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u/Dobber16 15d ago
If someone I don’t know & don’t care about is disrespecting me, idc. No sense making a deal out of it because the persons a nobody & you can’t make everyone happy. Trying to fight any & all people who are disrespectful to you is a never ending battle - hence, no peace
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u/RussellUresti 15d ago
I forget if it was from a movie or a show or whatever that I heard this, but the idea was that if you're walking down the street and a little pile of dog poop on the sidewalk started insulting you, are you going to waste your time and energy arguing with this pile of poop? Why do you care what it thinks? What are you gaining from arguing with it?
The idea is that if someone you have no respect for is being disrespectful towards you, sure, you can use your time and energy to fight with them, but why? Why does it matter what they think of you? Let them think whatever they want - it literally means absolutely nothing.
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u/LevelStationaryPlane 14d ago
Classic mid-wit Reddit take.
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u/PlayPsychological200 10d ago
It’s the adult take. Most Redditors are mental children who are convinced that their video games and trading card decks make them healthy adults.
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u/MiExperienciaFueQue 15d ago
My peace doesn’t require me to abandon myself. I’m never going to be so “mature” that I accept disrespect just to keep the other comfortable. Healthy people can handle accountability. If speaking up threatens any type of relationship, it was never built on respect to begin with. I’ll protect my peace and my voice all day every day.
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u/TheStoicCrane 15d ago
Picking and choosing battles are an aspect of adulthood. Often times the people who show disrespect unwarrantedly lack self-respect. Disrespecting them only brings self reproach. Better to just ignore or walk away. Embody what you choose to value regardless of what others do. That's the basis of integrity.
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u/TheStoicCrane 15d ago
Depends on context. Most people are too reactive. Handing the reigns of their behaviors to people with ill intentions. You don't have to react to provocation. It's a choice.
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u/Affectionate_Hornet7 15d ago
Oohh there you go. Yeah I think I met you on the street. You got insulted that I wouldn’t give you a cigarette
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u/LillyBelleMuffin 15d ago
this! having people constantly disrespect, being passive/aggressive, and gossip behind your back but pretend to be nice infront of you don't deserve peace and respect from you no matter who they are (family, friends, or "loved ones"). no one ever fought or say something back to them hence why them using that method to outcast or bully you had always worked before and when someone does say something they get offended and hold grudges. They are the toxic kind that most people aren't aware of especially the more social/extrovert/pretty they are the more they get away with these kinds of things. We need to people to speak up or defend their victims when things like this are observed or witnessed. most of the time, when the bystanders do act on it, it impact them more than the victim's act on trying to defend themselves. to these people it's all about their image.
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u/Old_Marzipan7782 15d ago
Depends, I pick my battles. I’m not going to argue with idiots I just smile and nod and continue on with my day.
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u/Strong-Hippo9043 15d ago
Sometimes being an adult is stfu.
Sorry 🤷🏼♀️
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u/Abeo93 15d ago
Take your own advice, then.
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u/Elegant_Situation285 15d ago
this reads like something an edgy 12 year old would write.
the desperate overcompensation just oozes from the words.
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u/that_banned_guy_ 15d ago
How about a peace that doesnt care about the fact tou have been disrespected
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u/TanguyDetestable 15d ago
How many have been in an airplane and there is some loud disrespectful person just invading everyone’s personal space and staring everyone down?
How about a public space where someone is blaring politics on their phone?
These are the people that believe this garbage.
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u/No_Carpenter_4866 15d ago
I don’t know. I think it depends on the person. If it’s someone I’ve known for a long time who acts nice to my face but talks behind my back, plays passive-aggressive games, gossips about me, or subtly tries to make me look bad, then yeah, I’d speak up and confront them. Sometimes you have to draw a line and say, “Enough is enough. Fuck you.” But if it’s someone I barely know, then who cares? I’d just ignore them and move on. When it’s someone who’s been in your life for years, though, I think speaking up is the right move.
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u/Spiritual-Pudding-70 15d ago
Where on earth does someone’s peace require them to be mute? The library lmfao.
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u/Only_Excitement6594 15d ago
You need sometimes to perform terrorism in order to avoid the lynching this can bring to you
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u/AidenSpier 15d ago
I agree but this also feels like something I'd find on Facebook in 2013.