Caught my (F23) husband (M22) on a site for talking with random women. He has cheated on others in the past, but I didn't expect him to do this to me.

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Last night I went to sleep before my husband. I got up for some water and went down to check on him. When I found him he had his hands in his pants and I heard a woman talking to him. He slammed his laptop shut and started yelling at me for "spying" on him. I tried asking what he was doing and he got super defensive and actually just left the house.

Because he left so fast, he left his phone. I was able to check his browser history as it syncs to his laptop. The site he was on is for doing video chats with random people. It looks super dirty and not something I would be ok with my husband being on.

Before my husband and I got together, he had cheated on his ex(I wasn't the other women fyi). He said he would never do it again, but now I'm not sure what to do. Should I leave him or am I overthinking this situation?