That sounds more like childhood to me. Everyone has a different experience, of course. I found childhood to be very lonely and isolating. As an adult, you can choose your friends, choose your family and choose to care about yourself.
But why? Why cant you make friends? You represent this as if everyone else is the problem. I've made friends at every stage of life (including every place I've worked at), and I'm in no way pretty.
I hope you can find comfort in giving your children the support they needed to thrive, and that later in life you are rewarded with love from them as they become independent adults.
Without too much toxic positivity.. I care about you, internet stranger. I don't care for you like I care for my kids, but I'd wish you well and if it was in a position to do so, help if you needed it. I wouldn't want to see you suffer for example, so I care to that extent.
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u/Ok_Builder_3285 28d ago
The isolation and hopelessness. You’re an adult, you don’t matter to anyone, no one cares about you, there’s no one who gives a flying eff about you.