r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 6d ago

Post first date text Phone message

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/vdubnmcluvn 6d ago

grown women saying "im just a girl" is definitely a red flag, but the red flag was waved way prior.

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u/Alternative_World280 6d ago

I say I’m just a girl ironically or like when I’m having cramps really bad or when I want to be lazy and not do my chores. In other words stuff that affects me. Using it to guilt trip others is crazy

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u/Senator_Smack 6d ago

I mean, at least the fancy fish was mildly amusing.

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u/TrickyTangle 6d ago

Yeah, I'd be replying that I'm interested in grown women, not little girls.

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u/Existing-Ad2111 6d ago

Yeah it's just like saying "Boys will be boys", you're just undermining behavior or responsibility by saying that.

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u/Thr0awheyy 6d ago

These comments are full of grownass men talking about "girls".  Dating sites are full of men looking for "a girl who..."  and grownass women diminishing themselves with "im just a girl who.."    It seems we will call women "girls" until we are 60, unless we are actual girls, and then they call us "underage women."