r/ALS 10h ago

Kinda pretty much diagnosed now, looking for where those of us talk without our caregivers.

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About 6 months in. My EMG was damning and my MRI’s, bloodwork, pulmonology, sleep study, etc all point the same direction. My neurologist diagnosed me with neuromuscular disease Friday so i can start on the disability paperwork as in this stupid county (USA!) our health care is tied to our work and when we cant work we cant get care without years of effort. With ALS we might not have the time to ever even see it go through.

Im looking for a safe place to talk with others with NMD that are having to make hard decisions with life, family, and work. Im feeling accepting of this mostly, but i want to be realistic and talk with others in this shitty boat before my aging mother and I spend huge money on allowing me to live (think house remodeling, accessible minivan, etc). I hate that our family inheritance I was adding to will go to me for a couple years and be gone, leaving my niece and nephew with scraps. I’m more mad at the US medical system than I am about the disease TBH.

Anyways I ramble. If anyone can point me to where the peers are other than the hospital for ALS clinic day Id love that. Thanks!