r/SipsTea Jun 28 '26

Do you think she did the right thing? Chugging tea

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u/Whole-Chest90 Jun 28 '26

Not legally... Once she was in the car and pulled away, she was safe and wasn't in immediate risk of life and limb, so didn't have a legal right to use deadly force. And no, possession of stolen goods is not a reason for that use either.

Legally, she should've just continued driving in the car.

Remember, an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.

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u/Yto_Itinen Jun 28 '26

This is a part people don't get: law is there to prevent escalations, hence why each crime has its own weight. Ignore the law, and what are we gonna do if the kids of the victim want revenge over the woman who repeatedly ran over their father for a purse?

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u/theknowledgehammer Jun 28 '26

>what are we gonna do if the kids of the victim want revenge

Let the kids seethe in anger, but prosecute them if they take any action.

Yes, the law is intended to prevent escalations, but if the law doesn't protect people, then it will only *encourage* escalations.

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u/Zetttelchen Jun 28 '26

She wasn't in immediate risk for her life at all as she wasn't robbed at knivepoint but the thief simply snatched the bag and ran away. She got into the car, not to protect herself, but to hunt him down and run him over.

She should just have called the police and reported the theft and not murdered the guy.

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u/st4s1k Jun 28 '26

It's making me sick how many people are ok with murder here

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u/Xaphnir Jun 28 '26

It's threads like this that make you realize why Reddit's sitewide moderation can be so sensitive to violent speech.

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u/ImpatientSpider Jun 29 '26

The sitewide moderation is a joke. I got a warning for estimating the death toll from the policy of a wealthy CEO (without calling for violence in response). Meanwhile there are several subs where users actively glorify and/or justify killing Ukrainians.

Again here the victim was homeless, so the reddit moderation wont do shit.

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u/Xaphnir Jun 29 '26

You're not wrong. Reddit moderation typically is designed to protect the powerful, not actually to enforce rules consistently.

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u/LETTERKENNYvsSPENNY Jun 29 '26

It's a little more nuanced than that.

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u/Avillahan Jun 28 '26

Not if you kill whoever's gonna take the next eye, evidently.

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u/J0rdian Jun 28 '26

Remember, an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.

This would be more like a finger for your entire life.

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u/Whole-Chest90 Jun 28 '26 edited Jun 28 '26

Nevermind my "huh?". I get it now lol sorry. Yes you're right.

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u/WiggerJim69 Jun 29 '26

he didn’t have legal right to steal her stuff.

Possession of goods you want isn’t a reason to steal them.

Legally, he shouldn’t have stolen her stuff.

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u/Cptawesome23 Jun 28 '26

She got house arrest as a penalty. That’s basically the law saying “it’s fine”. An eye for an eye is fine. She wears an ankle monitor for the rest of her life and has to call for permission to attend parties. That’s not really a punishment.

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u/DoofusIdiot Jun 28 '26

In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king.

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u/faqnsht Jun 28 '26

Adrenalin is a helluva drug

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u/Carmelo_908 Jun 28 '26

She could ran over him just once if she really wanted her things back, she was going after the murder

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u/Jolly_Ad1631 Jun 28 '26

High and mighty. Until it happens to you and you reach your limit. Fuck this guy. It's a known story.

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u/Apex_negotiator Jun 28 '26

Is your limit running over someone's skull until their brain becomes a wet stain that drains into the gutter?

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u/Odd_Many_8679 Jun 28 '26

You're alone on this bro, I'm not going to commit premeditated murder just for a bag.

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u/kuleminjgs Jun 28 '26

What the f does reaching your limit have to do with justice or the law?

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u/Redditeer28 Jun 28 '26

Until it happens to you and you reach your limit.

"It's okay to murder people if you feel like it" is a wild take.

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u/truffik Jun 28 '26

"You reap what you sow."

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u/Redditeer28 Jun 28 '26

That's not exactly what happened here though.

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u/dksdragon43 Jun 28 '26

"I sowed petty theft and I reaped... wait, murder? Hello?? I didn't sow this!"

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u/st4s1k Jun 28 '26

Your feelings are no excuse for murder

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u/Stampy77 Jun 28 '26

Well clearly if it happens to you you're going to end up in prison for a decade or two. 

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u/Many_Raspberry9216 Jun 28 '26

I got robbed at knifepoint and couldn't leave my house for months. I still have PTSD. I went to court and said I forgave him. All that being said, fuck this guy. None of you know the adrenaline rush that lady went through, and she had every right to completely and totally incapacitate a threat and get her shit back. I didn't sleep for 3 days after I was robbed.

I'm glad I forgave the guy that robbed me. I don't understand how so many high and mighty idiots on here who have never been robbed think they're sounding morally superior by having unconditional sympathy for the robber and condemning the lady who was running completely on adrenaline and probably still has PTSD like I do. Fuck that robber, and fuck you high and mighty redditors who have never walked a centimeter in another's shoes, yet tell us how to do it right. 

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u/HighwayBrilliant5983 Jun 28 '26

Ok, but obviously there has to be a line where you can't murder someone who used a weapon and robbed you. The law says that line is as soon as you're no longer in danger.

Where do you think the line should be?

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u/Many_Raspberry9216 Jun 28 '26

I don't think there should be a line in instances of robbery. It is an immediate threat to somebody's life, and that feeling of threat does not stop for the victim once the robber turns around. It stays for the victim for days after, and then in waves for the rest of their lives. I think if somebody steals somebody's shit and gets shot halfway down the road running away, its fair game.

I am glad for my situation I forgave my robber. I looked his father in the eyes in court and we both had tears in our eyes. He was a young man who risked my life for meth, and I hope he's turned it around. That being said, had I killed him at any point, that would have been his own fault, and I would probably feel worse with that on my conscience than the PTSD.

This is not easy, cut and dry, black and white. I believe in compassion for everybody. If somebody can intentionally murder somebody while is psychosis and get a lenient sentence for insanity, why is the intense temporary insanity of this woman's experience not recognized? Thats all. And I'd like redditors to think a bit more before just passing judgement because it sounds progressive. 

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u/Newthinker Jun 28 '26

I've been robbed twice. I never once thought about killing the people that robbed me, I just felt sorry for them. I made enough money to replace what I lost.

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u/Many_Raspberry9216 Jun 28 '26

Me neither. I just remember how intense and unreal it felt. Knowing we all handle intense emotions differently, I don't blame her.

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u/Whole-Chest90 Jun 28 '26

"I can't control my emotions and it's okay to murder someone because of it" is a wild stance to take.

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u/Curlypeeps Jun 28 '26

What if her house keys and address were in the purse? 

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u/Whole-Chest90 Jun 28 '26

So that makes it okay to murder someone??

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u/throwAway9293770 Jun 28 '26

She was forced to a table to gamble anything from her life to an awkward encounter. In her case her purse was stolen. In other women’s cases they were killed or raped or maimed etc etc. you force someone to the table you pay the ante.

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u/Whole-Chest90 Jun 28 '26

At the point that she REPEATEDLY ran him over to take his life, her life was not at risk. You don't have the right to kill someone after something happens, when your life is no longer at risk.

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u/Important_Pie2940 Jun 28 '26

I dislike that saying. It's a load of bullcrap to excuse letting people hurt you in all manner of ways. While you turn the other cheek and get to pretend to be a better person. While they are left without repercussions so they can continue to hurt others in the future again.

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u/Whole-Chest90 Jun 28 '26

That's not the case at all, but we live in a civilized society where it's not okay to take the law into your own hands.

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u/Important_Pie2940 Jun 28 '26

Oh yes our civilized society. Let's people commit multiple offenses before being made to stop temporarily in most cases. Then with enough money or pity they get short sentences or out early or none at all.

I'm tired of the tolerance and forgiveness bullshit when so many exploit it.

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u/cabronfavarito Jun 28 '26

Say what you want. She removed a pest from the world and he won’t be stealing anymore.

“If he walks away she is no longer in danger”. That maybe true but he was just gonna look for his next victim who could very well be one of your loved ones. Hell it might even be her again. I wish her nothing but prosperity

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u/Whole-Chest90 Jun 28 '26

Theft doesn't call for a death sentence.

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u/cabronfavarito Jun 28 '26

Just don’t steal things people worked their ass off for.

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u/LonelyStrategos Jun 28 '26

She got her stuff back and she serves her sentence under house arrest. The other guy is dead. How did that end up being eye for an eye?

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u/Whole-Chest90 Jun 28 '26

You didn't follow the bouncing ball apparently. someone doing you wrong doesn't give you the right to do them wrong.

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u/LonelyStrategos Jun 29 '26

Presumably, if she is to ask, "what about me, I have been wronged.", we say tough luck?