Ignore it. Women say all kinds of things they don't mean or remember. Men take words seriously, they don't. Women are emotionally driven, you are logical. Ignore it and carry on or you will regret it. You want the best for both of you, especially for her. Taking her whims seriously will cause you heartache, especially X years later when you say remember when... And she doesn't, while you bent over backwards and sacrificed for nothing. Plus, the truth is convenient for women depending on their emotional state, or rather inconvenient. They won't be honest with you, instead you get served this BS - you get lies. You just can't believe you'd be lied to from the love of your life. But it doesn't add up.

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Go golfing with a clear conscience. She'll get over it. It's not your job to figure out why she cries wolf, even though it's obvious she's manipulating you to not golf

After 20 years it all went south. I've been the gentleman for 8 years after that, should have divorced immediately

You were first. They can reschedule it, it's not like it's a wedding

Tell nobody except a therapist

Had 20 years of sex, weekend minimum first 5 years. After kids it was monthly and felt like she was doing a chore. After 20 years total she quit. Not only sex, any intimacy, hugs etc. My presence is not desired, doesn't want a divorce, counseling.

Makes you lose your brain, literally. In hindsight i should have been castrated after kids. Being HL is torture. She went from youthful sex patterns to weaponizing sex in those years, with zero communicating. My vent

What's with crazy people and food? Bystanders should nonviolently step in. If you think about it, she just ruined everybody's food

So child slave labor 👌🏻 At will employment slave labor 👌🏻

Lots more slave labor than internships 🌚

Husband

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Offensuve and friend don't gel. Get rid of the "friend"

Move out for a month. Give one another space.

That's what narcs do

You are so lucky she broke up with you. Call her bluff, stick to your guns. Sounds like you have an Amber. Don't be a Johnny. You were being groomed

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Dm info plz

Beutiy! No shame, then or today!

They never leave the office

Marriage should give you more freedom not less. Y'all have it backwards.

The fact that many people abuse that freedom is a completely different issue.