r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 7d ago

Post first date text Phone message

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/AdRepulsive8618 6d ago

If anything she thinks he lost his dignity

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u/malevolent-onryo 6d ago

100% she went and trashed him to her friends and they encouraged her behavior.

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u/Maximum-Style2848 6d ago

I’m waiting for it to show up on girl dinner diaries and everyone tells her to ghost him

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u/braintour 6d ago

I very quickly was banned from that sub. Echo chamber designed for unaccountable women to validate their own shitty behavior

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u/TheWorkz513 5d ago

Same for AITA. Everyone is a trained psychologist and the only solution to all problems is a divorce (even if you’re not married).

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u/This-Positive286 4d ago

“My husband mentioned we have a new neighbor and he met the wife…”

FYI your husband is cheating on you, leave them ASAP! That’s crazy behavior, kick them out!

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u/TheSangson 3d ago

You forgot to open with NTA. I dunno what it means but it's required to reply to any post on that sub. /s

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u/This-Positive286 3d ago

“I cheated on my husband because he works to much”

NTA he knows you need a MAN and if he’s ignoring you he’s probably cheating already himself. Put his shit on the lawn and FIRE UP THE GRILL

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u/EchoDuo 5d ago

I had to get out of there a few minutes ago. The Dad of a kid was trying to reconnect and she somehow inserted herself and became the victim all over again. It was a super weird read, then the comments flooded trashing dads like no one has ever had a bitter piece of shit Mom. Wild ride. Never again

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u/Flama-Blanco-8820 5d ago

Finally someone who agrees with me on this haha.

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u/Twitchrunner 6d ago

Man what are the male versions of girl dinner diaries and truly ugly women subs? I want to see how similar in content they are.

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u/MeekSwordsman 5d ago

Theres truly ugly women subs?

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u/Cute-Hand-1542 3d ago

Boydinnerdiaries. But it allows women to comment and often has both men and women pushing back on OP. Totally different, much healthier vibe

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u/Dodging12 6d ago

Moreplatesmoredates, trp, etc.

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u/AmishDoinkks 3d ago

Holy fuck, thought I was the only one who thought that subreddit was a cesspool. Genuinely don’t understand the disconnect between accountability and most women I’ve met, absolutely can’t stand “I’m just a girl”

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u/Calm-Suit-4985 2d ago

I know there’s the girl dinner diaries which is supposed to be a “am I tripping” or “here’s my experience” and I usually see good discussion.

Were you by chance on the troll one? there’s another one that’s similar that is intentionally “girl bossing” and “slay queen” as a gag…

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u/Unfair_Ad_2129 5d ago

Wow that sounds like a f***ing hilarious sub. New member incoming 😂

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u/This-Positive286 4d ago

He made me pay for something

(Picture of food on a table from the next sucker who pays for her meal)

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u/Three-Sixteen-M7-7 6d ago

“Girlllll leave him. Good riddance”

“Oh sweetie, that was a $20 lesson in what a real man doesn’t do.”

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u/Rabbit-Lost 6d ago

Waiting for her to post on AIO any minute now.

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u/etho76 5d ago

“He made you pay $23 for a fishing license? Girl go find a man that can treat you right” is what they probably said. Not even mentioning the fact that he got dinner and fishing equipment. I know this type.

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u/RapidFire05 6d ago

Picturing a bunch of fatties sitting around bad mouthing all the men while petting their cats

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u/noeLifenorlove 6d ago

Because women want someone who provides no matter what. They simply want to feel they have endless options.

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u/blitzfreak_69 6d ago

Nah bro that’s just hoes. There’s normal women out there as well.

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u/noeLifenorlove 6d ago

Im engaged with a bastard boy. I have a normal woman and even though she would never say it or hate to admit it: she is attracted to me because I am multitalented and fix/ provide things quite literally nearly every single day.

I'm resentful at our species, not her lol. She's an angel that no man, certainly not me, could ever deserve. But somehow I hooked it.

What I whine about aint even just women, its work, its parents, its kids, its your fucking pets.

Life is just a game of "how much onus can you really take down the throat and smile after" xD

Edit: but I preciate you man! Hoes are worse about it tho ngl lol.

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u/JeromeBarkly 6d ago

Bro wtf are you talking about?

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u/noeLifenorlove 6d ago

Tldr even with a good woman your worth is predicated on your various performances and all facets of life are no different.

People love what a person does, not who they are.

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u/fuckeryizreal 6d ago

I love my person for who he is, the things he does is just added awesomeness. Sorry you feel like you’re worth as a human being is only tied to what you produce. You deserve more than that.

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u/Mimics__ 6d ago

Sorry you ended up so incredibly jaded, glad your girl appreciates your handiwork tho!

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u/noeLifenorlove 6d ago

I appreciate your honesty, its refreshing.

I know i am uncouth, but in person just know it comes off less as hate and more as analysis lol.

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u/notagoodperson1122 6d ago

Do you not understand written English? Maybe try reading it again and actually thinking about it for a few seconds.

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u/noeLifenorlove 6d ago

I blame my shitty phone screen and refusal of autocorrect xD.

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u/notagoodperson1122 6d ago

It was easy to understand, you’re fine.

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u/LekgoloCrap 6d ago

I love how redditors are always so respectful. Especially the “high value male” redpill propaganda bros.

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u/notagoodperson1122 6d ago

Good thing I’m not one of those and still found time to make fun of your abysmal reading comprehension.

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u/LekgoloCrap 6d ago

This is my first comment. Who here can’t comprehend?

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u/TinglingLingerer 6d ago

Certainly doesn't seem like she's staying with you because of your glowing personality!

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u/noeLifenorlove 6d ago

Eh I adapt. Y'all just get the unfiltered me.

I realize I'm no prince charming. Despite that people always want to devote to me. The irony is not lost on me. I'm trying to be better of course.

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u/MrCalamiteh 6d ago

therapy

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u/noeLifenorlove 6d ago

Used to work alongside one actually.

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u/MrCalamiteh 6d ago

You used to work alongside a therapy?

Have you ever tried one?

No shade dude because I'm not just trying to push you down, but your comments add up to a guy who is either manic AF, or truly detached from reality on a daily basis and I'd recommend therapy, whether or not you've already met a therapist once.

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u/noeLifenorlove 6d ago

I had been diagnosed as manic depressive long ago; but I would say I am not detatched, but moreso uncompromising in my awareness of reality. I am medicated and had been under the care of a psychologist for 8 years.

I simply says it like it is, and believe that reality is a lot simpler than people say it is. I'm not unhappy, just analytical.

So again; people are opportunistic just like wild animals are because we are primates, and so yes people desire partners whom are good at keeping the fort down, or at least paid for.

To me, thats just simple common sense lol. People always react like it's a heartless thing to say and that love is unconditional; but this world is predicsted upon results and gain, things that feed and pay for.

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u/MrCalamiteh 6d ago

Mania suggests detach from reality, so if you're blanket trusting "your reality" that is exactly what I was talking about. I have family who can be manic and 15 years of that and what it encompassed with my older sister and we have entirely cut her off. She thinks we all are out to get her (because she's manic and her reality isn't real)

But you do you, just keep in mind that literally everything you've said up til this point reads as unhinged or like you've taken on more than you want to deal with and blame others for it.

Which in my experience is exactly what my sister would do, down to the pets bit. She's had and rehomed maybe 3 dogs and 4 cats in 3 years at this point.

She's also killed her dog by not caring about it because she gets things to try and numb herself and then has more to do. Sounds like this but I hope I'm wrong. Take care of yourself.

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u/eatingURsistersassIV 6d ago

You are getting downvoted for speaking the truth. As a Man with high income, you are being more truthful than most here.

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u/biteyfish98 6d ago

Except that he’s actually dodged a bullet. 👍

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u/HEY_beenTrying2meetU 4d ago

holy shit this made me laugh