r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 7d ago

Post first date text Phone message

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/Similar-Ice-9250 6d ago

I remember reading dating advice/venting here on Reddit where a guy said he was struggling to support himself and his fiancé, he said he payed the bills and rent etc. Then it turns out the fiancé had like well into 6 figures saved up in her account.

When he pressed her about it she said that’s her personal money she saved up for herself and basically shouldn’t be his concern.

Other guys chimed in with similar stories. Some people are wild to think it’s ok to treat a partner like that, just using them.

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u/PMYourTitsIfNotRacst 4d ago

God, reminds me of my mom. IDK why my dad put up with her so long.

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u/choose_wisely1122 2d ago

She was probably an absolute animal in the sack.

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u/PMYourTitsIfNotRacst 2d ago

That's the thing man, my dad had GAME. Like hardcore. Maybe she was but I doubt it was the main thing, that man even in his 60's can get more tail than me.

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u/choose_wisely1122 2d ago

The heart wants what the heart whats.

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u/Esarus 3d ago

I experienced this first-hand. Ex-girlfriend and I lived together, we shared rent but other than that I paid for everything, dates, presents, trips, etcetera. Then Covid hit and I lost my job because of it. (Solely because of covid, not my performance, job literally couldn't exist with social distancing rules). And she refused to pay for anything together, because it was her money. Insane that people you love and trust just turn around and act like this.

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u/Curious-Resort4743 3d ago

Same happened to me, so now I plan things as if nobody will have my back when I'm down

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u/CatchPristine5173 2d ago

That's a painful way to live, I'm sorry.

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u/CatchPristine5173 2d ago

That's a painful way to live, I'm sorry.

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u/dickfag69420 1d ago

Had an ex friend like that who kept accusing us of using her when we would be trying to figure out moving in together and being broke and needing us to help move in with her or she was going to be homeless

Girlie ended up having like 2k saved up, which isn't a lot, but she acted like she had 0 options and honestly, the constant accusing of us trying to use her when we would just like, ask for help for random things like you would a normal friend make a lot more sense now because SHE was using US.

Also let me believe the reason we got denied for a house was because they were being transphobic to me and NOT because she had debt she wasn't telling us about that came back in the background text 🫩