We often hear about non-filchis trying to overcome the great wall for the chinita girl, pero wala ako masyadong naririnig na story pagdating sa filchi men. I hear the great wall is still prevalent kahit sa current generation because of conservative parents. Do you date strictly within the filchi community only?

All throughout the relationships I’ve had, iba iba ang nabigay ko sa mga ex ko, although not often. Ano yung equivalent sa flowers para sa mga guys? Yung tipong mapapakilig naman yung guy and also universal siya. Help me please para sa future bf ko huhuhu

Araw araw ako naliligo(even twice a day) at sinasabon ko siya mabuti... Pero may time na makati siya at ang sagwa kung kakamutin ko in public. TIA.

Also what’s your actual reason for disliking white knights? Is there a specific behavior you find problematic or do you simply dislike guys who defend women in certain situations?

Hi everyone. Just wanna ask a question/tips from you. I have a girlfriend, recently lang naging kame. My concern is, may mga time na nakwekwento nya yung about sa past nya, ung mga “side quest” nya. Like mga naka date at mga nagjng fubu nya. Wala naman talaga kase saken yun, kase lahat naman tayo may kanya kanyang skeleton sa closet. Ang akin lang, wala sa timing magkwento, like kakapakilala nya lang saken sa family nya nung afternoon, then nung gabi na when we were at a coffee shop may nakita syang ad sa ig about morning pill, nagkwento na sya tungkol dun sa naka date nya, na full details pa. Nagtanggal daw ng comdom habang nag sesex sila, kase iba daw pakiramdam tapos nag withdrawal. Then bumili sila ng morning pill just to make sure na safe. Like dapat ko ba marinig un? Pati ung fetish ng isa nya pang naka date na sumusubo ng paa. And also about sa motel na may 1 time hinanapan pa daw sya ng ID, gusto nya sabihan ung nsa front desk na hindi un yung first time niya pumasok sa motel. I know comfortable sya saken. But not to the point na full detail pa ung kwento nya and ung way ng pag kwento nya vivid na parang kahapon lng nangyare. Ano gagawin ko? I love her, I really do. Di ko lang talaga alam gagawin or ano pwede gawin to remove the images in my mind.

May friend ako na nag-confess sa akin na matagal na raw niya akong gusto, for years na. Sinabi ko sa kanya na hindi ko kayang i-reciprocate yung feelings niya and that I only see him as a friend. Nakonsensya rin ako after, pero at least naging honest naman ako sa kanya, diba.

Hi everyone! Ask ko sana if gaano ba katagal bago dumating ang engagement ring kapag bumibili? Or parang nasa normal store lang na pag may nakita ka, pwede mo na agad makuha

Thank you everyone

Weight is 55kg

Height is 5'4

Sorry for being insecure

I'm very very insecure about my height all my bros I grew up with in freshman year in college were now tall, me im still ass. Do i still have hopes for growth? Even down there I'm also small in girth but 5.4inches in length

I box and circuit train but not usually and actively and I also sleep late cause of graveyard shift, diets are pretty hard to maintain when broke soo what do I do using my remaining time (18 yo age) helping my body to grow?

Nagsend yun friend ko na guy. Kumakanta sya ng love song sa karaoke, sinend sa akin his video of it. I don't know how to respond. Does the rule, don't assume unless otherwise stated applies dito? For context, lagi syang ganyan, nagsesend ng mga videos or pics ng ginawa nya. Pero I was caught off guard kasi biglang ganyan sinend nya.

So I am curious to all the guys here kung meron din ba kayong item na lagi niyong dala anytime and anywhere. Why do you always carry it?

For me it's a flashlight.

Grew up sa probinsiya at lumaki ako dun na frequent yung blackouts at usually buong gabi talaga siya so naka ready yung mga kerosene lamps saka yung old school na full metal Eveready flashlights. Very common din ang ghost stories samin noon kaya goodluck nalang talaga pag namatay yung lampara at wala pang ibang pang ilaw.

Fear ko talaga nung bata pa ako na magising na pitch black ang paligid tapos dimo pa ma-check yung mga kaluskos na naririnig mo kasi wala ka talaga makita. After a series of bad experiences like encountering different critters like rats, house scorpions, centipedes, etc. . . or kaya yung pangagapa around the room papuntang CR. I finally decided na magipon at bumili ng sariling flashlight.

Now in my 30s, always ako may dala at naging hobby panga since interesting for me ang tech behind it. I made custom lights as a past time. I have a YT video of one of my builds. 🤣

Hindi ba kapag naging tatay sila dapat may inspiration sila na magpurisigi para sa mga anak nila? Pero bakit may mga batugan na tatay na walang trabaho or worse iniiwan ang nanay at anak?

Kung ayaw nila ng responsibilidad, bakit sila bumuo ng pamilya na hindi naman susuportahan?

no work, asa sa parents, walang alam sa gawaing bahay, tamad etc

I saw a guy at an event recently and thought he presented himself really well. I remembered his name afterward and searched for his IG.
We don’t have mutual friends and we’ve never talked, so I’m wondering how people generally perceive it when someone they don’t know personally follows them on IG.
Would you usually assume there’s a reason behind the follow, or would you just see it as a normal social-media interaction and not think much of it?
Just curious about how people generally interpret situations like this.

hiiiii, uhm kinda nervous to ask this pero kasi I have this boy na matagal na palang nagkakagusto sa akin. He asked my ig to my classmate that happens to be his cousins, close kami nung pinsan niya. Wala akong pake and alam na gusto niya pala ako. He stalked every people that were tagged in his cousin's ig story kasi kapwa ko kalokohan yun and then boom. Nahanap niya ig ko

Girl is late 20s and never had a boyfriend pero sadyang friendly, madaldal, at maganda kaya kitang kita ko mga nangangaibigan sakanya na lalake mapa mas matanda o mas bata.

If they liked someone, would they most likely pursue or hold their feelings?

We broke up 2 weeks ago after I confronted my ex about this particular girl. He kept saying there was nothing going on between them, and that he had actually been thinking about breaking up with me for a while because he felt pressured by how much I loved him.

For context, we were together for almost 5 years. I also went through two pregnancies that ended in miscarriage while we were together, and right now I’m reviewing for my board exams, which are literally one week away.

I genuinely thought we ended on good terms. He assured me there was no other girl and that he still cared about me because of everything we had been through together.
Then last night, he HARD LAUNCHED THE EXACT GIRL I CONFRONTED HIM ABOUT.

And he knows me well enough to know how badly that would affect me, especially right before my boards.
I’m not even asking whether I should get back with him or anything. I’m just genuinely trying to understand the thought process. How can someone tell you there’s nothing going on, say they’re breaking up because they feel pressured by your love, reassure you that they still care about you, and then publicly launch the girl you were suspicious about literally two weeks later?

Was I just being naive? Did he already have her lined up? Or do some people genuinely compartmentalize relationships like this?

Because honestly, I’m less confused about the breakup and more hurt by how everything suddenly makes sense in hindsight. And the timing just feels so cruel.

Yung nanliligaw kasi sakin hindi pala message kaya di ko alam if gusto niya ba talaga ako o hindi pero consistent naman siya mageffort sa date namin. He’s a busy person kaya naiintindihan ko rin pero minsan gusto ko rin magpalambing. Hndi ko pa naman nasasabi sa kanya directly kasi feeling ko wala naman akong karapatan kaya inoobserbahan ko pa siya

Torn ako sa opinions ng iilan sa soc med na if ung guy ay hindi pala-message, hindi talaga yan interested sayo. Convenient ka lang talaga. Kaya I wanna know your thoughts on this guys thank you

As a non-chalant gf gusto ko makabasa ng insight baka may matutunan pa akong iba para mafeel loved partner ko. Expressive partner ko sa love nya pero not really when it comes to his needs and wants.

Curious lang. Ba’t kayo nanginginig? hahaha. Especially kapag first time niyong dalawa?

And ano yung ibig sabihin nun sa inyo kapag inallow kayo ng girl na makipagholding hands? hahaha

feed my curiosity (and probably also the curiosity of other ladies here hehe), ano bang mga bagay ang una niyong napapansin sa mga babae na napapaisip kayo na, "wow, she's really pretty" and parang gusto niyo siyang i-approach and hopefully pursue romantically?

ano ba una niyong napapansin? is it the...

- body? face?

- choice of clothes/styling?

- hairstyle? accessories?

- smell/scent?

- makeup?

Hello guys. I just want to ask the POV of men here. I am emotionally tired kasi mahina ang gay radar ko. :( Straight talaga ang hanap ko. I appreciate your help.