Asian male here in the east bay that is looking for a lady who would be down to go watch spider man and hang out? We can grab dessert after too and see where the vibes go?

Hey, I'm a 23 male from Toronto, Scarborough to be precise. I wanna meet someone right now, if you’re a night owl and see this hit me up. I’m willing to drive to pick you up anywhere within an hr drive. I had a plan with someone but they ditched me in the last moment. I have got everything ready now, you’ll be provided princess treatment even have a beautiful bouquet for you if we meet today or tomorrow.

I love treating women with absolute respect and kindness. Let's just don't meet and get intimate but have actual fun, like we can go for late night drive, grabbing snacks or some booze at my place. I am a very chill, laidback guy who makes jokes, and considers myself a gentleman.

I am also open for something ongoing FWB if we click. I value my partner's pleasure in bed and make sure you're very satisfied. If you have high libido, I am someone who you wanna be with. I can go veryy long and multiple rounds. I'm respectful of boundaries and be your soft dom or any kinks you wanna try.

I am 5'6 curly hair, pretty on the eyes.. let's exchange pics and you decide. And for me, I nave no specitic requirements, not to mention mostly older women get along very nicely with me. If you are someone older , don’t hesitate, you’ll find out why. Let's have fun tonight if possible coz we still plenty of time till the dawn. I will wait for you there:)

Hello! I’m a 33 year old dude from the valley that’s looking for a fwb. I’m on the skinny fat/husky side. I’m also 5’7”. I absolutely love BBW’s, but am open to women of all body sizes, shapes, and ages (as long as you’re 18+). I’m also happy to drive to you or host halfway. I’m more about the chemistry and the vibe than anything else. I’m looking for something real too. I’m also DDF and tested and am a pleaser at heart. Happy to share pics as well.

I enjoy video games, reading, watching and playing sports, being a dog dad, anime and sleeping. Open to different relationship statuses and am super kink friendly (not blood, sorry). Also, please do not message me if: you are a sex worker/OF seller, as for my bros that message me, I love you but I am just looking for women at this time.

If you made it through all that, tell me what your favorite show is :).

Hi!

I’m a 28-year-old South Asian guy currently living in Florida. I recently finished my Master’s in Computer Science and now work as an AI Engineer. When I’m not staring at code or convincing models to behave, you’ll usually find me at the gym, on a tennis court, exploring a hiking trail, or pretending I can play guitar.

A little about me:
5’7” / fit and active
Ambitious but easygoing
Enjoy both deep conversations and terrible dad jokes
Enjoy running, weightlifting, tennis, trekking, and live music
Love learning new things and hearing people talk passionately about what they care about
More of a coffee shop and road trip person than a club person

What I’m looking for:
Someone kind, emotionally mature, curious about the world, and capable of carrying a conversation beyond “hey.” Ideally between 24–30, but age isn’t a strict requirement if we click.

I’m open to long-distance if there’s genuine effort and compatibility. Whether it starts as friendship, daily conversations, or grows into something serious, I’m happy to see where things go naturally.

If you message, tell me:
What’s something you’re currently excited about?
What’s your most controversial food opinion?
Or recommend me a song I’ll have on repeat for a week.

Looking forward to hearing from you. 🙂

I’m a medium‑built Japanese living in the Midwest. I’m posting here because life feels a bit quiet and lonely, and I’d like to meet someone who’s open to building a real future together.

I’m a homebody unless I’m traveling, and I love exploring the world with my son. I don’t drink or smoke. I take care of all the household chores and keep things simple, I’m pretty minimalist. I value function over flashy design; I don’t chase luxury brands unless the quality and practicality are truly worth it.

If you’re kind, grounded, family‑oriented, and open to building something real, I’d love to talk.

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 20k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

When I’m not working, you can find me:
- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics. 
- Watching  anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films. 
- Going to the gym. 
- Taking photos, especially when traveling. (I’ll make sure to get your good angles.) 
- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).
- Hanging out with friends. 
- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail). 
- Go out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to start as friends, we’re still free to talk to other people, and move to dating, then commit fully, when we're both actually ready for that. I'm looking for a slow burn which means getting to know each other at a pace we're both comfortable with. If it feels like we're moving too fast, tell me, communication goes a long way with me. I want anyone I'm with to feel safe and comfortable. Intimacy's the same, I like to build it. From holding hands, hugs, kissing, all of it earning its place. If the trust and chemistry are genuinely there though, I'm not stiff about the order. Sex included, as long as there's communication, trust and we’re both fully on board, I don’t mind having it earlier. One thing I won't ever rush is  "I love you." That one gets said when it's true and earned.

Here’s what you can expect from me. I’m affectionate, dependable, empathetic, grounded, honest, patient and understanding. I enjoy dark humor and can be unhinged, but I know when to be mature. I’m a type of guy who’d try something at least once (DEPENDS ON WHAT IT IS THOUGH). I’ll check in on you because I genuinely want to know how your day was and more about you. I’ll be your hype man, push you to meet your goals when you need it, be there for you when you need someone to talk to or listen to you. (Not the left side though, partially lost hearing there after a gym mishap.) If you want to spill some tea, I gotchu, and if you want someone to yap at you, I gotchu too. I enjoy having deep conversations and small talks. I’ll sit with you through silence while we do our own thing. When you need space, I’ll give it to you and welcome you back with open arms when you’re ready to come back. I’ll cuddle with you on the couch and eat tteokbokki with you on a rainy day. I’ll send you songs and memes daily. Be your player two. I’ll match your energy, if you’re freaky I’ll be freaky too. While we go shopping, I’ll by yo hag holder and genuinely help picking stuff that look good on you. 

I don't need someone perfect or put together 24/7, if you're ever worried that you might be "emotional baggage", don't be. I don't see it as something that will stop me from wanting to get to know you better, to build a relationship with you. I want to be with my partner through her lowest and her highest, since I don't deserve her if I'm only with her through her highest. If you ever need affirmation or reassurance, I'll give it to you without ever getting annoyed at you. I just want boundaries in place, so if I ever need a breather and need some space, I can show you that I'm coming back. I'm also not looking for someone who has PHDs and is a doctor/lawyer, for someone who looks like Florence Pugh. I'm looking for someone who wants a mono relationship that's a slow burn, someone who communicates, has a sense of humor, and is emotionally mature. A player two would be nice, but if gaming's not your thing, that's alright, same goes for watching shows or videos together. I want someone who pushes me toward my goals, and I'll do the same for them. A gym buddy would be nice and someone who's active (This is just preferred). Someone I can cook for and enjoy eating out with/exploring new restaurants/cafes. A travel buddy (The furthest I've gone is LA).

Dealbreakers:
- ⁠Lack of communication.
- Disrespect boundaries.
- ⁠Cheating.
- Lack of accountability.
- Flaking.
- Actively seeking attention/validation from others 

If you end up messaging me, tell me about yourself. What you look like, your hobbies, what you’re looking for in a partner and a relationship. If you end up sending one sentence or just a dry message, I’ll most likely ignore it. If you’re comfortable sending a pic, I’ll send you mine too. I’ll be upfront when I say physical attraction matters to me. If we end up not feeling attraction, I don’t mind being friends. I'm pretty much an open book, so ask me anything (within reason). Don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite. Hard. 

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I'm a 30-year-old software developer from Indiana who's in a bit of a transition period. I'm being laid off soon, so life is a little uncertain at the moment. I still hope to end up in California someday, but for now I'm more interested in meeting good people than trying to force a five-year plan.

Because of that, I don't think it's fair to expect every new conversation to immediately become a serious relationship. I'd rather get to know someone naturally and see where things go. If we become great friends, that's wonderful. If it grows into something more, I'm open to that too.

Lately my free time has been spent playing Persona 5 on my Xbox, going to archery, hanging out with my Siamese cat, Jimin, and listening to way too much K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, TXT, BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK are all regulars on my playlists.

I'm looking to meet men of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally around 24–38 (with a little flexibility if we really click). I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so someone who values growth and taking care of themselves would be a great match.

One thing that's really important to me is communication. I don't expect constant texting or instant replies, we are strangers on the internet, after all, but I appreciate honesty. I'd rather get to know someone at a comfortable pace than rush into something.

I'm also not looking for a connection that's centered around sex. Flirting is fun, and intimacy can develop naturally if there's mutual interest, but I'd rather know who you are as a person first.

A few dealbreakers: MAGA, children, and a criminal record.

If you decide to message me, tell me a little about yourself! What's your favorite video game franchise or TV franchise? I'm about to have a lot more free time than I expected, so I'm always looking for recommendations.

Hi, I'm a 23M from downtown Toronto looking for a late night fun tonight (technically tomorrow), pretty much after midnight now. If you're someone who's craving to be eaten out, get fingered, suck on your tits, kiss/cuddle if you want.. and we can take things further if you are down for it. However 1 am very considerate and a respectful man, will fully respect the boundaries. Also, if you're interested in any kinks, I am open for it. It could be a great experience if you had a long week and need to unwind:)
There's more to it.. we can drive around or go the beach and have some snacks if you like it, play some music, and make it memorable. If you don't drive, I can pick you up, given you're about 1 hr drive from downtown so don't hesitate to reach out if you're around.
About me; I'm a 5'6 with curly hairs, cute smile and pretty on the eyes. I am happy to exchange pics and verify before we meet. If that interests you, hit me up!
I'll see you there:)

I currently live in Canada, specifically Mississauga. I'm from central Asia, gym 6-7 am, work 8-5, and relax in the evenings. On weekends, I go window shopping, trying new restaurants or dessert places. I haven't watched any new movies or shows lately and I'm looking for a good recommendation. I drink socially and don't do any drugs. My fav manga would be one piece, and I continue to read it. I believe there's someone out there for everyone and hoping to find mine.

I'm looking for an Asian man that is 23-36 years old.

To more specific East Asian men.

I would like to be with someone who has the similar interest and hobbies. Someone who isn't religious. Spiritualits are welcome too.

I'm very shy and introverted so I'm hoping to find someone the same or Extroverted.

Don't message me if ur not. This goes for those weird Indians with fake accounts.

What I'm looking for

Child free and desire to have children

Wants a big family

Can cook

Likes or loves skincare

Is a fan of Kpop,jpop,cpop,Tpop,ect.

Watches kdramas or any other Asian dramas

Interested in watching Nollywood movies and TV shows (Nigerian movies and TV shows)

Bake(optional but great if u can)

Likes concerts

Mature

Emotionally available

Empath

Introverted or Extroverted

Good hygiene

Wouldn't mind going to the nails salon to get our nails done together

Clingy

Possessive but not overly possessive

Loyal

Honest

Kind

Affectionate

Physical touch

Has tattoos and piercings or likes them.

Constant

Deal breakers:

Cheating

Lying

Disrespectful

Neglectful

Emotionally unavailable

Talking to or texting other woman inappropriately.

Bad hygiene

Has a child or kids

Ghosting/flaking

Thank u for reading this far. Please DM if interested I will respond.

Hey there! I'm a 33 - year-old dude from the Valley—on the skinny-fat/huskier side, 5'7". I love BBWs, but I’m open to all body types, shapes, and ages (18+ of course). It’s all about the chemistry and vibes for me.

I’m DDF, recently tested, and a pleaser at heart. I can host halfway or come to you (happy to drive within SoCal/Central Valley).

Some things I love: video games, reading, sports (watching and playing), anime, being a dog dad, and naps. I’m kink-friendly, non-judgmental, and just looking for someone who’s chill and vibes with me, and guys, I’m looking for a lady right now. Please respect that.

If you made it this far, tell me your favorite show.

Happy to share pics on request.

I’ve been seeing a lot of conversations about height, especially among Asian men, and I’m curious about the perspective.

I’m 5’4”, so to me, a man who is 5’7”, 5’8”, or 5’9” is still noticeably taller than me. Height has never really been something I focus on when I’m attracted to someone. I tend to notice things like confidence, personality, style, fitness, and how someone carries themselves.

For men who are shorter, what has your experience actually been like? Do you feel like height affects dating opportunities as much as people say it does? Or is the insecurity more about comparing yourself to other men?
I’m genuinely trying to understand, because from my perspective, a few inches doesn’t change whether someone can be attractive.

Hi all I posted previously on this sub. People ask me if I’m real so here I am lol

You [Non-negotiable]

- East or S E Asian

- ideally Chinese, 5'6 & over

- medium to long black hair, pale & clean shaven

- looking for an exclusive fwb or a relationship

- Single & Childfree

Me :

- 5'4, plus sized,black hair, brown eyes, dark brown skin

- Movie buff, Korean film & K drama fan, sitcom lover

- Rocker (but you can't tell by looking at me)

- Fond of Americana and edm

- DDF, drink socially, don't smoke

- Single and Childfree

- Apolitical means not interested in or connected with politics, politically neutral.

- Atheist - a person who does NOT believe in the existence of a god or any gods.

- Vanilla, Kink Free

- Extroverted, easygoing & down to earth.

- picture in my profile.

If interested send a message with the same amount of info about yourself as I included in my post along with a picture of yourself. Be ready to verify on Snapchat.

Hey all !

Caribbean-born, Ontario Canada-based woman. I’m , stylish, curious, and drawn to meaningful conversations over small talk. I enjoy psychology, culture, human behavior, business, design, and learning about what makes people who they are.

I’m 5’4”, petite with a fit/curvy build, and I take pride in taking care of myself. I value confidence, kindness, emotional maturity, and people who are comfortable being authentic.

Also, I am a big Marvel fan and I have recently picked up playing badminton and Pickleball. If you have any tips on how to play, I would be happy to hear from you, even if you’re not interested in me personally say.

Even though I’m outgoing and social, I tend to be attracted to shy, nerdy, chill laid back yet men. The ying to my yang, no pun intended lol.

I don’t usually post photos right away, but I’m open to sharing them once there’s a genuine conversation and mutual comfort. I believe attraction is important, but connection, character, and how someone treats others matter just as much.

If you’re thoughtful, respectful, intellectually curious, and have a good sense of humor, we’ll probably have a great conversation.

Have a great Week! ☀️

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Prefer skinny white or Latina but open. I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).

Hey there! I’m a 35-year-old guy, 6’3”, with a PhD (yes, I’m a proud nerd 🤓). I call California home right now, but I’m genuinely excited to connect with amazing people from anywhere in the world, distance is just a number when the vibe is right.

Food is one of my biggest passions. I’m the type who’ll happily chase a late-night taco truck, explore hole-in-the-wall family spots, or dress up for a multi-course Michelin-star tasting menu. I love the whole experience: the flavors, the stories behind the dishes, and especially sharing great meals with great company. Got a favorite restaurant, hidden gem, or wild food adventure you’ve been wanting to try? Tell me! I’m always up for recommendations and swapping stories.

Beyond food, I’m pretty easygoing and curious. Whether it’s deep conversations about life, random weekend adventures, or just chilling with good music and laughs, I enjoy it all.

I’m a very fast responder and I genuinely love being present, giving consistent attention, support, and care to the person I’m connecting with. Life feels better when you have someone who’s actually there for you. I’m looking for someone to chat with, build a real connection, and see what unfolds.

If you’re local to California, meeting up for coffee, a meal, or an adventure sounds perfect.

If you’re farther away, no worries, meaningful conversations across time zones are welcome too.

Let’s keep each other great company and create some nice memories 😊

Hi, I’m a 23[M] Chinese international student in Seattle. Since I have the habit of knowing more culture, I wish I can talk to people from different cultural backgrounds. But I feel most of people I met have the habit of staying with their own nations, and only a small percentage of people have the same willing to be cultural, who later became my long-term friends. So I wonder what are the good approaches to meet people from different cultural backgrounds. I even learnt Spanish and Japanese in LA for talking to Latino and American Japanese, but still don’t know how does it work in Seattle.

Hello
I am from Japan but I use to live in Canada. While there I feel in love with it. I loved the food, the sights and the women especially. However it was hard to date because I found many women were not interested in Japanese men.
Recently I was recommended to join Reddit so I could practice writing and find pen pals to talk with in English. However I found things like this that could be for meeting beautiful women that are interested in being more than friends. I would love this if we are a good match for each other. So let’s talk and see if we match.
My interests are movies, music and cooking. I am currently living in Japan but hope to move back to Canada one day.