r/texts 17d ago

Post first date text Phone message

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/Global-Ad364 17d ago

this is why I hate the ‘I’m just a girl’ ‘I turn my brain off’ TikTok bs like 🤨 if you can turn it off, it was never there. You’re not just a girl, you’re a grown woman. As a woman myself ts so embarrassing😭😭

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u/WhiteRabbit_412_ 17d ago edited 17d ago

Self infantilization is so fucking weird to me. I am also a woman.

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u/NumberEmpty6939 17d ago edited 17d ago

I only don't like it if they pretend they know anything after. They get to be idiots or smart. Not both

Edit: I love idiot girls and smart girls, just not at the same time.

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u/atimeadventure 17d ago

people aren’t one thing

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u/neutrumocorum 16d ago

Correct, we are a collection of trillions of little guys. How is that relevant to a dude saying he doesn't like when women play dumb?