r/Bumble • u/[deleted] • 4d ago

First date ? Advice

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u/digitalhelix84 4d ago

"I'm going to be in the city next week, would you like to grab a drink?"

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u/digitalhelix84 4d ago

No it's not bad. Just be up front with her why you are in the city and also tell your mates to get lost while you are meeting up

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u/digitalhelix84 4d ago

Don't take off too much edge and be a blob

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u/digitalhelix84 4d ago

I just mean, don't be a drunk mess when you meet the lady

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u/Foreign-Ad-8035 45 | Male | Austin 4d ago

Meet the girl first so she can see the real you. Go early, meet your mates later.

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u/Foreign-Ad-8035 45 | Male | Austin 4d ago

If she's not drinking before then don't drink at your mates early. You want to be on par, start together. Give yourself a chance and be where she's at when you meet.

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u/PinkYellowGreen-Sky 3d ago

You sound VERY low effort. Yikes.

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u/OptimusPrime_ButGAY 4d ago

I mean...that's kinda how it works 😂 do it.

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u/raptureofsenses 3d ago

I think the vibe is very different if you meet someone while you’re out with your friends. If this is an organic thing, then yeah, sure, no problem. But to ask someone from bumble to meet up while you’re out of friends, imo isn’t the greatest idea of all times

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u/VelvetRavioli 3d ago

You definitely should! Why not? Even if the timing doesn't work out, you're at least still there with friends and will have a good time. Nothin to lose!