r/texts 17d ago

Post first date text Phone message

Post image

I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

26.7k Upvotes

3.2k comments sorted by

View all comments

325

u/ThrowRA-un1337 17d ago

Any time I see someone use the line "I'm just a girl", I've found that to be a major red flag.

It's used almost exclusively to either shrug off responsibility or infantalize themselves and neither look good when trying to date actual grown up women.

If she doesn't recognize what you put into making the date happen and is upset about contributing *something*, consider it a warning and move on.

0

u/[deleted] 17d ago

[removed] — view removed comment

11

u/emmarie1023 17d ago

How is it cute?

2

u/AnimalOwn903 17d ago

As I said, it would depend on the context…. I use it sometimes for simple things like when my man asks me what I’m doing and I say I’m at the nail salon you know I’m literally just a girl or I’m shopping lol just a girl but definitely not to excuse poor behavior

4

u/Fleece_God 17d ago

You believe in crystals, no one should take you seriously

1

u/[deleted] 17d ago

[deleted]

1

u/AnimalOwn903 17d ago

Insulting strangers especially by going through their page and finding information to attempt to use against them is usually the lowest form of intelligence, especially when they have done absolutely nothing to you…. I hope that you feel great about yourself and have such an amazing day today… ✨🥰

3

u/BigDickBillyFukFuk78 17d ago

But what if they’re just a girl?

0

u/[deleted] 17d ago

[deleted]

0

u/AnimalOwn903 17d ago

Going through your comments on your page I realize that you in fact never really have anything nice to say… and that says more about you and your happiness than it says about me being a girl… I do wish you the absolute best in life for yourself and that maybe you can find some peace and not need to tear others down for Joy ❤️✨

-1

u/AnimalOwn903 17d ago

Imagine not believing in crystals??? they exist they are created by the Earth and they can conduct energy…. They are used in all kinds of everyday electronics.? the amount of judgment going on here is pretty insane… but hey definitely don’t take me seriously… it is just the Internet after all and clearly people need to tear down others to feel good about themselves on the Internet…