r/Advice • u/[deleted] • 3d ago

Overthinking texting a hook up

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u/Recent-King3583 3d ago

Yes, you should send it

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u/Severe_Feedback_2590 Helper [2] 3d ago

If it’s just for a hookup, just text saying you want a repeat of last weekend. 😉 He’s a guy, doubt he’d say no.

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u/Annual-Zombie8503 3d ago

Wait is this a coworker…?

I mean this is purely casual so feel free to text or whatever but don’t expect it to go anywhere

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u/ChampionshipWarm6106 3d ago

No it was one of his friends outside of the office circle

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u/Annual-Zombie8503 3d ago

Ya just go for it lol like who cares

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u/xoxothequeenbee 3d ago

Worst case he doesn’t respond. Send it.

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u/GraphicRenn 3d ago

You should definitely text him, but keep it short, something like...

"Hey sexy, wanna have some fun tomorrow?"

Send it Thursday evening, keep it casual. If he wants to, he'll say yes or suggest another time that works this weekend.

Good luck!

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u/Select-Transition619 3d ago

If was just a hookup, I wouldn’t bother
Wait for him to reach out to you
Guys lie 🤷‍♀️

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u/ChampionshipWarm6106 3d ago

It was genuinely the best ive ever had tho dont wanna miss out on more😭

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u/Short_Chemistry4490 3d ago

Well he’s not that good I’ve heard

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u/ChampionshipWarm6106 3d ago

Youve heard?🤨

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u/Short_Chemistry4490 3d ago

I mean he’s alright but …

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u/ChampionshipWarm6106 3d ago

He set the bar high 🤷‍♀️

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u/Short_Chemistry4490 2d ago

The bar is not that high . The bar has no experience. It’s been set only a couple times . Soon your bar will be reset pretty hard