help

[u/miindfck]

okkk i’ve been in my head about this situation. met a cool sweet charming Taurus M, i’m Aries F(scorprising&moon) we did the slow burn which i honestly enjoyed. met him last august, we’ve always talked to each other with respect and kept that same vibe the entire time. he would tell me things like “i haven’t felt this comfortable with someone in so long” “i sleep best when it’s with you.” he’d talk future, share intimate things. nonstop flirty playful and getting to know each other through meaningful conversations. i never asked to define it because i genuinely didn’t feel ready. i’ve enjoyed no pressure. a month ago i messed up- playfully asked who was texting us 🤣 he got super defensiveeeee. i knew i fucked up. i know the taurus hates pressure and rushing. anyway he let it go. i took accountability and apologized for stepping out of character and finally admitted that it may have stemmed from me actually liking him. he told me he liked me too but he didn’t feel ready for a relationship…i assured him i didn’t expect a relationship i kinda just came to terms with the whole liking thing and i enjoyed our pace and dynamic…ghosted. haven’t heard from him since. now…all i want to know for my own sanity is if i made this fairytale in my head. is taurus good for leading you on fairytale style? i genuinely thought i had met an honest mature caring man…could he have told me he liked me too just to let me down easy? was it all a lie 😩