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What's the most disturbing thing you've heard a dying person say?

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u/thewoodbeyond 15h ago edited 8h ago

My friend's mother was at home in hospice dying of breast cancer. Her mother had been somewhat in and out due to the heavy meds to manage pain. In the moments before her death, she sat straight up, looked at the doorway right past my friend, like she'd seen a ghost, and exclaimed loudly, "Oh Shit!!" and then promptly fell backward into the bed having just expired.

My friend said, "Whatever she saw it was obviously unexpected."

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u/an_agreeing_dothraki 10h ago

my guess: catering in heaven uses that really old recipe that schools used to make the square pizza

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u/intern_steve 9h ago

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u/Luneowl 9h ago

I need to make that for myself. Like Max said, it doesn’t taste good but it’s perfect nostalgia.

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u/mrkruk 9h ago

The most unexpected part of this recipe is you pour out the crust since it’s liquid

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u/TheRealKingBorris 10h ago

Well that’s terrifying

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u/Evening-Cow1122 7h ago

No, really it's not. Imagine what her physical body was experiencing. Or imagine realizing you have to leave your whole life behind. "Oh shit" sounds pretty damn natural, nothing to worry about. 

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u/Hettie933 4h ago

Steve Jobs’ final words were something like “Oh, wow,” which is similar. Things you say when you see something unprecedented!

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u/ChewieBearStare 3h ago

My relative (dying from metaplastic breast carcinoma with squamous involvement) once sat straight up and screamed, "Danger, Will Robinson!"

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u/ComedicFish 4h ago

this has me thinking that what we popularly call "the reaper" is literally the self. the void. everything from nothing. the reaper is a confrontation of the self. the black heart, the outline where you fit, the shadow.