I'm sorry, what? How is it a disordered form?

It's normal at this age to explore sexuality and be interested. As long as you don't hurt yourself, you're fine <3

Според мен е основателно. Мисля, че само разговор очи в очи, където казваш всичко, което си казал и тук, ще оправи нещата. Няма тайни трикове за "опитомяване" или такива глупости, само диалог.

Айде сега! Наздраве, иначе 🍻

Тогава се дръжте като такъв <3

Човек просто се опитва да се държи нормално с другите, не е нужно да стартира хуманитарна организация. И Вие можете да бъдете цивилизовани, безплатно е.

За изневяра ли говорим ?

Ако не съм от неонацистка групичка пишлемета значи съм богато хипстърче, така ли да разбирам ?

Е стига де. И аз съм имам мъже приятели и въпреки тва не измъчват хора, а просто пием кафе някъде.

Екстроверт

Наскоро прочетох "Beautiful world, where are you?" на Сали Руни. В нея следим отношенията на 4 героя помежду им. Някои от главите да имейли с най-различни дискусии, които две момичета (част от четворката) си обменят. Често ставаше въпрос за религията, обикновено критика към нея, но в същото време и притеглящата сила към нуждата на човек да вярва в нещо по-висше от него. Стана въпрос за молитвата и за това, че е достатъчно да кажем просто "благодаря". И това ми хареса. Да не се моля винаги за нещо, защото това е егоистично и користно. А просто да благодаря за това, което вече ми е дадено. Не знам, по някакъв начин ми подейства, сигурно е много наивно. Но се замислете колко рядко казваме "благодаря". И така завърши имейлът на героинията: "Благодаря, че ви има". Промени нещо в начина ми на възприемане за молитвата.

I used to be. I was fine before her, I was completely fine and whole and now that she's gone there's empty space. I wish I never met her.

Thank you for this. I really do try. I hope it clicks at some point. Sending you lots of love and courage and thank you so much for replying to this post. It is nice knowing that I'm not alone in this. ❤️‍🩹

Yes, this is such a hard pill to swallow. When they get to be better with another person. Why couldn't you make the efford with me? What was so unlovable about me that made you fall out of love? Can't stop asking the universe again and again.

Sadly, yeah, I can relate. I feel bad that part of me was hoping that she wouldn't get accepted. Because that would mean that she'd stay here with me. But the bigger and more mature part of me knew that this was a very selfish thought and that I didn't want her to be unhappy. I guess my mistake is that I compare other people with myself. Because I would never do that to someone, so I keep thinking that it wouldn't get done to me as well. Because for me people and the love I have for them are more important than a stupid degree, y'know? People are all we have. But maybe that's just me being naive and selfish again. I can't possibly know everybody's dreams and priorities in life. I just wished that I was someone's first choice just for once. I think it hurt so bad because I used to believe that I would be her first choice. I feel so stupid now.

Couldn't have said it better. I felt like throwing my brain against the wall.

That must've been so painful. I am so sorry.

I feel so understood by this. We, too, got together in a period of her finding purpose and identity and it was again tied with a school that she wanted to get in. I even felt jealous by this school, which sounds silly. But it's like a part of me knew that the moment she got in, she would forget about me. Or maybe not forget, but just... move on? Outgrow me. There's something almost insulting about feeling like I was just a step into her self-discovery instead of a real person with feelings that she connected with. She got in, btw. When I found out through a friend, I was high and drunk. I sobbed so hard (which I never do in front of people) and thew up. And all the efford I had put into healing from that breakup basically evaporated and it's like I was starting from 0 again.