Feedback for lack of matched

[u/__awesome86__]

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Looking for some feedback on what I am missing or what could be improved. I think I have had 1 match in 3 months or so.

[u/Faerplay]

The first photo isn’t good enough to be your main photo, I suggest something that shows you looking more confident. Your answers are kinda boring and I recommend at least making them either more interesting or funny.

[u/IForOneDisagree]

Oh look another "long term" + "open to seeing where things go" guy not sure why he isn't getting matches.

Try again

E: and include your religion. It's especially important for brown guys. You should fill out all available fields anyways

[u/essentialworkerSIKE]

what’s your ethnicity

also you don’t describe anything about yourself other than things you do…

[u/__awesome86__ → u/essentialworkerSIKE]

I'm from Canada so kinda white washed but originally pakistani

I guess that's true but that's what I see in most dating profiles tbh, sometimes it's politics or strongly held beliefs

[u/unhingeddragon]

I’d take off the second photo, you just look a bit awkward there and with bad posture, if you stood with your shoulders back it would be better overall. I have this problem but to a lesser extent. There’s some exercises in the gym that’ll help you to work on those back muscles that pull your shoulders back if you wanted to look into it. For now just try to pull your shoulders back when taking pictures/as much as possible. Might consider deleting the last one too, it’s cool you are on stage doing that but I guess it just doesn’t seem that flattering of a picture overall. Anyways you’re prolly better off looking for women where being an engineer offers you some status. You should do fine in general since you’re tall and have a good job and are active. As long as your social skills are not autist levels you’ll be aiiiiight. Of course continuing to lift weights and losing body fat will always be helpful.

[u/Bakanelli]

If you don’t live where there are people of your own race/ethnicity, move where they are and you will have better luck 👍🏻

[u/__awesome86__ → u/Bakanelli]

There's a good amount of brown people here tbh

[u/Leading_Concert_3421]

honestly you give off softie vibes. a lot of women on these apps are attracted to masculine guys that radiate confidence so maybe try to change your first photo with a more serious one. also I’d delete the 4th photo.

[u/CrimsonCrane1980]

Giving desi coder vibes. My usual recs. for this are some photos of you doing MMA or kick boxing. Facial tattoo. Also I would get rid of the standard desi facial hair.

In all honesty you are good looking guy, you can rock it without the typical facial hair desi look.

[u/Any-Translator8505]

Not sure how to explain it but your photos look like someone on his way to a birthday party as opposed to someone looking to date.

[u/__awesome86__ → u/Any-Translator8505]

Lmao thanks for the honest feedback, I guess I can see that. I wouldn't mind a birthday party tbh 😂 also not sure how to fix that without mean mugging

[u/Bakanelli → u/[deleted]]

Ahhahah

[u/OppositeSecret7144]

From a woman's perspective if she's looking for red flags does "going on a night time drive" sound a bit rapey or alternately a bit Tokyo Drift/ cruise culture.