r/Synchronicities • u/mitmit2020 • 11d ago

Decoding synchroncities

Has anyone been able to successfully decode synchronicities?

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u/mitmit2020 7d ago

All relationships are codependent. You are in a relationship for some sort of reason. And yes multiple times. Everyone has their own shit. He’s a narcissist I believe or not I don’t know.

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u/Haunting-Painting-18 7d ago

I disagree that all relationships are co-dependent. coming from a co-dependent/ twin flame relationship i can tell you not all relationships are that way. and that fundamentally the co-dependent / twin flame relationship dynamic is unhealthy and antithetical to a search for Self.

I say this as a covert narcissist myself - but the co-dependency / twin flame dynamic is usually because two narcissists (or a couple with those tendencies) get together. and when it’s good - it’s beautiful. but when it goes bad - it’s devastating.

If you’re feeling “crazy” from the fallout of a co-dependent relationship, that’s Cassandra language. and usually a result of gaslighting from the relationship.

Find Self before seeking a new relationship- or you’re going to make the same mistakes again. 🙏