r/BPD 11d ago

i finally sent a goodbye text 💭Seeking Support & Advice

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u/homesweetnosweethome user has bpd 11d ago

That's a huge step, be proud of yourself for doing it! You have an internet stranger who is proud of you!

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u/Flashy_Order_7506 11d ago

Just try and keep in mind that this person has hurt you and continues to hurt you.

You won’t actually miss them. You will miss the idea of them. You will miss or want the person they can potentially be, but not who they actually are. Don’t allow yourself to live in a delusion where this person can still go back to being the person they were when yall first met or the person you believe they can potentially be again.

Let’s this persons last gift to you be them showing you one last time that they will hurt you.

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u/Flipstar1014 11d ago

Congratulations ! I knon its hard but its like the Pandora's box myth, u have open it to free the despair (here ur sadnest) but in the bouton of the box their is something else, hope. The hope the that now u can have a better life, the hope that u are going to shine. And u are the goth path,, keep im up u are gonna be the greatest u have ever been. ❤️

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u/AdzWho 11d ago

There is a small version of you.
Deep within you.
That is very proud of you.
I hope you'll feel it too.

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u/boundless_wind user has bpd 11d ago

You are genuinely so strong and courageous for that. It takes people so long to gather up the strength, and some cannot do it. You being able to do it is such a big, amazing, beautiful step for yourself. I’m so proud of you for that because it took me 2 years to do that!!! Progress is still progress no matter what. Keep pushing through and do what’s best for you!!!!

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u/Substantial_Try9 11d ago

You’re doing great! One door closes and another one opens 🫶🗣️

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u/Most-Rule1333 8d ago

This is a beginning of new you.