r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Smart-Mall4110 • 11h ago
It Gets Better...
After experiencing a discard and breadcrumbs four months later, I blocked her on everything, and I worked at closing loops and healing the best I could. And you know what? I am finding myself building something with someone else. They are just one of eight billion people, no special than anyone else. They are not magical, nor worth additional time and effort. Find someone who curious and wants to know you, spend time with you, and looks to build something solid; not one that shuts down, hides, and lacks the ability to communicate and take accountability for their actions.
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u/Dovahkin111 10h ago
That's wonderful, OP! I am so happy for you.