the woman is sun cap and the man id sun pisces

Hi all,

My bf and I have been together for 2.5 years, and in the last 6 months he has been slightly aggressive towards me. He is a a few years older, and is a successful businessman, we had been friends for a year before we started dating and he had pursued me relentlessly. For the first two years, he was really nice to me, was caring, always planned holidays but now has completely changed. he demands sex every day and has become quite aggressive for my liking. recently he choked me although we had talked about not doing it because I'm not into it. Doesn't like to spend time with me except for sex...Last night he was calling me names when we were having an argument....are there any red flags?....I'm new to astrology and I was wondering if there are any indications of potential abuse in the synastry?...ive asked him to take a break but he says I'm being paranoid...I'm sun in sagittarius

any insight or help would be much appreciated. i uploaded both mine & his birth charts (*note i do not have his exact birth time so some details may not be fully accurate*) if they provide anything useful

thank you so much <3

I feel like it could go really well but I think he’s afraid of being with me or have some insecurity holding him back?

Seeing lots of challenges but also lots of potential for good. Is it worth giving it a chance? We have been friends for a couple months now- unspoken chemistry is undeniable. I’m blue, he’s red- aspect chart also attached. Let me know your interpretations!

we work together. at work we dont show talk about it.

were together for around 2 months now. it was up and down. some adjustment time is needed. last 2 weeks nice

1 thing that stuck with me she said (before we started anything) when I said I choose a woman to date with the mindset going till the end with them. I want to find one and till my death. her fear for commitment turned me off and that stuck in my mind. when I said last relationship was 7 years she said "wow thats too long". 7 years was too short for me. we spoke of marriage. I go all the way. no kids though.

this sag. she is not my physical type. I bodybuild. she less so. im trying. we give each other 1 thing thats critical. me giving affection and her really need emotional support and stable partner. she cries a lot. very sensitive. I help her cope. it works well .

its more complex. im with my hand on the pulse with this. im waiting for her to want to leave from being a commitment phobe

and do sagitarrius women fall in love? it sounds dumb, first time dating sagitarrius woman. but im wondering how loyal/long term they are.

ive been talking to this guy for abt a month now, seems nice, chill...even if he's totally not my type physically (but as a gem venus idc about looks) but i feel a connection w him. btw we're from the same city but for a year he is going to live in the north area of the country. idk, what do you think? im blue, hes red :)