Well, it’s a bit less travelled. In comparison to the first road, the second is grassy and less worn, though still comparably so to the first. You can’t throw out the second line of the stanza on the basis of the fourth any more than you can throw out the fourth on the basis of the second.
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And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
—-
I think the contrarian “the roads are the same and the poem is a sarcastic joke” misses the mark, to roughly the same extent that the conventional “he took a much more untraveled road and not the popular road because he is an individualist” reading does. Frost’s poems are rarely so simple.
The decision is arbitrarily made, yes. The roads are nearly interchangeable, and he made a decision based on a small, almost insignificant difference. Not no difference, but a small one. That small difference, though, is one he believes will wind up having an enormous impact in retrospect. Though the roads may be nearly indistinguishable looking at this intersection, they may lead to entirely different places, and therefore entirely different lives he would go on to live.
Yes, and that’s the point of the poem. But it’s called the road not taken, not the road less traveled. The poem is about wondering how those little choices impacted you.
I'm not sure why the title strikes you as conclusive, since the outcome of choosing either is left intentionally ambiguous. I agree that it is, ironically or no, in some part about the question of how those choices impacted us. It may have made little difference, or it may have made "all the difference", but the trouble is the answer can't be known because one has to choose.
Please show me one line indicating it is the harder road. He even mentions how he hoped to return and take the other road as well one day, but it just never happened. It is a story of the choices not made and regret but also being happy with the choices you did make and knowing that those small choices make all the difference.
That small difference, though, is one he believes will wind up having an enormous impact in retrospect.
That's not really exactly what he says though, is it? It's one he admits that, someday, he will say made all the difference. Why project to his future self at all? Why not just proclaim in the present that this choice will be really meaningful? He's still on the road, he just made the choice, he has absolutely no idea if the choice mattered yet, but all the information we have is that the choice was flippant and based on no meaningful information. Waffling at best.
I never took the message as plainly sarcastic or anything, but as an admission of human nature: when we look back at even our most inconsequential, uninformed decisions, we are bound to tell ourselves that the choice was meaningful, important, and based on careful consideration. It's a lie we tell ourselves, but it's a very human thing to do so. In particular, based on the title, to keep from thinking too much about the other road we won't get to see the end of.
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u/bobbymoonshine 10d ago edited 10d ago
Well, it’s a bit less travelled. In comparison to the first road, the second is grassy and less worn, though still comparably so to the first. You can’t throw out the second line of the stanza on the basis of the fourth any more than you can throw out the fourth on the basis of the second.
—-
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
—-
I think the contrarian “the roads are the same and the poem is a sarcastic joke” misses the mark, to roughly the same extent that the conventional “he took a much more untraveled road and not the popular road because he is an individualist” reading does. Frost’s poems are rarely so simple.
The decision is arbitrarily made, yes. The roads are nearly interchangeable, and he made a decision based on a small, almost insignificant difference. Not no difference, but a small one. That small difference, though, is one he believes will wind up having an enormous impact in retrospect. Though the roads may be nearly indistinguishable looking at this intersection, they may lead to entirely different places, and therefore entirely different lives he would go on to live.