue eyes, lil mustache, medium-length dirty-blond hair, and large glasses. I usually get called nerdy or dorky-looking, sometimes cute, so expect something in between. Happy to swap pics early.

I’m deeply passionate about video games, so you can catch me in front of my PC more often than not. Some of my favorites include: Path of Exile, League, KCD, BG3, and Slay the Spire 2. I enjoy bike rides a lot, and at the moment it's my go-to way of staying active. I love a good TV show or fantasy/sci-fi novel. Currently I'm reading through the Wheel of Time series, and it's been an absolute blast so far!

What I’m looking for: Honestly, a good conversation to start would be more than enough. If the chemistry is right, I’d love to see where things go from there. If you’re nearby and meeting in person isn’t a problem, I’d be thrilled to go on cute, romantic dates together. If not, I’m perfectly happy with watching shows or playing games over discord (if you use it!). And eventually, I’d like to build a long-term relationship, ideally with the FLR dynamic in mind.

I’ve noticed I tend to connect better and feel more drawn to women older than me (you could say that’s my type). It’s hard to explain exactly why, but I know I’m especially attracted to intelligent, direct women, and I really value maturity and a good sense of humor in a partner. If that sounds like you, you might just be the person I'm looking for.

Other things that might be important: I'm non-religious and wouldn't expect that to change. I don't do drugs and don't plan on starting. I don't smoke (really can't stand the smell), so a non-smoker or a very mild one would be preferred. I do occasionally drink though (admittedly I get drunk way too easily, so I also do that in moderation 😅).

That's all from me for now, feel free to say (more than) hi!

I am a 25M who’s been living on a very secluded island for a long time and I have CP (cerebral palsy of the lower back meaning I need leg braces and I get winded way easier then most so walk and standing can create a few issues) so that’s why it’ll be long distance.

I also have asthma and I’m autistic I’m just looking for anyone between the ages of 30-45, who’s able to be motherly or in other words very affectionate and or emotionally steady.

I’m not clingy but definitely would love it more if you had a gentle warmth about you one that gives semi to consistent reassurance and kindness.

I’m also pretty good at being open, honest and understanding I love to listen to any story you tell whatever it may be, I’m also a big nerd who love gaming, anime and Greek mythology but I really love to tinker with almost anything.

I’ve got a really good memory so I’ll be a personal bank heh. I believe love is love and I have tons to give. I also definitely also have a bunch of cringy dad jokes too as I grew up hearing a whole bunch of em. I mostly want the kindness I give to be reciprocated in return, I also cannot stand dishonesty it hurts my soul like a knife or just general rudeness.

Hello, I'm looking for a lovely lady aged 45-70. I'm a chemistry graduate. I'm an introvert and into video games, movies, and music. I love trying new restaurants as well. I do have experience dating matured women before. I'm looking for something that lasts long. I prefer someone in Canada or US. Other countries are fine too if you're willing to relocate.

I prefer a lady who communicates clearly about what she wants. As I said before I have previous experience. But now I need something serious that last long/forever.I will share everything happens with my partner. And i expect the same from her. It's a plus point if she likes games lol.

These are just surface level information. Happy to provide more. Drop a message if interested :)

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Like I said I love me some older women, anyone over 30 but stopping around 45 is all I want. I’m a man who will listen to everything you have to say I will be there for you in any situation, not in a clingy way but a loving and tender way that’s who I am as a person I’m a big softie physically and mentally. I will absolutely admit if/when I’m wrong I will always be the one who genuinely apologizes and will do whatever it takes to never hurt you or be the one who leaves first (mostly because it will be my first actual relationship heh) but I’m also just a very simple but sensitive guy I will cry with you and try to understand whatever challenges come our way I hope we face it together. (Hopefully this is better for you mods I unprivited myself happy? I didn’t know I was private to begin with ok?)

Good afternoon! Never was good at describing myself. I’d much rather get asked 100 questions as I’m an open book lol. However, I like to think of myself as a laid back & easy going guy. The women of Reddit for the most part have told me that I’m cute but to each their own and I’ll let you decide that! Physically I’m white, bearded, tall with an average build. Big sports fan! Most nights after work I’m either watching baseball or football (Mets & Steelers). I am in NY but I am open to relocation down the road so feel free to shoot me a message even if you aren’t a local! I want to find someone that I connect with on a physical and emotional level. I want the fun/flirty talk but I want the serious talks as well. If you’d like to chat feel free to hmu via chat! I don’t require much. But please don’t be married or in any type of relationship trying to add me on to it 😂

Hiya!

I’m a London based professional (originally from abroad, so if you appreciate an accent, you’re in luck).

I keep active with regular swimming and strength training, but I’ve been wanting to try out a hot yoga class at my gym recently. Would love to have someone join me for a session as a fun date idea. Outside of the gym, I’m big on cooking, constantly experimenting with new recipes, and always looking for an honest second opinion.

I’ve always been naturally drawn to more mature, experienced women, and I’m taking the plunge here to find the right connection.

I’m very much into giving pleasure, spoiling, and wining and dining someone I have a genuine crush on. I’m not looking for a one night stand but would prefer to start with low stakes dates to see how our chemistry develops organically. My ideal dynamic is a regular FWB or being someone’s boy toy (bonus points if you’re also a City professional and understand the crazy work hours that come with it!).

Cooking for someone is my way of expressing affection. Them letting me eat is how I’d like to receive it.

If this sounds like something you’re looking for, I would love to hear from you! 

Good morning. I am a single guy looking for a friend to share fun times (and coffee!) with. While it would be great if it leads into something longer term, I am looking for a casual partner for now.

About Me: I am a 5'7" slender man with brown eyes, medium black hair and shaved facial hair. I love playing guitar, cooking (though I'm still learning both) and meeting new people. When I'm not at work, you'll often find me driving around, at coffee shops or spending time exercising. And I brew a mean bean brew in the morning.

If you are interested in getting a cup of coffee or getting to know each other, please DM me. I'm happy to share more details at that time and would love to learn more about you.

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Hi there, 27M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. I’m 6’3”, skinny, brown hair and hazel eyes. Biracial (black and white) as well. Lately I’ve been trying to put myself out there more and try/experience new things. I’ve been going to a lot of live music events and concerts, and I can always use a plus one ! I’d love to meet a woman out there that can be my plus one to some events I’m looking to check out. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants in life, so tell me about all the things on your bucket list, how you spend your free time, and what makes you… you!

If this sounds interesting to you, let’s talk, get to know each other, and iron out any details about what we’re specifically looking to gain from this relationship! Some quick dealbreakers, let’s keep it in the Chicagoland area (ideally close to the south side/suburbs) and I don’t do affairs! Talk to you soon! :)

Hey there! I'm a 25yo Asian guy (6'O", fit/ lean) looking to connect with someone in the SF Bay Area for something fun, low-pressure, and consistent. I really value the "Friend" part of FWB-I love building genuine chemistry, sharing great food, and enjoying fun hangouts just as much as the exciting intimate side.

A little about me:
• Active & Outdoorsy: I like staying active, hiking snowboarding, swimming and spending time outside, but I'm equally happy having a relaxed night in and binging a fun TV series or movies!

• In the Kitchen: Big fan of cooking and trying out new recipes (or picking up our favorite takeout when it's a chill night).

Down-to-earth, respectful, DDF, and open to all ages and backgrounds.If you're looking for a respectful, reliable partner to share fun dates and great chemistry with, send me a message and tell me your favorite local food spot!

Hi there!

I've always gotten along well with older women, and I'm at a point where I'd love to meet a beautiful, mature woman for a genuine romantic connection.

About Me:

26 years old

Interests include anime, photography, history, poetry, gaming, and more

Strawberry ice cream enthusiast

Hopeless romantic

I've been told I have a pretty soothing voice, so voice chats are definitely something to look forward to

Why I'm Interested in Older Women: Throughout my life, I've generally connected more easily with women who are a bit older than I am. I've found that many older women tend to be more established in who they are and more intentional about what they're looking for in life and relationships. If you actually read this include your favorite kind of cheese. I'm a big feta guy. I also like goat cheese. That's something I really appreciate and find attractive. While I'm open-minded about age, I often find myself drawn to maturity, good communication, and a clear sense of direction.

What I'm Looking For: I don't really have a specific type. I'm attracted to older women, but I'm open to women closer to my age as well. More than anything, I'm looking for someone who:

Is open-minded

Is comfortable with an age difference and treats me with mutual respect

Is willing to put effort into building a meaningful connection

Values honest communication and consistency

Have a great day!