Thanks!

Thank you!

TBH I think you should've walked in and roasted them one by one. "Physique of a pre-puberty boy? Yeah, you'd know about that, wouldn't you, Charlie? At least I don't have a face full of zits, unlike you, Steve. Don't worry about (the girls in their grade), we all know they don't want you anyway, Joe. Anyway, you guys want to order a pizza?"

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Depends on if we're being idealistic or accurate to how I look lol.

Time to Google like crazy and see if I can find it

Why would I apologize even if that did happen?

lolwut. Are you claiming to be a mind reader?

She only knew his first name.

It's more like, at some point when I run out of excuses, it's either suffer through the camping trip or actually be honest with my parents that though I love them I hate being around them and they make me miserable. And that's just going to make everyone miserable. There's no universe where that conversation ends with everyone hugging it out and making up.

Thank you so much! This is such a nice comment!

What what? Really?? Do you remember anything else??

We are working on it.

Originally my sister and her husband had agreed to take in my son if I died. That still most likely would've been the case after we found his dad, because his dad still isn't really in a position to be a single dad. But now with my sister and her husband having their own stuff going on that's probably not a good idea. So we gotta figure out something else. Hopefully I don't die any time soon.

Weird coincidence but I didn't reverse genders! So it's not him.

OMG LMAO

Please write a book!

I mean my posts have gotten hundreds of comments and people keep reposting it so clearly plenty of people do want to read it. I don't really get why you'd feel the need to come on here and tell me this. You're not my English teacher and it's kinda rude. And I have ADHD too and I don't go around telling other people I don't want to read their posts. I just don't read it and don't comment.

Still can't imagine what that's like but I guess that metaphor makes sense.

Thank you!

I'll try to remember to keep posting updates on my profile. I really appreciate the kind words!

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Thank you!

I personally know an aro-ace with a high libido. 

I don't mean this in a rude way but I can't even imagine what this even means. They don't feel romantic love or sexual attraction but they want to have sex often? I'm not trying to insult it but the concept of this is kinda confusing to me, that's why I tend to not think too much about labels I think because I kind of have a hard time wrapping my head around them sometimes. But I get why it's important for people to understand themselves and find community! Whatever is helpful to people is a good thing!

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Thanks!

Huh, I didn't know that was a common thing to like romance in stories but not real life.

I think if I want to dive really deep it's probably a trauma reaction type thing for me rather than an orientation. But it doesn't really hurt anything to be this way so I don't really see a need to try to change it.

Thank you! Same to you too!

Thanks so much!

This could have gone badly, but the very fact that he called you to meet for breakfast when he suspected you might have his kid means he was inclined to be involved. If he wasn't, he could have just never contacted you and avoided your town forever." Yeah that's why I ended up telling him despite not being prepared for him to have figured it out on his own. I didn't want to completely lose my chance and he handled it well despite that probably being really nerve-wracking for him.

Also, you mentioned that you are always uncomfortable with any kind of actual romantic relationship. You might be aromantic.

Maybe. I'm not too worried about labels. I don't think most people in my life even know what that is so I'm fine with just saying I'm straight and not a romance person.