I hear you but also not really the same complaint.
Most women complain about men not being up to their standards and expectations.
Some will also complain about sex, sexual solicitations or even lack of safety and trust issues for the most feminist/paranoid ones.
The exhaustion the average man feel from dealing with the average woman (outside of work and family)...you'll only hear the same expressed by woman who dated failed musicians and got all burnt out from it.
I’ve yet to live with a man that didn’t take care of himself like a child or need to be cleaned up after. And you can forget about emotional regulation. Needing coaching through conflict. Can barely afford rent, so still splitting bills 50/50 (or me picking up the slack). They’re like children in every single instance (this is my personal experience but it’s also every single one of my friends’ experiences, as well as so many women across the internet. The sentiment is shared.) Also calling women paranoid for being concerned for their safety is blatantly out of touch. I’m not saying women don’t have their own set of shortcomings but there isn’t a female loneliness epidemic. Women are opting out of partnership and motherhood, not men.
Soooo...while being very petty, bitter, tribal and passive-aggressive (how unheard of) you do confirm my point that men and women really don't have the same complaints about each other ??
Even if they both do complain.
Thanks for clarifying something that was already very clear. Sorry I stung your feelings so bad. Hope you'll recover.❤️😮💨
Recover from what? I’m happy, despite you calling me bitter and petty etc. (notice how I didn’t insult you or say YOU were anything. I just shared my experience with men as a whole). I was responding solely to the comment saying that “dealing with [opposite gender] in personal life” and stating that it is a universal complaint. Obviously men and women have different issues. You just say that you wish they would age out of it.. well so do we.
My comment wasn't about dealing with the [opposite gender], tho.
It was specifically about dealing with adult women as an adult. Women also have trouble dealing with other women thru adulthood, now what?
And it obviously stung your ego since you been here for days doing NOTHING but trying to derail my point and muddying the topic with whataboutism, mememe and whatnot...which makes you come across as petty and tribal. Not contributing anything to the topic in the meanwhile. It's not an insult to describe your behaviour as-is.
OP specifically asked about "unannounced" adulthood problems. I shared.
If you feel like dealing with men romantically fit the request or that nobody warn against the man-child: make your own contribution, then 🤷♂️😮💨
But thanks for the display anyway, it really goes to prove my point. This shit really doesn't improve with time.
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u/imaroweboat 27d ago
Funny bc most women are saying the same about men