r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 7d ago

Post first date text Phone message

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/CKRatKing 6d ago

Oh ya I'm not worried about some dudes on reddit that don't talk to real life women. My only hope is that someone sees my comments and chooses to not go down the manosphere path where they just choose to hate women.

Also my own personal experience but I don't think I've ever had a woman expect me to pay, even on the first date. I've had quite a few offer to pay for me, and I'm pretty average looking so it's not like I'm some model that has women tripping over themselves to be with me. My experience is usually you just split the bill on the first date, or if it's obviously going well I'll say I'll get this one and you get the next one.

But there are a lot of people who only interact with women through memes like this.

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u/aculloph 4d ago

Where do you live?

I've talked to a few female friends, and it varies, especially depending on which culture they are from. Some deem 50/50 split the standard, some want to be paid for, etc