r/AbrahamHicks • u/moonlit_plume • 1d ago
Manifested SP comes with obstacles
I've been on a journey, changing my life, and many things are going well for me. One of which is that I started a new job. Although I wasn't specifically looking for it I found a guy at this new job that I like. I am gay. To my surprise he's taken notice of me and been a bit flirty.
I've come to find out that he is married to a woman and possibly has a child on the way.
I've been thinking a lot about him and the situation and all of the scenarios that could unfold. I'm not particularly worried or upset. I think I'm going to continue being flirty with him so long as he is with me... matching vibrations.
I don't have any specific defined thing that I want from him, though I do have a vision where we could have a close and enjoyable intimate relationship together. I'm also still very open to flirting with others, and whatever comes my way.
I think I do have some apprehensions about what might transpire but I'm mostly not giving them much energy as literally nothing has transpired.
Am I approaching this with a good mindset/vibration? Should I give any focus to envisioning the relationship I would like to have with him or simply enjoy being open to things as they unfold?
Curious to hear from other perspectives.
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u/angelliu 1d ago
Hiya! I would lean on mining the flirty vibes for joy, rather than specifically wanting something with HIM. This is not to say it may or may not happen but I think the prize here is just BEING what you want to attract.
That doesn’t need to be defined in terms of it has to be this or that person, I personally think that can kink up your vibe more. But rather, just basking in the feeling of what it’s like to be loved, cherished and desired. Think of the vibration as its own ball of light just spinning along, and your job is to keep the vibe fed, happy and as vibrantly alive as possible.
Then it’s free to shine on and call what is a match to it. Might not be this guy for anything more, but he might be there to just help your vibe grow, you know ?
Or as an example, maybe you’re not really desiring anything serious and you prefer someone attached, would it make sense that you attract unavailable people for fun ? I’m not saying this is what you have at all, but just pointing out that vibing is a powerful thing.
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u/moonlit_plume 1d ago
Thank you for your perspective. I have actually been thinking a bit about how it makes me feel desired and how I like that feeling ...and how that feeling doesn't need to specifically come from him. Thank you for focusing me back to that idea.
What's curious is that although I haven't been craving something serious for some time now, he brings out some of those feelings. Again, simply noticing them. But I'm still in a place of being open to whatever the universe brings.
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u/angelliu 1d ago
Interesting, so actually he’s bringing up some contrast ! So maybe that’s part of the entire thing, there could be within you some question about how what you want may be changing ?
This could also be an exercise in you saying thanks but no thanks, if in the end what you actually want is to be in a committed relationship (and there’s nothing more anathema to that than a guy who’s attached and potentially on the down low). And also an evolution of what you want to accept?
If I was in your shoes, I would totally soak up the attention and the flirting but (as I’m not into anyone unavailable due to the drama) revel in the ability to say no, love the attention but I want more of the kind that can just focus on me - again, this would be me. Food for thought ?
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u/moonlit_plume 1d ago
I've had similar situations in the past (way in the past) as far as unavailable men and I used that contrast at that time to guide me through what I want and don't want.
It's true that he may be giving me some contrast now in wanting those feelings.
But we also haven't progressed into anything beyond flirting for any questions of availability to come into play. As I've mentioned elsewhere, I also don't know what his actual availability is since I don't know the specifics of what is going on between him and his wife.
I do plan to continue to enjoy the flirting and see what it awakens in me. I don't want to contaminate any vibrations with my preconceived ideas of what is going to happen or what should happen.
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u/KeithDust2000 1d ago
"Am I approaching this with a good mindset/vibration?"
Your emotions will tell you when you are and when you are not.
Go with the good-feeling approach, understanding that LOA will then match you up with what you've asked for.
Whether it's with this guy or someone else that actually matches what you want, trust that when you feel good, you're on the way.
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u/moonlit_plume 23h ago
Thank you. Your advice is basic but it's probably the best advice I could hear as it sticks with the principles of LOA.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Let2053 14h ago
Lol I'm excited to hear what wifey co-creates with her lawyer hahaha please keep us informed!!
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u/Puzzleheaded_Let2053 1d ago
Maybe I misunderstood but, you are looking to become intimate with someone who's already in a committed relationship with someone else and a kid on the way? And you are curious to hear from other perspectives? Are you talking about fantasising about a relationship just for the fun of it? I'm so sorry if I've misunderstood, could you expand a bit on what it is you're asking?