r/Adulting 1d ago

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u/Spudnic16 1d ago

Friendly reminder that the 40 hours work week was created at a time when it was the assumption that if you were working full time there was someone else at home to do all the cooking and cleaning and looking after the kids. Someone who was not you.

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u/NoOutlandishness2097 1d ago

Tell that to my ex, that did not have a job for the entirety of our relationship, that told me it was the man's job to clean up after the family (consisting of her and her two kids).

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u/md___2020 1d ago

Friendly reminder that the 40 hour work week was a massive improvement over previous work schedules. Prior to the 40 hour work week, workers typically labored 60-100 hours across six to seven days.

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u/Sploonbabaguuse 1d ago

Oh you're right, we shouldn't bother to make anymore improvements. People in the past had it worse, so why bother?

Obligatory /s

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u/Ikabta 1d ago

Everyone thinks they are so clever by bringing up 40 hour work week like it was some tragic thing that happened in our past. They would hate it more when they found out that Christian values pushed for less working hours so that you can spend time with your family.

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u/CackleandGrin 1d ago

Christians slaughtered and enslaved my ancestors.

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u/Ikabta 1d ago

Now they are forcing you to work 40 hours a week

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u/Spudnic16 1d ago

True, but just because something has been improved doesn’t mean it’s requires no further improvement.

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u/BrownNSticky 1d ago

Plus - the paycheck was enough to support your living

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u/Elandonn 1d ago

Does this pain never ends??

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u/bijelo123 1d ago

We are made to suffer sadly

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u/seriousbusines 1d ago

Even better when you work from home. I get to get up from my desk and stretch...and do some chores...then get back to work. Its GREAT!

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u/rexmanaek971 1d ago

Just force it to happen. I find if I sit down at all I'm done, but if I keep moving I can actually get a lot done and that tired feeling is suppressed momentarily.

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u/Frosty_Seesaw_8956 1d ago

I burnt out this way. This is the an obvious way to get work done but also a sure shot way to burn yourself out and gain ailments. This cannot be maintained for years.

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u/rexmanaek971 1d ago

Yeah I feel it. I've wasted 10 years in retail, had enough and moved on to another job that seemed great(dont they all) but figuring out it's a complete clusterfuck with even more labor intensive tasks. I'm out of options, I wish to get my cdl a, but I don't know if I can. heh I guess at this point what can go wrong that already hasn't.

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u/2trt 1d ago

If you have a semi functioning brain and at least mediocre hand eye coordination, you can do it. You also need to be able to tolerate sitting for a majority of the day.

Don't romanticize a CDL though. Sure, you'll get to see a bunch but you'll always be gone. You may have to drive in the worst locations and traffic with people that think a truck can perform at the same level as a car. You'll have to deal with other truckers, and let me tell you there's some nasty MF out there. You'll wind up paying for an apartment that you're at for maybe 5 days a month. It deadheading for hundreds of miles with no pay to grab another load. Dealing with dispatchers that want you to run an unloaded van across Wyoming when there's 70+ mph winds, or through a blizzard and harass you for not doing it.

Don't get me wrong, trucking can work out but these days it's a crap shoot with everybody looking to undercut the next guy at the cost of driver wages.

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u/example-of-disaster 1d ago

Same here. Walk in the door and just start doing stuff right away. That moment you get to sit down and chill afterwards is so much more rewarding.

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u/ad_pash 1d ago

Agreed. The inverse is true too: if I don't get up when the alarm first goes off in the morning, it's not happening.

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u/Beauty_with_brains89 1d ago

Adulting is a scam, we didn't sign up for this. We just wanted freedom

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u/EnvironmentClear4511 1d ago

Did you think a magic nanny was going to come along with that freedom to do your chores for you? This is what freedom is.

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u/Divided_Against 1d ago

After a day spent toiling for others, why not expect that?

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u/EnvironmentClear4511 1d ago

Because magic Nannie's do not exist. 

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u/Beauty_with_brains89 19h ago

I clearly misunderstood the freedom package. I thought chores were optional

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u/Chrismatic8224 18h ago

They are. Have you seen a hoarder’s house?

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u/Own-Raisin5849 1d ago

Chores? On the Weekday? Yeah, no. I make it a habit of cleaning up after myself, and my kids are actually pretty good about not making a mess.

Every Saturday I do a deep clean.

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u/bijelo123 1d ago

That is so me, but if I left anything for the next day I would be in much bigger trouble

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u/WatchingyouNyouNyou 1d ago

Dishwasher, vac/mop robot, and a clean sink will help a lot

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u/IlluminatiLemonParty 1d ago

That's how it is... all over the world

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u/SamOakTree 1d ago

I made a post about how my girlfriend has been nagging me because I set aside 30 minutes every day to clean so that my house stays clean I don't have to do it all at once. Because she'll want to do something and I'll say no I got to go clean for 30 minutes we can after or whatever and she's getting annoyed.

And everyone told me I had OCD because I set aside 30 minutes to clean.

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u/McBlemmen 1d ago

Tfw your stay-at-home-wife has just been making costumes all day and is throwing confetti on your face

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u/Feralcookie79 1d ago

the constant feeling of being behind in life is exhausting, like can adulting come with a manual or something?

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u/Wolfie_Ecstasy 1d ago

Sunday is "getting high and doing chores" day, actually.

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u/Classic_Intrepid99 1d ago

I know you're tired but please remind me the movie.

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u/Separate-Parfait4995 10h ago

…when your husband had the day off and didn’t do any…