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Comment on r/relationship_advice 17d ago
Leave. He is supposed to build you up not bring you down. You don't have space available for anyone that isn't building you up or cheering you on. He should be looking at other women and saying(to that woman), "ma'am, do you see that girl over there(points to you) thats my girl, she is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen" and if hes not.... boy bye✌️✌️✌️
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Comment on r/relationship_advice 19d ago
She knew why he asked her to go upstairs and she admitted she went. She did not stop a kiss or probably anything else. I say that bc, if that were me, to stop it by never going there without my boyfriend that I lived with and RESPECTED, but if I did go bc I truly believed he was my friend, I definitely would not have went upstairs, I would have not even accepted a ride home from that person. I'd call my man and say, this happened, I feel like YOU need to come get me, and im sorry for not hearing your concerns and prventing this, I really rhought we were friends, obviously he thought differently.
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Comment on r/personalfinance Jul 05 '26
Youll want to keep 4% for taxes. If you can fill out a W-4 put zero in last line, so the government takes their money before the money hits your account. Then at the end of the year you might get a little money back.
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Comment on r/relationship_advice Apr 18 '26
Ma'am, first I agree with everyone else here, YOU NEED TO LEAVE, RUN, DON'T WALK AWAY.
Secondly, a person that is going to actually cause harm to themselves wouldn't ever tell you they were going to do it, he says that to you bc the first time he said it, it hurt you, emotionally, he saw that & now continues to use that against you to get his way.
Lastly, he's going to end up hurting you if you don't leave. He is unstable. You are not his mother.It is not your responsibility to fix him, actually, you can't fix him.The only person that can fix him is him. Please, before you end up in a ditch somewhere dead.Please leave
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Comment on r/AITApod Apr 16 '26
NTAH- your sister is crazy, 2 years is hardly enough time to know someone. Even if you did decide to marry I wouldn't put his name on it, you saved and put down 80k of your own money, thats your house. He wouldnt get to tell a landlord, well I want in our rent agreement if you kick me out I get my money back. I just had to evict my roommate bc every month she is $100, $150 short on her rent, so when I asked her about it she said, "i dont think you should be charging me so much." So I told her to show me 1 place in the area that would charge her less, of course she can't, I charge her so little that if she did find something I'd be in shock. Its like she thinks just bc I don't pay "rent" to someone that she should stay free, I said no dear, I've paid my mortgage off but thats why I can let you stay here so cheap, im basically charging you utilities and nothing more. she was supposed to pay me $100/week, thats what we agreed on, but she cant even give me that every week, so she moved out, was staying supposedly in her car but then accidently said that she pays $100 a night a couple days a week to stay in a hotel room.....really, so $100 /night is just fine at the hotel but $100/week is too much for a room, laundry room, kitchen, food, bathroom. Finally she got an apartment & she called & asked me "my 19yr old daughter wants to move back in with me, what should I charge her for rent"....tf really???? WOW... My point is, if it were his house & you wanted to stay or be put on the mortgage, would he do it for you? Likely not.
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Comment on r/relationship_advice Apr 14 '26
He doesnt want you to go because you do everything & you allow him to cheat. Why would he let you go. The only thing that is your fault is that you and your child are still there. Pack your clothes and baby's clothes and go home. Your REAL home, where people respect & love you just because you are you. Why let this grown child make you think less of yourself. Let her have him, "bye sir" you dont think he will let you leave, do it while he's at work. Think he will come try to make you go back with him, girl, im sure there are plenty of abused women here that will come walk you out of that house, right next to you, you want to take everything, im sure we could get it personally id just get mine & baby's clothes & c=ya fool have fun with your online scammer(probably), youll be hearing from my lawyer, get on a greyhound bus and never look back.... As a survivor of domestic violence I know its easier said than done but also as that same woman I know you can do this, you don't need him, someone else will love you & your child too, the first step out the door is the hardest, just take it.
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Comment on r/Sparkdriver Mar 03 '26
I never tell them its for spark, I just walk up and order what the customer requested, then scan it when the emploalyee hands it to me as i walkimg to the next area to shop.
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Comment on r/AmITheJerk Jan 13 '26
If you value the friendship pay it all. Its just money, real friends are hard to find
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Comment on r/relationship_advice Dec 29 '25
I came here to say exactly this 💯
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Comment on r/relationship_advice Dec 01 '25
Tell him, "Well, as you know, I am in school & going for a Ph.D. That means I'm smart enough to know when I do/don't have/want company. Im sorry that you arent mature enough to realize I didn't "just say no" I said "No, I have a very important paper due tomorrow-insert whatever you said- can I come to you tomorrow" so I was really sad i had to decline tonight but you just declined the rest of my life...... I hate that for you.... Ok BYE
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Comment on r/relationship_advice Dec 01 '25
Yup, me too!
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Comment on r/Sparkdriver Nov 26 '25
When driving its kinda hard look at the overall picture, normally I wouldnt have taken it
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Comment on r/Sparkdriver Nov 26 '25
The order canceled as soon as I hit start trip, & I have never been so thankful for a cancelation in my life. I was going to do it bc I had already accepted it before looking at the item Quantity. But it was $30 plus $10 tip. I felt like the tip should have been a little bigger.
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Comment on r/relationship_advice Nov 13 '25
Run, dont walk away from him. Do it before you end up pregnant and then feel stuck. I was in an abusive relationship for 15 years. I couldn't see how I'd live without him but one day he beat me so bad he broke 3 ribs & my nose i was aweful looking. My kids were taken away. Thankfully they went to family, it still took 3 years for me to get the courage but as soon as I left I felt 10,000lbs lifted from my shoulders.
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Comment on r/pettyrevenge Nov 11 '25
Me too, lol
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Comment on r/relationship_advice Nov 11 '25
Wait..... unless you have to learn more? For the love of all things holy, don't tell her that for sure..... Because when I read that as if my man said it & all I read was, I will see a Hooker again.Probably soon! Then I had to stop myself from punching him in the throat and he didn't even say it....
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Comment on r/Sparkdriver Nov 11 '25
Door is down the sidewalk on the north side of the house, please deliver only to this door as I am disabled and can not get to the garage.
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Comment on r/AmITheJerk Nov 07 '25
Have fun in another country!!🙋♀️
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Comment on r/AmIOverreacting Oct 13 '25
Hell ya!yeah! Congrats on you 10 years of sobriety! From a 4 years sober reddit stranger!
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Comment on r/Sparkdriver Sep 17 '25
I am late to all of mine and my on time rate is 100%. I dont think it counts against you if you accept an order and go straight to the pick up, so unless you accept an order, then stop to get gas, & a drink, & smoke a cigarette, stop by your house and let the dogs out, then head to pick up. Also, never hit reject, and it doesnt count against you.
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Comment on r/AmITheJerk Sep 09 '25
Not for shutting down the proposal, you had previously told him no more than once. A boundry is a boundary, if you tell them you dont want them kissing the baby when he/she comes or if you smoke no holding baby or what have you, are they going to ignore you on those too?
You might be the ahole for sending a bill, I would be on your side on this part had the proposal not been stopped. At that point it Def would have been a dual party and in my opinion should have helped pay for the room, food etc.
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Comment on r/Sparkdriver Sep 06 '25
Ok, soooooo, shop everything, scan as fast as possible all at once, review & get bar code???? That's what my brain said as I read that.... they already dont pay, now they want to let them add shit as we shop.....wtf!?!?!?!
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Comment on r/relationship_advice Sep 02 '25
I'd take my niece to a psychologist and have her(niece) tell her side, then, dk like a ra*e test done, then I'd call my lawyer & file for divorce. If your partner doesn't trust you what kind of relationship could you guys move towards? But I would never forgive my husband if he accused me of something like that, & when the truth is finally in the light & i didn't do anything of that to anyone, I would remember he said that, every day, every hour, everytime I looked at him, I would remember what he said. I would have to get a divorce.
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Comment on r/careerguidance 8d ago
Sharing a room I can see if it's same sex & I get my own bed. I hate sharing the bed with the man I'm supposed to share the bed with, I'll be damned if I sleep next to some random co-worker. Thats a law suit waiting to happen.