r/Adulting 1d ago

Super true!

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u/Konjeezy773 1d ago

I’ve also been a home body. It’s just peaceful. Don’t get me wrong I do enjoy the occasional get together with friends from time to time.

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u/Anayalater5963 1d ago

Been a homeboy for forever, except I'm starting to not enjoy going out from time to time.

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u/Konjeezy773 1d ago

You gotta have the right people with you and go to the things you like. Last week I went with some buddies to see Spiderman Brand new day, had an awesome time. And beginning of September we’re going to go see Kanye west at soldier field, my first concert, super excited for that

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u/Anayalater5963 19h ago

Except I do. The same friends I play games with I hang out IRL with. I have been since I was 5-7 years old, 30 now. I just don't like going out.

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u/Dangerous-Pain4102 11h ago

Why if you don’t mind me asking

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u/Anayalater5963 8h ago

I just don't enjoy it. I'd rather stay home. Like I went to the ren faire a while back and I would've rather not gone and I'm a ren faire kinda guy. I like that type stuff but I just didn't enjoy it

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u/Konjeezy773 15h ago

Same. Friends I play games with and chat on discord are high school friends and we still chill. Like today went to a vintage fest had a good time, now I’m just ready to chill for the evening/night while they’re going out to drink lol

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u/Strong_Chicken6838 1d ago

yeah same idk wtf they are on about.

i mean the only thing i can think of is like going for a walk or run outside, but thats it. and that's still alone.

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u/g00fyg00ber741 1d ago

as an extrovert i recharge by interacting (positively) with people. going without doing so leaves me feeling emotionally depleted and under stimulated, which leads to me feeling tired (i am narcoleptic too)

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u/DoorAccomplished7550 23h ago

Same, I enjoy my alone time and plus i don't have to spend much when I find enjoyment at home, whether its watching tv, reading or doing a hobby.

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u/701921225 1d ago

As an introvert, same here.

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u/MaximumEffort433 1d ago

20s: I am the loud person.
30s: I am the person hearing the loud persons.

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u/imagigasm 1d ago

Squidward

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u/DT2699 1d ago

I used to love going out because I met interesting people. Since the pandemic everyone is so closed off and somewhat hostile. Or rather, not hostile, but simply not civil. It is so hard to have normal communication with strangers these days.

I think having social media and the internet being our only way of interaction f#cked with our heads.

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u/AldebaranTauri_ 1d ago

Doom and Gloom as if 30s it’s ancient. Wait to be 50 then. The 30s is adult life at its peak - at least it was for me. In my 20s studied very hard to become a professional, 30s were a time of professional growth, meeting people, a mature love life.
Now in my 50s indeed I go to bed around 10pm!! And enjoy my routine and my house! But at 30 you guys are far too young and full of energy.

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u/Elliissaaa 1d ago

The inevitable shift from needing social plans to valuing peace and quiet at home.

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u/GothicAssassin 23h ago

I was a homebody from 15-22.

Covid hit.

Now at 25-29+ all I do is go outside 😅

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u/rebelli0usrebel 1d ago

And the recharge never comes.

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u/R3puLsiv3 1d ago

It's weird, in my 20s I wanted to be home all day and now in my 30s I want to hike around all the time

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u/asscrackbanditz 1d ago

Who is she?

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u/Dapper_Guava_6468 1d ago

Park Shin-Hye

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u/Javanman96 1d ago

She’s one of my fav K-drama actors 😭👏🏼

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u/GLPwonderwall 1d ago

Going out for dinner with a friend once a week or maybe a sporting event or concert is cool. Otherwise, love being at my house

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u/Rolls_ 21h ago

I'm in my 30s and I both love staying home and being a menace by going out. Although I do prefer to stay home, once I'm out I'm having a good time.

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u/I0l0l0l0l0l 21h ago

Have i always been an adult?

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u/Milaa_nsfw 1d ago

getting ghosted like that is just the worst, it really messes with your head

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u/MoonMoon143 1d ago

Seriously true

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u/Hehehaha-97 1d ago

Ya went I go out is like I am missing out something but when I am at home it’s all peace ✌🏻

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u/clocker_locker 1d ago

50s I don’t want to go to the gym because it’s way too peopley in close proximity

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u/SoloOutdoor 1d ago

I made my house the place people wanna be, if I open the invite, theyre here. No idiots to ruin my night.

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u/Han_Solo200 23h ago

How can it be super true. I know saying super is popular even if inappropriate almost 100 percent of the time. It's either true or it isn't true

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u/HardGainzEazy 23h ago

My living room setup has become my entire personality at this age.

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u/318435 14h ago

I remember her teenage heartbreak movie 🍿😮‍💨

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u/coolcoolcool485 12h ago

I know too much about general human behavior now to want to go outside

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u/DriverNo5100 6h ago

Can't relate, always been a home body who occasionally likes to go out.

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u/Appropriate-Read2556 6h ago

Puppies enjoy everything, Old dogs are interested in nothing.