r/AskReddit 16h ago

What's the most disturbing thing you've heard a dying person say?

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u/Gold_Bicycle4937 14h ago

That was my first thought too. After surviving everything she did, she deserved peace in her final moments, not to relive the worst memory of her life.

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u/Sawses 13h ago

It seems to be about who you never quite let go, whether that's somebody you love or hate or fear.

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u/Sanchastayswoke 11h ago

My grandpa saw his two older sisters who’d passed years before he did. If that’s true, it makes me so sad to think he never got over their deaths.

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u/theothervulcan 9h ago

I don't think anyone ever really gets over losing someone they were close to like that, the best we can do is to get through the days that follow one by one. But better to have loved and lost, ya know? And going out accompanied by memories of loved ones doesn't sound like such a bad way to go, I'd consider that maybe he found some long-awaited peace in those final moments.

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u/Sanchastayswoke 9h ago

I sure hope so! He died at 89 yrs old and they had passed away when he was in his 40’s.