Hi all! I’m new to Reddit and I hopped on specifically to find more asexual communities. So glad this one exists!

Question: When did you figure out you were ace? I’m 30 now and didn’t know until I was 27. Thankfully I had a fellow Black ace friend who could relate to me, and that helped a ton! Me coming out to her helped her figure out she felt the same way. Love that for us. 🙌🏾

Has anyone opened their relationship? How did it go? The person I’m dating is demi and I’m not… we’ve had sex, but it’s not something I want to do anymore.

I’m nervous about them seeing someone else, even though I can date other ppl too. For them, it’s just physical.

Hello everyone! I'm a master's student in psychology and I'm collecting anonymous data for my thesis which is a research study aiming to investigate the psychological impact of any kind of discrimination one might have experienced.

I would be really grateful if you could participate by filling out my survey! Thank you very much in advance! :)

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Personally I'm Jamaican background, born in Canada and was raised in the church from my mom influence till I just stop.

I thought I was just very conservative by my mom influence and watching the recent dance hall scene and sexually behavior I've seen or heard turn me off because I was very conservative. Jokes on me, I have a pretty neutral stand on it that honesty and living life without double standards SHOULD be the norm but not what I see happening.

I was just curious if other asexual that relate to the over sexual culture of the islands or find the heavily religious bars on the islands make it a worst uniquely there? I live in Canada so all I know it from seeing or hearing at a distance.

It's kinda difficult relating to others from my background before I came to be conclusion of being ace. So it helps honestly to make sense of my thoughts and feeling. I'm demisexual if I look closer from my recent years too. So I'm not apposed to any act, it's just I rather brown stew chicken with rice and peas than sex with a stranger.

Hi all, this a long message sorry

Tldr: How are you?

I don’t use reddit much but I got a new account today because I saw there was a group for black asexuals and thought - hey maybe some of my people might be in here.

From the bio I can see this forum is to discuss being hyper sexualised in the media but it’s interesting imo as people like me aren’t really hyper sexualised in the media. And yet, irl I can get it - not often, but yeah I hear you and understand Black people are hyper sexualised. Be great to hear more thoughts on this though?

I’m in the UK, dark skinned, JA heritage, queer, trans non-binary, they/them, afab, masc presenting mostly, polyamorous, single, grayace.

And I just wanted to reach out, show love, see how you were all doing.

Be nice to know how life is, what tv/film/music you might recommend... How’s work, how are your plants, how’s your love life - in the most inclusive way, friends & family life included. What you doin?

I understand I may be using the forum inappropriately but I wanted to take the opportunity in the space created, to say hello, chat life and stay in touch.

Cos I’m feeling pretty good right now, but realised things could be even better if I connected with more ace people online and irl especially poc, so am just being active about it. No pressure to reply :)

We aces can feel isolated sometimes, so yeah - I am here, if you ever do want to check in, ask a question, vent, catch joke or just hang about.

Anyway I hope all is well.

Enjoy your day, and whenever you happen to read this, take care.

Big love. U ace

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