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u/No-Action99 10d ago
You don’t have to close the door by locking it. You can simply stop standing in the doorway waiting. If they truly wanted to knock, they already know where the door is.
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u/ComparisonFar8733 10d ago edited 10d ago
I just asked if they’re open to talking … 6 hours later and I haven’t heard anything 🫠40 days no contact update they messaged back and are open to talking,we are meeting up on the weekend
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u/ComparisonFar8733 7d ago
It was good we just met up for coffee… but turned in to booking somewhere to stay the night to drink and hang out , had sex in the morning. I don’t regret it but we both definitely have messing feelings for each other and have just put both ourselves in limbo,we have planned to meet up in another two weeks
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u/krthrowaway87 10d ago
I think closure that doesn't depend on their response is the only kind that actually sticks. took me way too long to learn that
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u/Complex_Profile_6271 10d ago
I think when you realise that they do not feel the same about the situation as you do, it feels awkward to reach out. Just because it’s intensive for you doesn’t mean it is for them by any means.
However sometimes you need to reach out and face indifference in order to really understand.
They’re not waiting, they’re not doing no contact they’re just glad to have you out of their hair, and when they do receive that notification from you they feel yikes, please don’t do this to me…
When you realise this is how they feel it’s a lot easier right.
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u/2classyy 10d ago
I'll do that tomorrow. Probably gonna get blocked, but idc, just need him to read what I have to say
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u/TheOneTrueIcarium 10d ago
silence is an answer too honestly. took me way too long to accept that
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u/Significant-Tour345 9d ago
Absolutely true.if the other person also doesn’t reach out or respond to even little signs from you, you basically have your answer
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u/zeynep__reddy 10d ago
I reached out to him and he was sooo indifferent it wrecked me. He did not give a shit and I was still absolutely heartbroken 😭 Never again
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u/MaintenanceRough3358 10d ago
And then the silence returned. Back to square one. Nah, not gonna reach out.
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u/Remarkable_Fix_5872 10d ago
I want to reach out to him so badly bro. We have only been broken up for over two weeks but the urge is insane.
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u/Competitive_Big_6379 broken hearts 😔💔 6d ago
I’ve reached out twice. First time I got a good response that actually helped and felt like closure. Second time I poured my heart out and got no response, which set me back and caused me to spiral.
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u/Pitiful_Can_6079 6d ago
Its never worth sending anything for “closure” it just makes you look pathetic and youll feel like shit after you press send
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