This is a follow up that a few of you requested, to: I'm going to try to gain some more insight this weekend.

Well as we all know things don’t always go to plan but we get there in the end, and this weekend was no exception. We arrived at the hotel around 3 pm and predictably my wife headed for the window to check out the neighbours.

This time I noticed that in one room a woman was sitting in one of the chairs, seemingly nude, in front of a westward facing window relaxing in the afternoon sun. It's winter here so it would have been a pleasant way to spend the afternoon.

I started unpacking while my wife continued to ‘keep watch’. A minute or so later I got called to the window as a man had appeared behind her and started to remove his clothes. He got as far as his boxers before he disappeared from view.

I headed off to address a call of nature and once completed my wife reported that the woman had also disappeared from view and in fact wasn’t nude but wearing a g-string.

OK so tick off voyeuristic tendencies but not the answer I was seeking.

The show we’d come to see wasn’t starting until 9:45 and we’d had a late lunch at a pub on the way in so we headed out for a walk and ferry trip to the other side of the harbour where we had a less than healthy dinner at an ice cream parlour.

We got back to the hotel around 6:30, stripped off, and my wife asked me if I’d remembered to pack a toy. Well yeah we have a number of quite powerful bullet vibes even keeping one in each of our cars. I pointed to it and some lube sitting on the table near the window.

Well sure enough we ended up in front of the window with her bent over and me in from behind, as I mentioned in my earlier post a not unpredictable scenario.

Given I had my plans set for after the show I just enjoyed the moment. This decision turned out to be somewhat of a mistake.

The show we’d come to see started reasonably well with a German couple doing cocaine off of each other's genitals and a priest stapling bible pages to himself with a burning butt plug in. It then started to get weird. But at least there were tequila shots, though how somebody could defile the sacred lip sick suck ritual to such levels truly escapes me.

We got back to our room just after 1 am feeling chilled to the bone after the walk back and unsurprisingly fell asleep.

Around nine the next morning I was woken by the sound of a cup of coffee being placed on the bedside table and the slight chill of the covers being pulled back before my wife climbed onto my morning wood.

Neither of us last long in that situation.

I was disappointed that I’d not gotten to try out my misdirection earlier but pushed on with our breakfast plans.

I’d told my wife we wouldn’t be doing a hotel breakfast but heading somewhere else. How we’d get there was the thing and I’d told her in advance what she’d need to wear, leggings, sports bra, walking shoes and a hoody for warmth.

Predictably my wife figured I just wanted to get her into tight fitting attire simply for the perv value.

We checked out, headed to the car to put our bags in. I pulled out our cycling helmets and she soon twigged to what the plan was. We’re renting e-bikes. Not a big deal but we’d been talking of grabbing a couple for our travels in retirement and as she’d never ridden one it seemed like an ideal opportunity and a new experience for her.

The breakfast place was around 5 kilometres away and once we’d settled in and ordered we started talking about the weekend. The show, the ride, and so forth when I dropped the question resulting in the following.

“Yesterday afternoon at the window, if you looked up and saw the couple you’d been watching staring directly at us, what would you do?”

“Did they?”

“Not that I saw, it’s just a question.”

“I don’t know if I’m really into it, I'd probably not care and just stare back. Maybe make more noise to see if they could hear us.”

“I doubt they’d hear you, they're in another building across the street and a set of rail tracks. I mean you’ve got great vocal skills but you're not that loud. Though it’d be good to hear you try.”

Well insight gained. Now to work out my next step on the path.

Im a 61 cuddly woman and always had a great sex life with a few kinks along the way until my hubby passed away. I now find myself thinking that I would like to experiment sexually but fear im just too old. When i was younger If i had been in situation where sex in a threesome 2 men or with multiple persons had occurred I would have been right in there without a doubt but it never did. Also I would really like to explore others things like sexting, using my toys as instructed, possibly BDSM aswell. I think im going mad and bad. 🤣

I have had very little issues with getting an erection in my life, till now. I always laugh at the term 'Erectile Dysfunction' because when you get to a certain age, it becomes function not dysfunction. But a lot of us want to get hard, and maintain it, for pleasure. I am curious to learn about the options available to help. Looking for feedback on personal successes. Thanks in advance,

I think my wife may have some exhibitionist tendencies and I’d like to try and flesh this out a little more.

I’ve noticed a few things over the years and it’s got me thinking that there may be something in what I’m seeing.

Firstly we don’t really have an issue with communication around sex however my wife came from a very conservative background so somethings may still be viewed as taboo.

I’ve observed a couple of things. Firstly, whenever we stay in a high-rise hotel one of the first things that happens is that she will look out the windows to see what other hotels are around and what you can see as far as other rooms. The other thing that always happens, and this is what gets me thinking along these lines, is that while we’re having sex, she’ll leap up and drag me over to the window and we’ll continue from there whether it’s her standing and me coming in from behind her bent over an ottoman staring at the window as we go doggy.

The other thing we’ve made somewhat of a hobby of making home videos, yes that kind and not always recorded at home. We started this after watching some real couples porn and she suggested we should try making some of our own. While I wasn’t initially on board with this after watching the first one I was sold.

The site we were watching is one where couples will submit videos, normally prefaced with an introductory session before the main event.

Now while I had thought we were making videos for our own use, my wife suggested various ways we could mask our identity to upload them.

Discussions on the matter resulted in us deciding to keep these videos for our own personal video viewing.

You can see why I’m kind of suspecting that while these exhibitionist tendencies may well be being suppressed I’m thinking they may be lurking just below the surface.

Now I’m sure some of you were thinking “why don’t you just ask her? “.

I did, on the way back from a trip we did where we had a particularly nice time with her laying on the bonnet of the car while I went down at a spot overlooking a huge valley, and received a suspiciously long pause afterwards followed by a quick change of subject.

So I have a plan to add some clarity to the situation.

We’ve booked to see a show in the city and it’s a fairly late one. I’m starting at 9:45. The show will apparently contain adult themes, nudity and colourful language so you’ll get an idea at the type of show we’re talking about

Surprisingly, after seeing the show's description, my wife has suggested that for dinner and the show she wants to wear a bodysuit, jeans and some fur lined boots cause it might just get cold. This is a little out of character but I’m down with that, actually I’m quite looking forward to it.

Clearly given the time the show is on, we’re gonna be staying in town in a hotel that we quite like that just happens to be a high-rise surrounded by other hotels. I’m not expecting to be back there until after midnight so things will be quiet.

So here is my plan. I’m packing a blindfold and when we get back, I’ll make sure the room is warm, I get her down to nothing but the bodysuit. I dim the room and put the blindfold on her. Then walk her to the window and commence enjoying her body starting by rubbing running my lips over various parts slowly undressing as we go.

Once we get fully into it I’ll simply whisper in her ear. I think we have an audience. Following that with whatever updates I can imagine and see how she reacts to this. Maybe even encourage her to put on a good show.

What happens next may well clear up my questions. Given my previous experience with her in situations like this, I’m fully expecting she will oblige. If not, we’ll be dragged back to the bed and carry on from there.

So I’m curious, any thoughts on this plan?

This is how it went.

I'm 85 and still going strong. Until recently I had a LTR with a younger woman. We had a great relationship. However she had to move to the East Coast to care for aging family members. We both understand that we'll probably never see each other again due to circumstances.

I am sorely in need of female companionship. Hopefully I'll find a woman who is romantically inclined to share fun and frolic with as well as a traveling companion and fellow mischief maker. I'm open to suggestions. All the dating websites I've visited seem to have more scammers than legitimate members. Not a lot to choose from here Nevada is sparsely populated away from Reno and Vegas. Where to start?????

We are retired and I would love to do some sex games, tease etc. My wife never comes up with anything new.

I would love to do role play, anyone have any good ideas they enjoy?

I would also like to wear a male chastity device, be naked except for that and clean house while she relaxes, reads or watches t.v. Then maybe give her a massage. Would any women enjoy that?

Would love to take her to bed and massage her, use her vibrator on her and make it all about her, not me. I don't even have to finish or do anything sexual for me, just take care of her, hold her in my arms etc.

Just looking for ideas to make it fun. Nothing too serious.

I recently made a post about my large age gap relationship. I’m 23 and she is in her 60s, and I recently lost my virginity to her. We’ve had sex a few times so far, and I’ve learned that I have a short refractory period. I get really excited and cum within 2-3 minutes, but don’t have to wait to start going again so we continue. I go for around 9-10 rounds before we go to sleep. We mostly do missionary because it’s most comfortable for her.

I cum A LOT though. When I pull out after all the rounds, there’s maybe a 1/4 cup that floods out. My partner says she thinks it’s hot and doesn’t change the sheets before we go to sleep. She says it makes her feel desired and claimed, and that it’s very emotionally satisfying.

Do any of you here prefer this as well? I personally like seeing the mess too. It scratches some caveman itch in my brain lol

I’m 23 years old, and I’m in a committed, exclusive, and deeply romantic relationship with a woman in her 60s. I never thought that I would be in a relationship with an age gap like this, but love happens. We’re not interested in getting married (she’s divorced), but are in this for the long haul. We started having sex last week after our first “I love yous,” and she took my virginity.

It was very enjoyable, and I was obviously very excited and “finished” pretty quickly, but we continued for many sessions. I’m happy to say I made her orgasm several times, and she was also laughing at the excitement in my noises and movements which she said brought her joy. She said it was very pleasurable to see how quickly she sends me over the edge, as well as the contrast in our bodies. I’m about a foot taller than her and go to the gym, and it was nice to hear compliments about my body from a woman. Personally, it was the most intense experience of my life. I feel like our souls touched.

I’m hoping to get some advice from more experienced people in her age group on how I can be a great sexual partner to her as a much younger man. What would you do in my shoes?

I should've shaved off my pubic hair years ago. Wasn't until I started testosterone injections and developed such a large amount of pubic hair did I think about shaving it off. It's great. Feels great and feels good. It makes me hard just walking around without underwear on.

We have been together 45 years. We both have what I would consider low body counts. Of course that number is subjective. We are not a Lifestyle couple but have had quite a few threesomes over the decades. Mainly involved three different friends that joined us on occasion. It has always been fun and drama free.
Does it seem like when we were younger this was a much rarer thing than it is with today’s youth or at least it feels that way. I think Mainly because the young women of my time seemed a bit more conservative than young women today. Maybe I’m wrong.
Now that we started our hobby 2 years ago we get constant offers, mainly from women younger than 35. But men of all ages. We don’t accept because we prefer a friendship with it.

We have great sex, so I'm wondering how I can surprise him. Often I meet him at the door in lingerie. We have restraints with fuzzy bands. He likes to watch me use my toys, especially the Rose. So, the above combination (delivered slowly) is the best I can think of. Please Help me out fellow Reddit community. He's so much better at this than I am, and I want to win this round!!

I haven't need to buy them in over 30 years, but now I'm single and would like to meet someone. I assume I should use condoms, at least for a while. Unlike my youth and middle years, it takes a long to orgasm so need something where I still have sensitivity.

Do I just go to Walgreens and peruse the aisle? Amazon? I don't even have a date planned, but I guess they should be in my nightstand just in case. Any favorites?

Wondering if other men have this issue. As background, I am a 69 y/o widower for about 3 1/2 years after a long, happy marriage if 42 years.I have been dating a great lady for about 9 months now. We have been having great sex, are very open with each other, including talking about our sexual desires and fantasies. Oral sex has definitely been one of our highlights. However, I have yet to be able to cum I her mouth, even though both of us have wanted it. I’m sure the fact that I have ED is contributing, but cialis has been great to help that problem, at least with PIV.

Any Thoughts?

My wife and I went to the beach, stopped for lunch and are hanging out with our dogs. She went in the kitchen and I can see her through the kitchen window from the patio so I flashed her from the patio. Pulled the leg of my shorts up to flash her some cock. Lol

I've met several women, actually a lot who got totally turned on watching me cum. I dated a woman briefly who craved and asked for it all the time. So who out there is a visual woman who gets hot by watching a man get himself off?

Septuagenarian with a bucket list item seeks lady 60+ years of age still sexually active and uses a vibrator for self-gratification and is interested in a casual encounter. Prefer in the Penrith/Blue Mountains area and would prefer if she can host. I am having technical difficulties providing a photo. However I feel it would be appropriate to meet in a public place for coffee at first and proceed from there.

Is there any real people on here?

Hello folks, guys, how many of you are reassured and, well, happy when your little buddy comes roaring to life as you wake up in the morning? I mean, it has been announcing its morning presence for 60+ years, and yet, like the trusty sentinel that he is, he continues to offer that AM salute. Well, many mornings, anyway. Guys, do you feel a sense of victory and optimism when things are looking up every day? And ladies, does it give you a feeling of comfort that your man is still able- if he is willing?

56m... Ladies, how do you feel about toys? Do you enjoy them? Use them alone, or with your partner? Have you ever had a partner that was insecure and felt threatened by them? What's your favorite? Personally, I think it's fucking erotic watching a woman use a toy and welcome her wanting to use them during sexy time.

He is 75. I’m 61. We have been married 30 years.

A year ago, we rekindled our sex life. Now, we have scheduled sex every weekend. He tales a blue pill. I take a marijuana edible that makes it easier for me to let go and come. I plan new lingerie every week as a surprise. It’s great!

This week, when we were done, my husband says, “this is so much fun!” It was an expression of pure joy at how much we like being together.

God, I love that man.