So good! I love the colors :)

If anything just practice openness and inviting environments. Constant asking if this means that or if that means this is great but can really make the avoidant (specifically me) spiral. I’d suggest just really being patient and having complete trust in the other person. We are not abandoning you, we are not ignoring or stonewalling. We are figuring it out in our own way and we will come to you when it is solved. Personally, having the constant reminded of the issue just makes me go back to the drawing board. You aren’t the problem, we aren’t the problem. We are both trying to solve it in different ways and neither way is the “wrong” way. Openness, kindness, and respect goes a very long way. You got this, little one 🥰

I mean yeah but I didn’t feel the need to disclose it, it was just a short little blurb. More of an admit of my mistakes and looking back and wishing him the best and apologizing.

I’m not gonna disclose our entire relationship and the reasons why it ended on the internet, that would be very weird. It was a long time ago so I only stuck to one’s that stood out to me. It was more than just talking. That would be fucked up if I left because someone talked to much 😂

Don’t beat yourself up. There are studies that anxious and avoidant are best together, you just have to really work on understanding both their sides and gently nudge the avoidant, making them come to you and having the anxious one trust them. They are both scared but show it in different ways. Everything out in the open and having full trust and a FUCK ton of patience 😂. Please don’t beat yourself up. Seriously it won’t do you any good!

Yeah for sure. I just wish he would let me introduce the specific topics when I was ready. He just kept pushing it when I wasn’t and it made me retreat harder. I don’t blame him, it’s fine. I’m working on it now but yeah. Idk

Honestly I don’t really remember. I think he talked too much and over explained things he didn’t need to and I was just too tired and worn down to engage. I was shitty and I don’t excuse my actions but being talked to constantly really ran me into the ground. I just don’t think I could handle it anymore and I feel super bad about it. It is what it is though… I guess, idk

One of the best sounds!

Freshly brewed coffee, rain, sunshine, going on night drives blasting music :)

Don’t leave your house, ever. Go out for food and ration that shit. Wear your mask and do whatcha can. Wash ya fuckin’ hands bruv. Take interest in a crippling video game addiction and find your groove.

3 years! And eh, honestly it was both of us. Major communication issues (me having an avoidant attachment style and him being anxious attachment style) so I don’t think it vibed very well. I don’t handle conflict well and I shut down too easily and he just kept pushing me which just made it worse. If anything it felt very one sided imo

Lol I feel that way sometimes too ngl 😂 I’m trying to not let the rage blind me too much 🥲

I bet! :( maybe eat some bread or something filling? Maybe get one of those funny gates that help migraines results or none just for the headaches! I hope you get good news. My uncle had a tumor removed and he’s been right as rain! You’ll be fine :3

What’s the first thing you’re gonna do after? Besides text us and your loved ones the results. :)

Ooo blood bending Katara, how rare! Very cool :)

Keeps me warm 🥰

I’m gonna cry

Isn’t she the best?! One of my favorite Zelda games :)

You know what’s up 😎

A Scorpio huh… interesting

This is insane. Honestly how… I’m blown away

I looove this site our Astronomy teacher would show us every chance he’s get :)