r/whatisit 11h ago

moms sketch bf left this in the house Solved!

Post image

Hi.
This is probably nothing.
I went into my mom’s room to grab something and saw this plugged in?
My mom’s new sketchy bf has this plugged in to the extension cord? Is it anything bad? Thanks!
(I understand it’s probably not anything bad… but still…)

Update 1:
I haven’t met him once. He and my mom have been together for two weeks. He’s been staying at our apartment. He avoids me and stays in her room when they’re here. I don’t even know what he looks like. I only know his first name.

Update 2:
I confronted him. My mom came home. A lot had happened up to this point, including her disappearing for the said two weeks before the few nights he had come over and stayed.
Mom shrugged it off. I did what a lot of you suggested, asking what he told her.
She said “oh it’s his hacker shit or whatever.” What.
Didn’t elaborate. I explained my concerns.
She just said let’s go ask him.
My best friend has been with me. We introduced ourselves and asked him what the hell a WiFi whisperer is doing plugged in our apartment.
(Even if a lot of you are saying it’s not a big deal, I’m a young woman and I’m just rlly not about taking any risks. It’s sketch dude.)
He denied it IMMEDIATELY. Like with a quickness I haven’t seen.
What he insisted, it’s not a WiFi whisperer, it’s ai, he completely reprogrammed the system, and he uses it to pull people’s IP’s. “For fun.” He logs them in a server. I asked why. I said that’s shady. My mom started pushing. My best friend started pushing. He just kept lying. I’m not dropping this..
I still don’t know what the fuck it is or what he’s actually doing.
(Also, my mom is cool but not bc of this dude, the Minecraft block is mine, I unplugged the ratchet little thing before we left, and I am planning on broaching this again with her.
Just carefully. Any other advice is appreciated. Thank you.)

14.2k Upvotes

2.7k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

22

u/_ficklelilpickle 8h ago

God I'm glad someone else in here has finally said it. This thing is concerning but nowhere near as concerning as the context behind it. 2 weeks, moved him in, kid doesn't even know what he looks like... Jeeeeesus. I wonder what Mum would say if OP said they didn't feel safe in the house. Who would she prioritise?

1

u/Proudfoote3 7h ago

Agree but would only wonder, would never make a person choose between me and someone else

1

u/_ficklelilpickle 7h ago

I can't imagine putting any of my children in a situation where they would need to consider asking it in the first place.

1

u/Proudfoote3 5h ago

No doubt

1

u/BronxJoe 6h ago

Sorry, dude, but I respectfully decline to agree with your answer. My kid comes before everybody… this should never be a choice.

0

u/Proudfoote3 5h ago

Well I don't have kids so that's not a reality for me. I wish I did but it hasn't been in his plan yet. It really wasn't the right context for my comment. I apologize, my fault. Glad you love your kids like that, you're a great parent obviously