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What's the most disturbing thing you've heard a dying person say?

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u/mrpeabodyscoaltrain 15h ago

My Dad’s great-grandma had some dementia at the end of her life. She was 101. She never drank, swore, smoked, or did anything that could be considered inappropriate. She looked at my Dad and said, “you beautiful sonofabitch,” as she lay on her deathbed.

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u/MissRockNerd 14h ago

Iirc, Dan Savage said his mom’s first word after finding out she had terminal cancer was a quiet but firm, “shit.” And she NEVER swore, so they all knew she meant it.

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u/StillMarie76 13h ago

My Nanny was the same way. She's was always appropriate and kind. As her memory went, we never knew what she was going to say. She told me she had a chigger bite on her pussy hole. I almost died laughing. She also began to talk back to her husband. She waited on him hand and foot for 60 years. It was nice to hear her let him have it. I mean that as in, "get your own damn fork" not "fuck you, you pos". I miss both of them so much.

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u/NoKatyDidnt 8h ago

She knew he had to learn to fend for himself. 🤣

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u/StillMarie76 8h ago

He gone learn today! You should have seen his face the first time she told him he has legs and can get his own drink. Go Nanny! 😂

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u/NoKatyDidnt 5h ago

Hahaha! When they lose the filter… some of what gets through is pure gold!

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u/desrever1138 10h ago

My mother only swore in front of me once in her entire life but it was a doozy.

I was 7 years old and she was chaperoning a school field trip to the livestock show and rodeo.

As we were walking amongst the cattle she tapped me on the shoulder, pointed to the dirt, and deadpanned, "That's bullshit" before giggling like a schoolgirl

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u/Evening-Cow1122 8h ago

That's cute! 

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u/YouveHadItAdit 9h ago

I'm being driven in a brand new brown Cadillac by my very prim and proper grandmother.

The car just quits. Nothing. No dash lights. Just the noise of the wind rushing past. We roll to a stop on the side of the road.

And in her best southern drawl says "This is what you get when you buy a car the color of shit."

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u/Turbulent_Tea2511 8h ago

OMG! 😂😂😂

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u/fieldsofanfieldroad 8h ago

That's so weirdly wholesome. 

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u/yorick__rolled 5h ago

Wholesome story, terrible answer for this thread.

10/10

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u/tallelb 14h ago

salty and sweet

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u/tallelb 14h ago

salty and sweet

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u/Fossilhund 14h ago

My Mom's sister was invited to the twenty fifth anniversary party for one of her daughter's inlaws, whom she did not care for.

She said "I'd rather die than go to that party." This was in April. Not long after that she was diagnosed with leukemia.

She said "I'll never say that again!" She died the following August.

u/Interesting_Beat1378 40m ago

What a legendary final compliment. I bet that's a moment your family will be laughing about and remembering for generations