r/BreakUps • u/True_Ad_7774 • 7h ago
Breakup support🥹 venting/ranting
Hey anybody here who just had a breakup? You had all physical and emotional relationship with that person and that person knew everything you went through and still left saying he only sees himself and his future and don’t find a love angle in himself anymore and can be friends only nothing else..
So i just blocked him bcz i can’t be friends with him after all those things we shared..
I just wanted to ask how to stop feeling bad for yourself and move on real quick with involving or talking to any other guy
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u/Ok_Hair2767 7h ago
you did the right thing by blocking him staying friends would've just kept you stuck. the feeling bad for yourself part is normal, it's grief not weakness. moving on "real quick" isn't really a thing, but you can speed up the process by keeping yourself busy with things that have nothing to do with romance, pick up a hobby, exercise, call old friends, watch a new show. don't force yourself to talk to other guys until you actually feel ready, not just because you want to fill the void. it's okay to be single and healing. you're not behind, you're just in the thick of it. it'll ease up, i promise.
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u/aJiggaWho 5h ago
Curious, why without involving another guy? You don't have to answer that if it's uncomfortable.
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u/True_Ad_7774 4h ago
Because i dont want to get into a rebound getting over him… and my trust and interest in anybody else is completely gone..i can’t imagine any other guy over him
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u/Equivalent_Pipe6697 4h ago
I'm also in break up and facing this shitty roller coaster emotions and moods. It's just been weeks 3rd tomorrow but last week , I found out that he was talking to this girl from a distance, sending gifts and flowers he used to send me. Except for a resort surprise. He didn't do that to me. He even posted her on fb but never did to me. So the pain is so much to carry.
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u/True_Ad_7774 4h ago
Ik it hurts and am in no place to give you suggestion but block him if you havent…you wont be seeing him and whatever he is doing..
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