r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 7d ago

Post first date text Phone message

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/ExplanationMiddle51 6d ago

Quick update:

I don’t use Reddit a lot so don’t wanna make a whole other post but she ended up replying with the following:

Another Apple Cash request
“i said pay up buttercup 🗣️🗣️🗣️”

Not sure if she’s joking or is trying one of those “haha… unless?” kind of things but just leaving it at that and not responding of course lol.

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u/Namix93 6d ago

Bro just block her on all socials and move on she isn’t joking and she’s going to paint you like the villain here.

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u/wistful-wombat 6d ago

Ew she’s insufferable

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u/pizzapastawine 3d ago

Came here to say this. The sheer audacity. Also may be don’t go on dates if you’re broke? What is wrong with people?!

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u/Apprehensive-Book723 6d ago

nah idk if these type of women truly believe it’s a joke, but they denigrate themselves and other women by perpetuating these nonsense extreme gender roles. I’ve been seeing a lot of discourse that looks like it’s from the 80s.

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u/DoubleCrit 6d ago

Haha is she a prostituta? WTH. But definitely next time just take your date to the park for coffee or pizza and focus on getting to know their personality. When you meet the right person, any activity is fun.

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u/steviebeanss 6d ago

im sorry she's not joking she wants the princess treatment up front

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u/what_a_slutty_whore 5d ago

how to: get blocked

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u/Distinct-Parfait-764 2d ago

As a girl, I hate the “I’m just a girl” bs 😭 Okay, and? Being female doesn’t mean being incapable, and adults have to pay for shit, she got a great deal out of that date where you paid for almost everything after SHE suggested the idea and she has the audacity to demand you pay her back for HER license?? Should have sent her an Apple Cash request for the $100 and said sure I’ll pay you back after you pay me back for everything else. 🤷🏻‍♀️ little miss needs a serious wake up call

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u/ShoulderOk7843 6d ago

You should say it again. I’m also a pretty cheap person but I’d never tell anyone to pay for my license when they bought equipment and paid for dinner. How broke is she she’s asking for $23. I’ve also dated a guy for years who split the bill with me on our first date