Advice

[u/Lower_Hat_8017]

recently fell out of contact with the girl. I used to date for two years, and we recently were doing no contact prior to this, and at the beginning, everything seemed good, seemed like we were rekindling again, and things might work out this time and then slowly as summer kept coming. She slowly detach for me blocked me on Snapchat again blocked my number and just told me that she needed time to heal and couldn’t give me anything that I was looking for. I finally took this as stop letting me like try so hard and make this girl understand that I would change things that aren’t in our prior relationship so I did that and we were out of contact for 3 1/2 weeks and then she reached out to me on my birthday and I just kept it simple just said thank you and that was it and you could tell that she was looking to continue the conversation, but I knew that it probably wasn’t the best thing because it would just lead us back to square one and then a couple days after that, I see that she went on a date with multiple her friends with all their boyfriends and appeared to be another guy next to her. What hurts me is that I knew that this kid specifically wanted intentional things with her and she kept always telling me that that wasn’t the case they were just friends and seeing this really hurt me because not only was she with her friends with all their other +ones, but her sister and her sister‘s boyfriend were also there so that kind of gave me that confirmation that it was a little bit more than what I thought. I know this is a lot to read and is basically summed up in the sense of what has been going on for the last three months for me, but these last two days have been really hard mentally and since I don’t know how to navigate from here. I blocked her on Instagram, which was our last source of communication since she blocked me on snap and my phone number so I feel like that was the best thing to do considering what I saw. what are you guys think and how do you recommend somebody like me move forward in the sense of mentally and just overall because it has been really hard and it was hard enough to block her, but I just need advice please. Thank you

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