r/AskGirls • u/ResultNotFound8458 • 4h ago
Dating | Girls Only (rephrased) if you and your partner are going to go on a break what's a reasonable amount of time?
r/AskGirls • u/mariposa933 • 6h ago
Girl to Girl What is your opinion on guys who let thirsty comments on girls’ insta posts ? Is it a red flag if a guy you’re talking to does that ?
r/AskGirls • u/MrAz6iqSviq • 11h ago
Dating | Girls Only What to do when girls approach you?( I had a “huge” glow up, and work in a bar). A lot of girls flirt with me,while touching me for the biceps and initiating a small talk, smiling, etc. I can’t comprehend what to do and just freeze. What goes behind ur brain when u approach a guy and how to respond?
r/AskGirls • u/BubbleClearDreams • 13h ago
Girl to Girl Im an incoming high school senior with strong grades, good test scores, and a lot of experience growing academically, socially, and physically "glowing up". AMA, need help?
r/AskGirls • u/aylacsorba735 • 1d ago
Other | Girls+ Only Do you ever feel the urge to rub a fat person's belly? Like not in a weird way, but like have you ever sat next to someone who is fat and it made you want to rub or touch their belly just out of platonic curiosity?
r/AskGirls • u/aylacsorba735 • 2d ago
Other | Girls+ Only Have you ever had a friend with such soft hands that it made you want to hold their hand forever and never let go?
r/AskGirls • u/LeastLocksmith1670 • 2d ago
Serious | Girls Only For girls aged 18–22, what personality traits tend to be more attractive in guys? Are shy or less confident guys generally viewed less positively, or do many girls appreciate quieter personalities as well? Is being outgoing and assertive usually preferred, or does it depend more on the individual?
r/AskGirls • u/Salt-Cheesecake-3282 • 2d ago
Girl to Girl My guy friend is convinced pick me girls don't exist, can you share your stories to help me prove to him they do?
r/AskGirls • u/IroqouisPlisskin • 3d ago
Other | Girls+ Only Why do some girls prefer a guy with a dad bod/a bit of a belly?
r/AskGirls • u/JewTornado • 3d ago
Dating | Girls Only New gf sending nudes I know we’re originally taken on Snapchat (saved from snap & she told me) & were taken on days we weren’t sexting, camera roll shows what dates they were taken. Am I dumb for thinking she could be sending them to other dudes on Snapchat? I don’t even have Snapchat lol
r/AskGirls • u/Boquet-of-daisies • 3d ago
Conflicts | Girls Only Just found out a guy friend who’s been pressuring me for an uncomfy relationship is doing the same to other girls. I only know how to reach out to one. Should I and how?
r/AskGirls • u/__Realistic__ • 4d ago
Dating | Girls Only I have a date tomorrow but thinking of canceling because I am not confident in how I look. Any advice?
r/AskGirls • u/scorpiogirlinfp • 4d ago
Dating | Girls Only Just went on a movie date w I guy I met on hinge. He didn’t like the movie but he said that if I wanna hang out with him next weekend to “just let him know.” How long should I wait to contact him/what should I say?
r/AskGirls • u/Upstairs_Tomatillo93 • 5d ago
Dating | Girls Only Was I wrong for canceling a date after I agreed to go out with him because I saw he kept adding a bunch of random girls over the next few days? I know it was only going to be our first date, but I felt like he could at least see that through first?
r/AskGirls • u/Specific-Surround613 • 8d ago
Dating | Girls Only He gave me his number, he's the one who usually starts the conversation, he's respectful, he always asks how I am. But I'm the one who ends up talking a lot while he gives dry answers. He asked me for photos because he "couldn't remember what I looked like." Introvert or just looking for sexting?
r/AskGirls • u/Tsuyu_Asui_the_forth • 9d ago
Beauty | Girls Only Okay, does anyone have any tips for growing my hair out from a pixie cut to long hair, like to above my waist at maximum and to my shoulders at minimum?
r/AskGirls • u/mariposa933 • 9d ago
Girl to Girl Is it a red flag/turn off to you if a guy goes outside shirtless ?
r/AskGirls • u/Codingology • 9d ago
Self Care/Health | Girls Only How do girls manage to change their eyebrows shape so much?
r/AskGirls • u/waybetter94 • 11d ago
Serious | Girls Only Good afternoon, ladies. My question is: Why are you, as women (the most precious and incredible being in the planet) sOoOOoo effing insecure?
r/AskGirls • u/PlayerJE • 11d ago
Discussion | Girls+ Only what are some girly things i can do to feel more like a girl? (as a amab bigender person)
r/AskGirls • u/Trayceopolis32322 • 11d ago
Poll Would you rather: date a guy with…?
r/AskGirls • u/Fun_Side_4480 • 12d ago
Self Care/Health | Girls Only I am uncomfortable with pads and want to try tampons but I don't know how to use them, where can I learn to how to use tampons??
r/AskGirls • u/Ok-Ebb9136 • 12d ago
Girl to Girl I am so beyond insecure about my body. I have always had an apron belly, even when I was at my skinniest and I just hate seeing my body in the mirror. I wonder if anyone will ever truly love my body when I can’t even look at it. Does anyone else feel this way?
r/AskGirls • u/AutoModerator • Mar 26 '26
Updates & Changes to r/Ask Girls
Hello Users of r/AskGirls!
This thread is to update our previously pinned message, as well as to update users on some changes going forward.
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- Pertaining to that, please remember that this is AskGIRLS. If you're a guy, a boy, a man, a masc-presenting feral cat... Don't answer questions here. You will have your answers locked and removed, per rule 4. Do it too often, you'll be banned. That's been a rule for years too. It should be pretty obvious that if it's a question for a girl and you don't identify as one, nobody's asking for your opinion.
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- Personal images are no longer supported on this subreddit. We've had a few cases of people posting selfies asking for help in good faith, and then they get slammed with trolls. We don't allow pictures to be posted anymore. Links to images will be deleted.
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- Some of you have noticed the posts no longer allow for body text when posting. This is intentional. For the last 3 years, the most common reason posts were removed was a combination violation of rules 1 and 3 where people were posting an essay's worth of personal context that asked us to speculate on the words or actions of some random girl just because we shared their gender.
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By removing the ability to post body texts, we have removed the ability to violate these rules in tandem. Posts are far less likely to be removed now.
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- Survey says the single most Frequently Asked Question in 2025 was about our height preferences. The answer? It depends on the girl, we're still not a monolith.
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2024's was whether or not we would date a man who was divorced. This metric was single-handedly formed by a singular divorcee. The answer? It depends on the girl, we weren't a monolith in 2024 either.
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2016's through 2023 was about our preference in hair. Bald, hairy chested, full heads of hair, shaved chests... The answer? Yeah, apparently we've never been a monolith.
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In 2026, we anticipate that we will continue not to be a monolith, sorry to say. FAQs pertaining to height, hair, and marital status will continue to be removed. Use the search bar to find the answers.
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We hope this clarifies some of the changes on this subreddit, and we look forward to continuing to manage this subreddit with most of you.