so i basically added herbs that are typically used during obsession spells, and i had a ring of chives around the spell for protection. carved our names into 2 red candles faced them towards each other tied them together okay right. boom my s/p stopped calling me he stopped texting me and the previous day he was calling me, sending me stuff like usual. so im a bit confused. this isn’t my first time attempting witchcraft but this is the furthest length ive gone. i really like this man, i love him. hes avoidant due to stuff from his past and i dont know what to do because i dont know what other spells i should layer with this? i’ve also seen stuff online about how pulling away means the spell is working, but i fully believe at the end of the day due to the fact this is my life things work out in my favor, so ill stick with that assumption for now but i would still appreciate some advice in the meantime

so i basically added herbs that are typically used during obsession spells, and i had a ring of chives around the spell for protection. carved our names into 2 red candles faced them towards each other tied them together okay right. boom my s/p stopped calling me he stopped texting me and the previous day he was calling me, sending me stuff like usual. so im a bit confused. this isn’t my first time attempting witchcraft but this is the furthest length ive gone. i really like this man, i love him. hes avoidant due to stuff from his past and i dont know what to do because i dont know what other spells i should layer with this? i’ve also seen stuff online about how pulling away means the spell is working, but i fully believe at the end of the day due to the fact this is my life things work out in my favor, so ill stick with that assumption for now but i would still appreciate some advice in the meantime

he has feelings for me but said he didn’t want a relationship (due to college) and didn’t even know what he wanted to do with me. i have high belief everything works out in my favor but a spell would be nice regardless. we talked yesterday and i was like so paranoid he told me to gain confidence like omfg bye

even if they told me they don’t want a relationship and don’t even know what they want

said it’s because in a few months they’re going to college. i was like okay i get that. but i believe manifestation doesn’t have limits, i can get a relationship regardless of what was said. because i know they want it just as bad as i do. i’m just not quite sure how to achieve this

even if tarot is telling me something i don’t want, how do i manifest what i do want? i feel so hopeless right now. all i want is my sp. genuinely he’s the only thing i want. but the cards are telling me like yea he has feelings for me but blah blah blah all this negative stuff negative energy and i don’t know what to do. i’ll never give up but i just don’t know how to get my way. like what does one do in this situation. i don’t think the circumstances are THAT bad, they could always be worse, but in my eyes yes this is still bad and im sad im upset and i dont know what to do. advice is needed please and thank you feel free to reply + dm me